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If you haven’t cheated on him with J, why not just go no contact with J? The new boyfriend doesn’t need to know everything about your past.
Women do it too. It’s more about morals and principles. Unfortunately no matter the gender, there’s quite a few duds.
Like others have said, instead of communicating or even ending the relationship, he chose to cheat, lie and deceive. If you attempt reconciliation (R), then he needs to take 100% responsibility and show true remorse for his actions. Nobody forced him to cheat. This is all on him.
Since you wanna stay with him, maybe have a look at the sub r/AsOneAfterInfidelity. They have some good resources regarding how to move forward and what’s important. Plus you’ll encounter people going through similar things. But, if he doesn’t admit that his cheating is only on him, then I don’t see this working. Because as soon as you have any other problem he’ll have another excuse to do it again.
Have you shut him out? It sounds like you’ve tried to initiate intimacy and he’s rejected it repeatedly. Why do you not go out together?
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Why do you think this?
It isn’t a joke. It is an actual thing and is misogynist and harmful.
OP can do as they wish
If you think this is too outrageous to be true, then you’re not listening to women or doing any reading.
Emotionally loaded topic? In relationship advice? ?
WDYM? It’s not like this is an unknown thing ??♀️
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Fuckers that would leave their girlfriends to die, probably.
Your girlfriend was a victim of revenge porn and you’re thinking about how much it hurt you? Seriously?
I’d look up legal advice to press charges against the ex and forget you ever saw it. Your gf shouldn’t have to apologize or make you feel loved for seeing the video when she just had a major breech of privacy. You’re making a situation about yourself and doing exactly what her ex wanted- ruining your relationship with her.
Be the bigger person and press charges against the ex. Your gf should get a no-contact order from him as well
I'll definitely be doing this as soon as I feel comfortable enough to speak to him about it.
That's all well and good, and also understandable.
The thing is though, she won't have to make said choice if she never even knows she had to.
What they don't know doesn't hurt them.
What is happening here is creating an issue that is completely avoidable if approached rationally and without this pointless emotion BS
That's all I am saying.
You never should have married or had children. You're complete opposites.
This relationship is full of red flags.
You need to focus on what's right for you and your child.
You have internet access. Google your nearest womens domestic violence shelter. They can and will help you.
Your (hopefully soon to be ex) bf is abusing you.
But the problem is, she will stay home and he wants his mother there. It's easy for someone on Reddit to just throw it out there like it's black or white, it isn't. If you love both your parents you are doing everything in your power to make it work. Plus he is indifferent to dads gf. I think his dad has a good alternative. The 2 main people he wants at the wedding will be there, then at breakfast his dads gf can accompany him to that. Not obviously a total win situation, but it is making lemonade out of lemons.
It also helps the boundary haver. If I say “you are not allowed to go to lunch alone with a woman” and then you go to lunch with a woman, my next step is not clearly defined. Instead I argue. “You did the thing I forbade you from doing!” It becomes an argument. I might back down. Give in but now feel frustrated, unhappy and powerless. Confused with what to do to “fix it” and “get what I want”
If I say “I won’t date someone who goes to lunch alone with a woman” and then he does it. It’s simple. My next step is clear. There is no frustration or confusion. I might be sad that what I hoped for didnt happen. But I know what I have to do now.
It's nothing to do with bipolar. What she said actually makes sense, it's just that the OP in particular didn't understand it. If I were pushed to diagnose I'd guess maybe on the autism spectrum, some people with autism are so centric that they assume that if they know something then everyone else does too, hence leading to the frustration she's experiencing.
Great advice
what does move forward mean? marriage? kids? house? some people don’t value that, it’s smart to talk about those things at the early stages of relationships so you know what each others goals in life are. it’s never too late for people to change their mind but you can’t force them. if you love each other you will either set each other free so you can each respectively on-line the life you always wanted or work it out and compromise because you can’t be without each other.
The ambition she lacks is in general. She doesn't really have any goals.
She does work from home for 8 hours, but beyond that she doesn't really do much.