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Ange and Luci, 19 y.o.
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Date: November 1, 2022
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So to be clear, you found out he had a gf and didn’t care until he blocked you? That was the point that you decided his gf deserved to know?
Hey, I walked in on my fiance with another man in a hotel room. I understand the deep betrayal ?.
The best thing for you to do, however, is to move on. You get STDs from strangers. Your boyfriend got his from one, and you got yours from another.
Wash your bedding, wash your clothes, clean your home. Take the medicine the doctor prescribes. Call your trusted loved ones and friends, and confide in them. Take your boyfriends things, bag and box them up, don't fold the clothes, put them in a trash bag. Don't break his things pack them away, and prepare them for curbside pickup. Have a friend be there to coordinate with your boyfriend so you don't need to be there to talk to him directly.
Use the same friend if you can, if not, find another willing one, to go the boyfriends place, to collect your belongings, make a list for your friend, give them pictures of said items if you have them.
Once your house is clean, the boyfriend things are packed away (this includes memorabilia-trust me-) and your friends are on standby, prepare your friend who is going to pick up your things, by asking your soon to be ex if you are able to come over right now, you have a few things you need to pick up. Then, don't go yourself, just send your friend.
Once your friend is at the house and your soon to be ex realizes the situation, don't call him, text him, that you need to break things off for health concerns and that it is not safe for you to continue your relationship together. At this point you can recommend that he get tested for STDs. You make that recommendation one time, and never explain why, he knows why, and it doesn't matter what he says one way or the other. You have his things ready for pick up, and he can coordinate with your friend as to when he will pick up the items, provided it happens within the week. After that, the items will be left outside unattended.
Once you do that, go and spend time at your family's place, or with a trusted friend for a few days. Until all the items are where they belong. Block his number, and any other direct social contact you have with him. Then you can go back home. If he shows up, you can ask him to leave one time politely. If he pushes past that, tell him if he hasn't left in the next two minutes, you will call the police. If he says anything else, call the non-emergency number and request an officer come and trespass him from the property.
That is the best way to insulate yourself as I can imagine. I know you loved your partner, and you still love your partner, but if he will betray your trust in the most intimate way, what way won't he betray your trust in the future? There are better men out there who love you and appreciate you for who you are if they get a chance to meet you and know you. Not every man is a dog, but there are many.
Sure you can why not?? You can leave her for whatever reason, however silly or legit reason it may seem. You have no obligation to stay with her.
It's just a weird excuse that he's had you believe so that he can sleep around with whoever he wants. Success is not being able to sleep around, success later in life is being able to hold a committed, healthy relationship and being able to provide for you and your partner and maybe even your family eventually. He's playing you, and you deserve more. If you were interested in seeing other people too maybe this would be okay, but it's not.
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Nah… Just stop having sex with her. Stop seeing her all together. This isn't one to save.
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Tell him about her cheating. It's the right thing to do.
It means you're cheating. And you're blowing your 5 year relationship.
If your more interested in the details: your brain makes feel-good chemicals when you're around new girl. These chemicals evolved to get people to reproduce- actual long-term happiness is irrelevant. You feel these chemicals because she's new. Over about 2-3 years of exposure to someone, these chemicals stop working. And that pretty much lines up with the riskiest time in a child's life. Basically- your brain is lying to you to get you to make a baby with this girl. Your brain doesn't care about long-term happiness or how you'll feel about yourself knowing you're a cheater.
Do unto others … tell your friend her husband seems to know. Give her a firm, short timetable to tell him or you will. Maybe respond to him and set a date to meet with him pending your friend’s response.
You have 2 children, pregnancy is risky, I don't understand how she could risk going through with a forced pregnancy and possibly compound more tragedies on top of each other. What if there are complications? What if the child is special needs? This sucks. A paternity test is step 1 though, good grief.
He keeps quitting jobs, he can't afford to have a working car, and he's mooching off his family.
Sure, maybe he will try to get his life back on track, but OP does not have to waste the next several years of her life with this dude waiting to see if it's going to happen or not.
Thats actually a good point, breaks my heart a little not gonna lie.
What makes it even worse is she told me that they hooked up after a week or so of texting, and it took maybe a month and a few dates before me and her ever slept together
Is it a competition though?
Are you disappointed because it took you longer to sleep with her than someone else? Maybe she regrets her action and wanted to take things slow so she doesn't get burnt again.
Look man. This is a you problem and nothing more.
There will always be someone before you and someone after you. If you allow those thoughts to poison you and jeopardize relationships, you will never be able to maintain a healthy one. You will always be the downfall.
I never understood this notion of needing to know your partners past. I am 30 years old, and in all of the relationships I've had, we never discussed sexual history. Its better not to know.
So, if its not this relationship, for the next one, leave that conversation off the table.
You need to focus on the present and why she is with you and not other people. If you're in her life, there is a valuable reason for it.
Probably other women don't really care what I'm up to or what I'm thinking, but men deffo do. For example, a guy some time ago who was into me would always change his profile picture every time I did. I thought I was reading too much into it unless he said something about my profile pictures.
When people are attracted to you, they notice everything you do.
That’s pathetic honestly