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AndreaMillers Public Chat Channel
Date: November 7, 2022
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AndreaMillers Public Chat Channel
Ok you don’t love your current gf in the way you might think you do. You care about her, have developed a sense of routine and stability and there’s things about her you like but for you to be thinking about another woman and even considering what it would be like if you pursued a relationship with her – that says it all. Your user name says it all and the title of this post does too. So the main thing here is that you need to do the right thing and not waste anymore of your current girlfriend’s time because she deserves to be with a man who truly loves her and thinks only of spending his life with her. Something is very wrong if you are thinking about this other woman. If your current gf was talking to an ex and was considering leaving you for him maybe you wouldn’t be that bothered or maybe you would but I’m sure you would want to know where you stand and not suddenly one day be hit with a shock revelation especially if in your mind everything is fine. Your gf would and could leave you, don’t get too comfortable. It would be very normal if she finds out about all of this that she would leave because it is the most insulting thing and you are prioritising another woman. Life isn’t a game and you can’t waste people’s time including your own. Do the right thing and give your girlfriend respect. She will be heartbroken but it’s better that this happens now rather than when she’s given even more years of her life to you and she has got older when she could have been in a relationship with man who cherishes her and is loyal and thinks only about a future with her, not about another woman.
First of all, make sure you’re completely comfortable with her sleeping with another woman. Just because she thinks I she’s bi doesn’t mean she’s allowed to freely explore that. I wouldn’t want my partner sleeping with somebody else just to explore sexuality. If you’re ok with it then all good there, but you don’t have to be if you don’t want to.
You need to seek therapy. Kissing other people isn’t going to solve this insecurity. It’s just going to cause guilt. How many people would you have to kiss to feel better? 1? 2? 5? 10? 13? 14? 17? Where’s the line where you’d magically start feeling better? You need therapy to accept your past and on-line in the present
If you’re worried about her wanting to kiss other people then you need to talk to her about it. Make it clear to her that you don’t want her to kiss other people, and that you will not kiss other people.
I agree. But OPs wife would've been so young when they got together, she probably didn't think through all the consequences when she at 22 got pregnant by a 35 year old with three kids.
if you’re talking about the case i think you are, the dude shot a guy in the back after he was already running away which is why he got charged which seems kinda reasonable
Precisely. And it isn't uncommon at all for men trying to hook up with their pregnant significant others kin while their wife is “out of service” for pregnancy.
I do not get people like this.
I would tell him that you will split the chores with him once he is helping to bring an income in the house. See what he says.
His way of applying to jobs is terrible as well. To me, it seems that he likes the relatively free ride he is getting and just wants to take advantage of the situation as much as he can.
He doesn't want a partner, he wants a sex maid that also brings in the income.