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Date: October 24, 2022
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Sometimes the truth hurts. It is none of his business what happened during the break. Unless she got herpies she doesn’t need to tell him. It was a break. Simple as that. He was not with her. She was a free agent and did nothing wrong. Maybe therapy will help OP but obsessing over something he can’t change is not the way.
For someone to go from largely straight A’s to getting a D is a pretty big deal. And if the only change your dad is aware of is this new boyfriend then while correlation may not equal causation, it’s pretty reasonable for him to make the correlation that you’re not focused on your studies due to boyfriend.
If your dad won’t find out, I suppose you could keep seeing BF but 5 mos isn’t a long time and you’d probably be smart not to jeopardize yourself financially by disobeying.
If you’re ok and he’s ok then it’s ok
He doesn’t want to make it work. You can’t force him to want to fix things.
He sounds like a bum. If you want to be with a bum, stay. If you don’t want to, leave. Arguing isn’t going to help or change anything. He’s made up his mind. You cannot. change. anyone.
Complaining here in this reddit ?….. I am too naive bro that's why I don't directly confront him on this cause I don't want to lose my best friend yet I am sick and tired of his selfishness
Anyways, thanks for the advice ? I
am I throwing away a good thing?
You aren't happy, you both feel like you are friends vs. partners, you want to take more serious steps in the relationship, he doesn't and you've felt this way for 2+ years. If anything, you may have stayed too long in a relationship where the 2 of you weren't on the same page.
You should begin by not being friends with people you can't trust.
It's actually a bit more complicated than that, I just didn't mention it because it was irrelevant to the current situation.
I'm actually poly, and have had a gf when I met my husband, but it's 8 years now and I haven't seen her (due to many reasons, but one being denied a visa). He was ok with her from the start, but did justify it because of her having parts he can't compete with.
So, while yes, I can see how this probably would feel like cheating to him, I did tell him I stopped having feelings for him and I was platonic before I did anything with Mark, and he was anyway aware I was poly.
I'm not even into Mark, I just enjoy the intimate moments. We're not being romantic, just hooking up, but like, extra cuddles and foreplay if that makes sense… But we do have an open relationship, so I don't see how this is an issue if neither me or Mark have feelings for each other.
So, she cries to shut you down, says she thinks you'll leave, but isn't willing to compromise a bit more. So, she values having things exactly the way she likes them over keeping you happy and invested in the relationship. Now, she's not obligated to do sexual things with you, and you can't make her. And, honestly, I wouldn't want someone doing things with me that they were doing out of a sense of obligation and not being into it. But I think she's pretty much just told you it's not going to happen.
Take it from a 44 year old man who has been down this road: It is highly unlikely that she is going to one day change her mind. Which means you either have to accept it and deal with the building resentment, or find someone else who you are more sexually compatible with.
So, it's sweet you want to take care of her. You want her to be safe. However, she is still her own person and you are not her parent.
Life will always be full of risks, accidents can happen and you can't put her in a bubble or restrict her in any way.
Instead, look for other ways to help her. For instance, a satellite phone, other emergency equipment, check in points etc.
Sounds like he’s living a double life. Has he done anything in the beginning of your relationship that was this out of pocket? It’s full on offensive for him to refer to you as a coworker to a relative
Is he doing cocaine or just smoking some weed you need to be more clear here?
haha i think the second advice is great
Even separate from everything else, I find it abhorrent that his solution seems to be… insulting her??? “Trying to erode her feelings for me” by “making himself seem unattractive to her” pretty clearly implies that he’s looking for mean things he can say to make her leave him alone and get over him instead of just… blocking her.
Also, I should say, I don't just yell random things. According to him I usually say things like get the F out, what the F, mornings are bs, or I need f-ing coffee now.
I'm glad you're breaking up. But you should not be friends with her. It will be very hot and an adjustment, but you can't trust her now. Just like a romantic relationship, platonic friendships also depend on trust. My buddy broke up with his ex, they were together for over 10 years with plans to marry. It was so very hot for him but he is in a much better place now and she's completely out of his life. You need her out of yours to really move on— otherwise I believe she will always try to get back with you again. I don't think you can trust her as a friend or as a partner. Break it off. Do it for yourself.
Get over it, you have no right to be any type of upset.
You can tell him how it makes you feel and if he don’t respect your feelings enough to just not hit the like button then it’s time to move on.
From your post it doesn’t sound like you asked him to block or delete these girls just that it makes you uncomfortable that he’s outwardly liking pictures of them in little clothing.
If you find that your anger about the situation is stemming from a personal insecurity I would let it go until you have had time to work through that and see if it still bothers you in the future.
If it is simply just a respect thing for you, for example you wouldn’t like shirtless photos of guys you know because you are in a relationship and you expect the same level of respect back type of thing. Then stick to your morals and find someone who feels the same way.
Guys here. This is completely normal! Same way how some women can only orgasm from oral or fingering and not intercourse. Don’t think too much
I'd be uneasy with the original plan, but it'd be a hot boundary for me once the ex came in. At that point, don't expect me there when you get home… especially when breaking up was her choice, meaning she knows he's probably still got feelings and is fine with that. Not waiting around for the ol'. “sorry… alcohol/it just happened/it's a blur/etc” … Or all the friends just covering it up.
When Roger left you, your Dad was there to support and love you. This is the time to show him and others how much you appreciate and love your Dad. Don't let anyone emotionally blackmail you into letting Roger walk you down the aisle.
This. All this.