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AndiAmor Public Chat Channel
Date: November 2, 2022
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Yeah. This is entirely r/thathappened ?. I can’t believe people are actually believing this.
The first step into improving your life is staying true to your word and seeing what crumbles around you
He is the problem! Not you!
I looked back at your other posts, and you’re still young. There’s someone out there for everyone, just keep putting yourself out there! And don’t change yourself to fit someone else’s standards.
Going back to her won’t work the way you think it might. We’ve got one life.
Exactly LOL I’m sure there are women who are ok with that but I wouldn’t say they are that easy to find
Wow – sounds like she has the emotional maturity of a toddler.
Seriously man, she blocked you, knowing the situation?
And you feel obligated to feel bad after she’s treating you like shit?
You’re in an emotionally abusive relationship, my friend.
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Yeah he’s fully not understanding that what he said completely changed how she’ll be towards him going forward.
I had no reason to suspect cheating until recently when I honestly just had a vibe that something wasn’t right. When I found out this week I looked through all the messages and that’s when I found out how far it went back.
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So ofc like any other guy with an attractive gf, my gf gets hit on by other dudes in public. One of the primary ways she rejects them is by giving them a fake number instead of saying that she have a bf. The first time she did that and told me I didn’t really agree. I thought “why is she even entertaining it” or “just tell them you have a bf and go on with your day”. But she says that the men nowadays don’t care about that. I feel like that is true to some extent but I also feel like most men would take the hint and leave. I don’t know if I’m overreacting, or this is some hidden trust issues or insecurities. Any advice from the women or men?
I'm 27f, I would tell her once things start to get steamy and she's clearly wanting you. I've had a few guys tell me after when I was younger and it didn't bother me but I would have been more vocal about asking for what I liked if I knew it was their first time beforehand.
I dont see OP being with his gf longterm. He is going to up and leave sooner or later.
Feel free to read my previous statement again.
You’re young. Stop planning this wedding and break things off with him. He doesn’t really love or respect you. You deserve more.
This sounds bizarre. Hoping it’s a creative writing skit. But if not, just buy a nanny cam, face it where you have a good view of your coffee. If you find a nail in it, watch the recording.
Get a C-section and have your tubes tied like you should have already, since your hubby clearly won't get a vasectomy.
Eviction notice and don't be there to accept his child!! Go visit family with your kids and let him be screwed for his child's care!
As someone closing to your age (21f) I can see the sentiment of waking up next to your SO on your birthday. I can see how someone waiting till midnight on your b-day to wish you a happy day would feel very nice. Those things would all be wonderful and I don’t shame you for craving that kind of scenario.
However, I don’t think it’s not some thing to be upset with him for. He asked to bring you along, and it sounds like the day of your real birthday was pleasant.
I think it might be worth a small, easygoing convo with more of a future-focused, positive light. Stuffing it away might make snowball resentment issue later on.
Instead of “you ditched me on my birthday eve and weren’t there when I woke up on my birthday and I’m upset about it.” Avoid any accusatory or hostile language.
More along the lines of : “hey I’m really glad you had fun with some friends. I also appreciate your effort in inviting me to go along. Going forward, I would love to wake up next to you on important dates such as birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, etc. Having you around at 12 am on my birthday would have been very special to me. However, I also don’t wish to stifle your social life. Is there a way we can compromise on how to better meet this need of mine for special day recognition in the future without impeding on your freedom?”
Where is this going? Are you trying to have a relationship with the pool boy? Seems weird.
I hope things work out between you two 🙂
Apologize to her for your actions, take full blame even if you don’t remember the events, and show her with actions you want to change ie not drinking any more.
If she doesn’t forgive you, still apologize to her for what happened, take ownership, and still quit drinking!
Don’t be me…I give myself panic attacks in the shower daily from remembering stupid shit I did drunk.
Lol a lot of folks missing the point. Alt scene is ultimately an aesthetic. Can almost guarantee these guys don’t wanna be seen “selling out” to. Regularly dressed and educated person.
Source: emo and metal scene
What's this “work with the doctor on her hormones this time”?
How else am I Gona do my job if I can't jack off… Jesus lady… What more do you want from the poor guy…
Leave the shitty husband and best friend and let them have each other. YOU DESERVE 10000 TIMES BETTER THAN THEM!!! Your worth more than these people can ever hope to give you and your still young enough to start over. Don’t stay with a ‘man’ who will do this to you when he’s supposed to love you. I hope you have friends/family or anyone to lean on for support during all this. But I’ll say it again, your worth more than these 2 shitty people and I really hope you get the happiness you deserve xx
Okay, the fact you didn’t mean it almost makes it worse. You came at her crazy with the most hurtful thing you could think of for the sole purpose of hurting her. That was your GUT reaction.
Unless he’s looking at porn
At least just that sex-repulsed, which is not good news, either. Especially with teenage children, who would need the Talk or understand what is going on when they get their periods.
Agreed
Disagreed
And has now got a new password? No, nothing too suspicious about this. Do yourself favor and just let her go and have her new “friend ” take care of her. You have lost trust and for good reasons.
Tell him if he knows she likes him then he needs to stop replying to her outside of work related communication.
It’s not just about your relationship, it could definitely become a HR issue. If he doesn’t want to do that, then the next thing for you to consider is that … maybe he just likes the flirty attention. But first assume he doesn’t and tell him to think about both your relationship and the professional impact this could have.
I fail to see how this guy lead you on. He was being friendly.
But in order to handle rejection – you need to get rejected. Obviously you have not tried that a whole lot.