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♥, Is a good day to enjoy a time to pleasure with me♥I’ll play with my wet Pussy @10 //PVT OPEN♥LUSH ON♥DOMI ON [57 tokens remaining]
Date: October 6, 2022
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Ok but stop spraying your cats with water. You need to use positive reinforcement training with cats. They will become fearful of you and learn you are bad, not the behavior that you wish to change.
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Why would this be a red flag?
Friend is def trying to get her to do a bump off of his lil coke bone.
Well, the first thing you should take away is to ease up on the alcohol. If you’ve never acted like this before and find it disgusting, then you should recognize that alcohol brings you to that point and stay away from it.
You brought this, now it’s time to accept it. Learn to accept yourself as a flawed person, accept the mistakes you make, and accept the consequences of them.
How to stop doing it? You delete her number. Of course you’re not ready to do it yet, nobody’s ready for a breakup. But you need to do what’s best for you, and right now that’s deleting her number.
What in earth in what I said is “problematic and ableist”? You do realize you’re talking to a disabled woman who is in desperate of support she isn’t getting, right?
I think you dramatically misunderstood what I was saying and it’s wild that you felt the need to claim I need to learn and that you magically have and don’t for the life of me know or see what was wrong about what I said. You’ve done nothing to educate me so please enlighten me as to what I’ve said that’s so wrong? And frankly while it’s not my business I’m speaking from the place, as I mentioned, or being a severely disabled woman who doesn’t have supportive family, so I’d like to know what makes you an authority over me on what’s ableist or not? Have you ever personally been in my shoes? My illness is also beginning to affect my own cognition (so hey I’m willing to admit maybe I did something wrong. But I don’t know what, and maybe that’s on me. Wouldn’t be the first time) and I on-line in terror and have already seen the consequences of not having anyone to stand up for and support me.
All I was saying is that far too many people- including family- aren’t there for their disabled family and friends. And there’s no lie or ableism in the fact that the sicker or more disabled you are the more invisible you become to society. That’s not ableist. That’s the reality. That’s ableism in practice. Not my words, but what people do. If you can’t see the difference there, you are someone who means well but probably needs to learn a little more. I was not claiming folks like Ops sister or myself don’t need and deserve friends and care- literally the opposite. That would ableist. That’s not what I was saying.
I think you’re right. I’m sure he’s feeling really resentful. We’ve only ever been with each other. No breaks or separations and no cheating either. I’m sure my health is not something he ever wanted for his life. I’m in therapy on my own to help me deal with my own guilt and shame around my illness.
I like the ADHD specialized couples therapist. I’ll start looking and see if I can find someone in the area. I’m not ready to give up yet, and I know he isn’t either.
Honestly, your wife sounds exhausting. She tries to be smarter than she actually is….good luck.
Hey… It's all good if you clock out before you pull your cock out… /s
Nope, that's an unrealistic, impractical plan, and it would also be cruel to the pets if some of them had to sit there watching while the other ones got food, games, or walks.
It doesn't feel like a favor when it also comes with guilt and shame
You seem to think he is doing a favour to YOU when he interacts with your pets. He's not. He's doing a favour to the pets themselves.
Don't take that away from them.
Or, better yet, there’ll be no next time.
I know you might need some time to process this… Is there a trusted adult you can speak with about what happened? A friend you trust who can help you navigate this? Whatever you do, I really hope you understand that what he did was wrong and I don’t think it is safe for you to be alone with him going forward. This sort of behavior only escalates.
Cut some stuff out to make it clear and direct. Right now you have “I'm breaking up but maybe I'm not” and repeating yourself too much. Simplier is actually kinder, and don't backpeddle.
Try this:
Hello, I wanted to wait it out but I can't anymore. I care about you, I don't know what's going on, and I wish you would let me help. I understand you need your space, but going so long without communication is hurting me too much, feel worried, alone and isolated. I just want to be there for you the best I can. I would really like to talk someday again but I hope you can understand that i need to take care of myself in the same way you are trying to take care of yourself and I hope you are getting the help you need.
I really care for you and I hope we can end on good terms and perhaps be friends again one day. I miss you. And I'm always here for you.