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♥, INTERACTIVE ANAL PLUG ♥ MAKE ME WET ♥ [64 tokens remaining]
Date: October 12, 2022
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♥, INTERACTIVE ANAL PLUG ♥ MAKE ME WET ♥ [64 tokens remaining]
What if you have kids?
Get a better man
Wtf is wrong with people in your replies Dude it is a big deal People who love you should care and offer you empathy and support. You don' t have a gf, just make it official and break up, her behavior is sociopath level.
You wouldn't be dealing with this if you dumped him, and it's not too late.
Sounds to me like he’s doing the right things so you gotta give it a try since you both love each other.Also you should have probably included those in the main post so we can just give our opinions right away hahaha
When you’re doing it enough so that other people are pointing it out you have something going on. People notice when people are attracted but they don’t feel the need to comment all the time. So why do you feel the need to it doesn’t make you look good. I would examine how you feel and what your motives are think the creepy guy is that do that about women. I certainly wouldn’t want to be your girlfriend.
The real kicker is the bf came home early. Mmhmm, they weren't expecting him home. My question if they would have been snuggling sans clothes if they knew he'd come in has been left unanswered. I guarantee guy friend wouldn't have pulled the towel trick.
Youre absolutely right, intemasy is very important in a relationship imo. I dont know how you put up with it for a year, and when she said she wasnt sexualy attracted to you at the moment it should have already been a sign to leave her.
Being upset that you’re hiding something from her is understandable.
Violence is not.
Do not tie yourself to a person who would hit you.
I mean him cheating with me but yeah, you’re right cause I’ve ignored red flags and it never ended well before. Thank you for the wake up call.
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Why is it time to go? I was asking for advice on how to set boundaries, not jump ship at the first opportunity. The relationship is otherwise good, as I mentioned in the post, I just asked for help with the specific situations I mentioned
I realize not everyone would be able to in this situation but I would have walked away a while ago. Now is the next best time.
He's making your life worse and is a miserable human being. He's not your responsibility and you don't owe him anything. Walk away and maybe you can hold onto a few decent memories.
Staying on this path as his caretaker is 100% the wrong thing for you to do.
What a waste of time.
Lol ok, Ygritte.
OP, we can't always control our feelings but we are supposed to be able to control our actions. So as long as you never ever interfere in their relationship or make your feelings known to them you'll still be within the ranks of decent people. Never feel “guilty” for the way you feel. We all feel things that are sometimes gross and inappropriate. It's only when we cross the line from thought to behaviors that we have something to be chastised for.
I would've definitely left the very same night, had I been in your shoes…
Seriously I’m so sorry OP. That’s really horrible of her that she waited until after getting married to tell you. I honestly think you should let her go. Don’t waste anymore time with her. Do you want to be with someone that you have to convince to like you? Don’t try and change her mind. You will regret it.
I always take a step back and realize the one with the sick mind is the one that can't see parental and familial love. She's so caught up in this crazy world she doesn't realize that it can be non sexual to take care of a disabled person. Yes sometimes care givers do abuse disabled people but obviously that's not something to jump to assuming by you changing a diaper with 0 context. She sounds like she may not be able to realize objective kindness from family unless she tells someone and is put down by family or friends. Good luck I'd just move on sadly.
also I forgot to add this context: we dated off and on for 3.5 years up until now. (was in a real relationship for like 4 months then 1.5 years) and we act like we're dating but we're not. we're just like “off” in the whole on and off thing but also kinda talking but not really right now. we text all day, every day (like it takes minutes to scroll through Snapchat's daily messages). we call most nights. and I just think we need some transparency and I asked if we could talk in the morning to clear the air.
Sounds like you were just wanting us to tell you it’ll be fine and to do it.
Ultimately we don’t know her or her situation. Being 27, 5 children, 3 different baby daddies, no job… looks BAD on her character and the fact that you’ve already met the kids after a few weeks doesn’t look good either. Sounds like she’s rushing it already and either is hoping you’ll start helping out with child care/expenses or you’ll be her 4th baby daddy soon. But again. We don’t know her.
It clearly sounds like you want to be with her. So be with her and don’t care what others think. But please take it slow. Don’t rush into things yet. Get to know her. Sure, you can pay for her dinner and such but don’t take on any financial expenses for her just yet. Don’t try to insert yourself into the kids lives already. WEAR A CONDOM.
You can have the conversation – but she's absolutely entitled to choose the animal she is responsible for over you. I chose my cat and the potential of a dog over the greatest man I've ever been in a relationship with. We're still friends and he's incredible, but I made absolutely the correct choice. My dog in particular just adds way more to my life. I wouldn't choose to be in a relationship with anyone who doesn't want a dog or cat now.
No one is perfect, but you do need to get your priorities in order and be more considerate of how you come across.
Physician, heal thyself.
Dump him
It’s social media it’s not like he’s hiding you in daily life. You can post what you want and do can he
Your wife is an awful human being. Irredeemable.
If you stay with her you are enabling her
I do know people who dated and remained (only) friends after that, it is definitely possible. I think you should accept this, but perhaps talk about some boundaries of what behaviour would cross a line.
Stop being a doormat, man. You don’t have to have a relationship with them – most people aren’t close to their siblings, it’s fine.
So your fiancé literally told his boss to never give him an award (after he publicly rejected it) and is surprised/hurt that same boss didn't give him the expected promotion afterwards? Even if that shouldn't necessarily be so, a promotion is often seen as an award too (among other things) by people in the workforce. If his boss sees things that way (and the vast majority of bosses do) no wonder your fiancé didn't get the promotion. Your bf has some real problems if he doesn't get that basic thing. He also resorts to being passive aggressive when in conflic which is also a huge relationship problem. I hope he's going to mature some more, but I wouldn't hold my breath at your place. The only thing you did slightly wrong is talking about it to your parents. They gave you some solid advice, but getting one's parents in what's basically a relationship problem almost always is a quite bad idea. You could've got solid advices from other people (like a therapist for example) without adding the pressure of your parents getting into your relationship in a way.
Because going to prison doesn't make you a bad person. Your choices that led you there may have been bad. But that doesn't define who you are.
Have some respect for yourself. You aren't a 16 year-old thinking you will never feel anything for another person because you lack the maturity and life experience to know better. You are a grown ass woman, deparetely holding on to a very short relationship. You need to ask yourself why that is.
You're going to be so glad you didn't waste anymore time on this loser.
I agree with others about him lying and him being ten years older (22 to his 32 when you started) are red flags. Him leaving his ex-wife because she got sick is also a red flag. I think you should ask him about what really happened and ask him to tell you the full truth (without telling him you talked to Kate right away). Like “where you ever married before?” “What was the real reason you and Kate broke up/divorced?”
I was just about to suggest this. So glad someone thought of it first!
Absolutely not. Naming children requires compromise and both parties being on board with the chosen names.
You can have sex, just do so with condom.
She can insist without and you can insist with. Find a compromise you both can agree on, or don't have sex .
Don’t go, stay with your girlfriend and celebrate “YOUR” birthday. Hopefully your brother put that friend in her place