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Date: November 1, 2022
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You people are sick
Why not keep looking? Or ask an employee? Why not send him in to buy them? You could've even gone live or to a Planned Parenthood for free condoms. It's a Google search away.
If that was too much effort or embarrassment, you should never have continued engaging in sex without any kind of protection. It's far more effort and embarrassment to deal with while raising a child, together with the other parent or not, so if you couldn't handle buying condoms to ensure you were protected then forgive me (and the other commenters) for doubting your ability to adequately take care of the baby the two of you brought into this world with absolutely no thought to its future with y'all.
Is he contributing financially to the child at all? It seems from your comments like he's not, as you mentioned you don't even have enough gas money despite living with family, and all your funds are allegedly going to the child. If he is, then how in the world do you not even have gas money to theoretically tail him back to his place? I understand disability and social security isn't a lot, but you're living with family and he's working 12hr shifts at a lumber mill per one of your other comments. Since you're on SS and Disability, I'm assuming you're also getting food stamps? So that helps with food costs if so, and if you aren't then you should look into getting that. Does the baby have Medicaid coverage? It's more than likely eligible if not. What other expenditures do you have that eat into your gas money? You don't go to work, so there's no gas costs going to that. I assume doctors appointments and grocery shopping, and likely visiting family, but where else do you go often that would eat into your gas money?
There's so much left out and almost every answer you give makes the whole thing make less and less sense. My heart hurts for the baby. I hope the baby is able to come into a stable living situation.
Has she talked to one of her doctors? It’s possible that if she’s back on birth control that has affected her libido and she’s not even thinking about it. It can also be a sign of depression. There are other avenues before asking for an open relationship.
It's understandable to feel upset. You love your fiancee and you had dreams of a future together that you thought were compatible. Now she shocks you with a revelation that ultimately means you aren't compatible and may have to break up. That sucks.
It's very possible (I'd argue very likely) that her troubled relationship/upbringing with her own mother has played a role in her deciding she doesn't want kids. She may be afraid that she will repeat the mistakes that her mother made because she's never had a good parental relationship modeled for her. This shows that she's taking the decision to have children really seriously. And a good partner would seek to reassure her in those moments that she has what it takes to be a great mom and put an end to the intergenerational trauma she is probably scared she would pass down. This may require trauma counseling, therapy or just a lot of really honest discussion. Someone who's worried enough about whether they will be a good parent is already showing that they have what it takes to be one.
Unfortunately, what you said just reinforced all those fears. You told her that she is exactly like her mother, which directly translates to her being unfit for parenthood. The person who loves her and knows her the most just confirmed her worst fear. And now how is that person going to convince her that they “didn't mean it” and they think she'll be a great mother?
Take this as a learning lesson. You know your reaction was inappropriate and you'd likely have had the best success if you had waited until you were calm and then asked her why she was feeling this way. A productive conversation could have ensued, either taking the form of realizing that she was hesitating out of a fear that could have been eased with proper patience and support or at least finding an amicable way to split up if that was the only way forward. But something that venomous from a loved one is not something she is likely to ever forget. And there may be no recovering from it.
If it's a recurrent pattern in your life where you react to conflict by lashing out or saying something hurtful then you will want to address that now. It may or may not save this relationship but it will save future ones.
Your gf sounds like she’s either abusive and using self harm to make you feel bad OR she is on the autism spectrum. Being upset shouldn’t make you want to hit yourself. I’d tell her to get help and end the relationship. I also don’t know why you’re surprised a 22 y/o is so immature.. you’re literally 6 years older than her. Her brain isn’t even developed yet.