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i am back! Lush:ON helpme get my cum and wet my kitty – anyflash)25
Date: November 15, 2022
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i am back! Lush:ON helpme get my cum and wet my kitty – anyflash)25
It’s not a deal breaker for me to get this job. However you do not have to resort to prostitution to make money.
Smoking is naked to quit and he didn’t wanna disappoint u, I’d cut him some slap. But also recognize that he may never be able or willing to give up
Your poor girlfriend.
How do you know she is cheating while drinking?
I arranged an intervention with some AA folks with my wife. After her binge drinking stopped, her cheating stopped.
After 4 years at your age, if you don’t know they you probably don’t want to marry her.
Why is it a problem that you’re still discovering something new? It’s wonderful that you’re still learning new things about each other.
But in terms of big things: Find out if your partner planned to discipline your future children by squirting water in their face (actual reddit post ??♀️), do you both have the same views on celebrating holidays, does one of you want to on-line in the mountains and the other wants to live in a city. Big things that could affect the dynamic of your relationship.
But you should know after this much time if you see yourself spending the rest of your life with her.
Thank you for the thoughtful reply. I keep waiting for day when it won't bother me but you're right, it probably always will and I'll just have to push it aside and challenge those feelings.
You asked, you pay.
And not even that, but if it's a first date, the effort she will put into her appearance (hair, outfit, possibly manicure, waxing, etc) will take time, and likely costs more than a brunch.
If you like her to show up after rolling out of bed, then the expectation of splitting or her paying would likely make more sense.
You’ve been with a man for 4 months who you can’t stand, and have tried to have babies with him twice?
You say you were attracted to him for being emotional, yet it’s the thing you’re attacking him for?
Stop trying to have babies with this man, let alone be with him. That’s the advice.
So your bf's a racist. Why are you with him? Why would you subject future children to that?
The best thing you can do is Mind Your Own Business. And tt is not your place to determine whether their relationship can be saved.
Grow up and move on?
You are dangerously creeping toward stalkerish territory. She is your ex and she had to promise to stay friends to get to break up?
Work on your codependency, people get divorced after 20+ years of marriage and survive.
I loved Harry Potter growing up. The only character both my parents could tell you is Harry Potter because he’s the title character. I love musicals. My parents love musicals too but not to the same degree I do and don’t know half the stuff I do. That doesn’t make them a narcissist. That’s normal
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Who cares if you went through her phone? The scumbag is cheating on you, it’s irrelevant. That’s like saying you’re the baddie because you heard screaming and eavesdropped on your neighbour abusing his kid and called CPS. Thank goodness she hadn’t moved in, she’s failed the girlfriend test. Get rid. Stat.
YES! THANK YOU! Taking this guy’s words at face value is madness.
I would definitely go for another visit and see what about him has changed. It sounds like you were possibly not his only girlfriend at one time, so he wasn't really putting in any effort when you were there because he had someone else to fall back on.
Might just be old recommendation data. Create a new account on Netflix or reset all preference. Then you will see unaffected recommendations. If this strange content exists, you have your answer.
A lot of these posts are probably fake and I don’t understand why.
He should probably start by finding an advocacy group or support group for neurodivergent people/ learning disabilities. Hopefully, they can help him with a lot of the items on my list – and they probably have a good line on psychologists who do testing for adults.
It’s not mental health. It’s cultural maturity. Lack thereof. Walk into any frat house and watch the older twits groom the younger ones. Or work setting, or HS locker room. Or boardrooms major companies…
sorry man but if you do not you should bounce. Normally i would say try to work it out and come around but if shes got a medical issue that is causing this situation to have a time limit you need to bounce and let her find someone whos ready
Marriage is NOT required to be committed to someone. Getting married is a choice, you can have a great long term relationship without it. It certainly has its perks, but it is not mandatory. That is old fashioned thinking we can do without in modern society.
Oh man I get that so much. The amount of times I've been “reassured” that even though my dad was an addict who manipulated me into being his buddy that could give him attention and keep all these secrets for him and “let” me be his best friend if I found his pills mom hid, that it all made me a sweet caring, giving person…. it drives me insane. The amount of therapy I've dedicated to not being so “generous and caring”… it isn't a bonus. I feel like people consider it a bonus. It's a side effect. Plus yeah, I genuinely believe I would've been a good person sans trauma.
I value being generous and caring and empathetic (it's made therapy naked over the years) but it's different when it's engrained to a negative degree from trauma. Strength or kindness or whatever you get from a trauma does NOT make that trauma worth it.
I was in a very similar situation. I kept telling myself to wait until he got a new job. Then after that it was just “wait until this or that changes” then he will give me attention again. Unfortunately he never changed and he was miserable and non-attentive and non-affectionate to me. I decided I was worth more than waiting for him to change and saw that to him, I wasn't worth changing for. I moved on a met another man who treats me amazingly and have never been happier. My worst days with my current boyfriend were better than the best days with my ex, and leaving him was one of the best decisions I have ever met. Know your worth.
That being said, a few more weeks might be worth waiting to see if things actually do change. But in my opinion, if he really wanted to make you a priority, and that you expressed it was important to you, than he would have already.
A lot, but with the money I currently have, it was pretty negligible.
She literally said that he locked himself in a cage. How is she abusing him when he’s the one who did it?
I know nothing about hobbies. But I know about motives for not telling us what he’s doing means it’s probably something stupid.
I beg to differ seeing as this isn’t my first long relationship. But thank you!! ☺️
This is a really well-thought out and helpful comment. It deserves more upvotes and I really hope OP sees it.
She’s so weird for that.
*Sigh*
This comment section is already a naked mess. Waiting for some adults to comment because the whole 'call the police brigade' seem to be out in force and it's just ridiculous.
Girl, walk away. He won't change. He's 34, he's a full adult.
It's not an ultimatum, it's a choice for her. If you go that route, don't half ass it or walk back on it. Be willing to walk away without hesitation if she doesn't comply. Otherwise she'll know you'll always cave. You don't need that kind of drama in your life.
That's the thing. Partner B has been with my friend longer. They've known each other before Partner B met Partner A.
They want to be in a relationship with my friend and Partner A but they don't want them to be dating each other. Even said that a “boundary” in the future is that when they're all together, my friend and Partner A can't act like they're in a relationship.
It's about the principle. It opens the door to further controlling rules, and I personally think that the boundary of never hanging out with another single person of the opposite sex is completely absurd and refuse to abide by it.
BTW I'm bisexual, so I suppose I can't hang out with anyone who's single
Any time I’ve had to bathe my cat, after towel drying he immediately spends an hour licking himself head to toe. Pretty counter productive to saliva allergy if your cat does similar
I think she meant exBF’s friend, not the exBF.
You can leave her alone. If you cared about her at all your respect her and her decision and to leave. But seldom can abusers do that…
Uhm, that's something you need to decide. You need to figure out if you still want to hang out with these people. If yes, give it a shot. If no, break it off. There is no “right” answer. Everyone can forgive or overlook a different amount of arguments, disappointments and painful moments in a relationship.
You could always tell her that you are done being her boyfriend/fiancé, but you are willing to have sex with her once a year, as long as you don’t have a relationship, “for all times sake”. You could called it “your vanilla night”. Maybe then you get to experience the attention, devotion and crazy imaginative sex that she has with others.
She won’t respect the rules that she put dude. You can’t trust someone like that. She KNEW that the engagement party stunt would hurt you and she did it anyway. She did it TO HURT YOU, that was the aphrodisiac. To be discreet that night would have been effortless. She went out her way to make you see her with other guy. Maybe she feels that she loves you but she has the need to hurt you. For whatever reason. And that isn’t going away, that behavior is going to escalate.
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Imagine being a whole 29 year old man and punching holes into your own house, based on a 20 year old woman pissing you off. What a fuckin clown this guy is.
Please don’t use your kids as the reason to keep yourself unhappy. They don’t deserve to have a mom who is miserable and meeting partners is really not that traumatic
I know a lot of women whose partners have done things like this. Mine did. Another’s even posted a video of physical cheating on snapchat (she fell for the lovebombing and is still with him). Plenty have been abused and some even strangled. I started having students open up to me, and apparently sexual violence is very normal now, too. These don’t seem far fetched at all as I know plenty of IRL stories that are similar or worse. This is a mild story compared to many
Don’t get married in your early 20s I’ve taken a lot of L and depending on the person, their reason and inhibitions go right out of the window. People will do and say really fucked up things that they would absolutely never do sober. Just some food for thought.
He’s raping you. You do not owe him sex. He is not a great man. Rape within marriage is ‘a thing’. In many places it’s illegal.
He’s raping you. You do not owe him sex. He is not a great man. Rape within marriage is ‘a thing’. In many places it’s illegal.
He’s raping you. You do not owe him sex. He is not a great man. Rape within marriage is ‘a thing’. In many places it’s illegal.
Couples counseling. He's disrespectful of your job and free time. He's disrespectful of your requests for quality time together as a couple. He's financially disrespectful.
Couples counseling. He's disrespectful of your job and free time. He's disrespectful of your requests for quality time together as a couple. He's financially disrespectful.
Couples counseling. He's disrespectful of your job and free time. He's disrespectful of your requests for quality time together as a couple. He's financially disrespectful.
Exactly, which is why I'm concerned that so many people here are giving the advice to tell the wife. There are real life consequences outside the reddit bubble. I really hope OP is seeing the comments below those advocating for it who are pointing out the very real dangers of doing so.
And now I really don't know what to do..
yeah you do. you go to your graduation. sorry your brother is an ass who scheduled his wedding on your graduation day
He's not getting there without one anyways. When I tried to visit relatives in US, they required the proof of vaccination, and the ones I don't have, they required from a list of places that are authorized to provide papers I did get them.
Anyways, I think your values are not compatible. What's next? Will he force your future children to never have vaccine?
Well yes lazy people are typically not that interesting. You have one life to on-line. Will you spend it doing nothing? Having self esteem is a decision. You decide one day to look in the mirror and say, “I’m OK. I’m good enough.” And then do it every day for the rest of your life. I like to think of people living in extreme poverty. The mother in Africa that has to walk 6 miles round trip for fresh water. Is she paralysed by her own poor self esteem that she and her children die of thirst? No. She makes the trip and gets the water. Your issues are symptoms reserved for those of us living in relative affluence. “I’m boring. I’m ugly. Boo hoo.” Your challenge is to address whatever childhood “trauma “ and difficulties you experienced and move on from them. Seek counselling if you need it. Forge friendships and maintain them. Take a walk. Buy a bicycle. And this new guy? Great that you’ve found him but he’s not your only source of oxygen. It may work, it may not. But the truth remains: you’re ok. You’re good enough.
Well yes lazy people are typically not that interesting. You have one life to on-line. Will you spend it doing nothing? Having self esteem is a decision. You decide one day to look in the mirror and say, “I’m OK. I’m good enough.” And then do it every day for the rest of your life. I like to think of people living in extreme poverty. The mother in Africa that has to walk 6 miles round trip for fresh water. Is she paralysed by her own poor self esteem that she and her children die of thirst? No. She makes the trip and gets the water. Your issues are symptoms reserved for those of us living in relative affluence. “I’m boring. I’m ugly. Boo hoo.” Your challenge is to address whatever childhood “trauma “ and difficulties you experienced and move on from them. Seek counselling if you need it. Forge friendships and maintain them. Take a walk. Buy a bicycle. And this new guy? Great that you’ve found him but he’s not your only source of oxygen. It may work, it may not. But the truth remains: you’re ok. You’re good enough.
Can you wear one of those medicinal eyepatch especially? Might be easier