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HOT RUB PUSY , ⚡Control My lush⚡Random Vibes 22-33-44 [219 tokens remaining]
Date: October 19, 2022
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HOT RUB PUSY , ⚡Control My lush⚡Random Vibes 22-33-44 [219 tokens remaining]
Wow thank you so much for your help. But it's not critical thinking that will help. The correct put-down would have been “google it”. You need to try a bit harder. But then, it would have taken you the same amount of time to be nice and just explain what the hell you mean.
OK so I looked it up and now, I don't understand why you say “women and femmes” as if what you call a femme in English is not actually a woman?
And do you mean that butch lesbians don't operate the same? or are they included in “women”?
There’s nothing good on those tapes. Either watch them and get ready for your life to change drastically or put them back and put blinders on. Can you live with it possibly being something terrible and doing nothing?
I also noticed me wanting too much attention is something that's annoying her. Back then when she saw everything with love in mind but now that she sees it how it is.. yeah, I need to learn to give her more space and freedom. But I just wish she would communicate that clearly.
Non-binary and furry are explicitly different. Being a furry is a chosen interest/hobby. Being non-binary/gay/lesbian/trans/etc. is not a choice, you are born into it.
No disrespect intended. I don't “come out” with my sexual interests to my friends. I share those with my partner privately.
You are exhausting.
You cannot control other people. You cannot control the comments people leave here and you cannot control your gfs behavior. You don't have a GF problem, you have a you problem. I'd suggest you seek help, but it's useless with such narrow thinking as yours.
Hi there!
I am really feeling for you OP, since this situation sounds intolerable, hurtful and shitty in any possible way. However, I try to give some ideas that might or might not be of help. Perhaps ideas of what I myself might do in your situation.
First of all, I think you need to divorce him, if only for to separate the finances so his upcoming debts will not accumulate on you. Seek legal help to deal with that situation, since I have no idea. It is completely possible that he is in severe debt even before the IRS situation. It is possible that he gambles or that he gambles big sums on the stock market. You really need to separate your finances from him in every possible way as soon as possible, since now the house of cards has only started to fall down. This is the first step, but more economical sorrows are bound to be behind the corner. With his irresponsibility, this was just the first cracking of the facade.
Second of all, you do not need to cut contact with this man completely if you don't want to (at least yet), but you do need to take some distance and perhaps on-line separately. In the best of worlds, you can “date” but live separately and not join finances. If the future is brighter, perhaps he learns from his mistake and will turn into a responsible adult, but I doubt it a little.
Third of all: try to do what you can to keep the house. The housing market is on its way up, so your house is the best stock you can bet on. I would continue living in it myself, but try to rent out part of it in some way. If it is a complete house, investigate if it would be possible to separate parts of the house into a separate entry-home that you could rent out. Otherwise try to choose wisely the person you rent out for. Focus on quality of the renter and not the quantity they pay you. Don't listen to sob stories. I would recommend to choose a boring middle aged worker from another city that needs a house for the weeks to online in (or some other boring alternative). Focus not on finding a good match for a friend, but to find the most boring and trustworthy human being that is willing to pay money for something. Another option is to rent out “warm storage space” for people temporarily. Say, for somebody to store their stuff in for a year when they are travelling. You might need to buy a good lockable door for that for the rentable rooms.
Yea that would lead me to believe that’s what’s going on. I think getting him to share his feelings would make him more comfortable, once he gets the weight off his chest he’ll hopefully feel better about it. Good luck!
To be fair, they had an agreement on a plan of when they would want children in their hypothetical future. Not an agreement on what they would do in an accidental pregnancy. People are also allowed to change their mind.
Oh no. The one that looks like public hair glued to their face. Some men really just need to accept their inability to grow a mustache.
This should be a dealbreaker.
If he thinks that’s abuse, he’s incredibly delusional. And self-centred. Don’t cater to this.
Dear God. I read the whole thing and it seems like a doozy when in reality is very simple.
Why are you groveling for G when he can’t even give you an ounce of respite?
I just cannot fathom being in the death spiral of a person who has such black and white views and not self-reflect that it’s hurting you. Neurodivergence is not an excuse to being a dick.
He calls you names, insults you, guilts you, and you still play as “very valid”. Yeah. Ok. They’re both idiots for treating you like garbage for a mistake they made with each other.
How much more can you apologize when he will continue to berate you for something he said he let go, but as YOU know, he obviously can’t?
It seems to me like you are willing to set yourself on fire for him, when he can’t even meet you halfway. Set some boundaries. You ALREADY apologized. Any conversation in which he goes into his cycle, shut the door, leave. Give warning, I will not tolerate this. Mean it. For every single instance he “has to be right” you need to shut that shit down. He knows you appreciate him as a close and dear friend and HE IS ABUSING IT. Put a stop to his behavior by setting boundaries if you want the friendship to continue.
Ren can also disappear. She obviously was saying things to rile up G, and didn’t give two shits about how you were standing in the middle.
This can’t be real
I have a theory about this situation, and why your fiancé didn't tell you her feelings sooner –
I wonder if while talking about kids in that way, it was sort of mentally separated from your real life in your fiancé's mind. So your she lived her life assuming she'd want kids (as can be extra common with women), went along with it when discussing things like that, but she never truly sat down with herself to contemplate if that's what she truly wanted. Many folks who grew up kinda assuming they'll have kids bc they never considered otherwise, often will easily have those discussions like 'what will we name our kids' but it takes more than than for them to have that sudden snap realisation of 'oh wait, maybe that's kit what I want'
I suspect they may have happened to her. She pictured your life together, with a house, travelling often and for a long time. She suddenly realised that kids totally aren't compatible with that, and that actually, when she's left free to imagine, her imagination only pictures a future with just you and her – no kids. Only when kids were actually mentally imagined in her future for real, not just vague hypothetical like names, could she realise how not on her future map were they. I don't think that she had harboured feelings or thoughts about not wanting them before this, I think this was a sudden realisation for her. And she couldn't have told you any sooner, because it was only in that mental framing that she realised it herself.
I may be wrong of course, that's just my thoughts on a possible scenario. Could be like others have said, that she had had some small thoughts previously about not being sure about kids anymore, but didn't know how to bring it up to you until alcohol loosened her inhibitions and therefore made her more likely to say things (like yourself)
I really don't remember, like I said this happened 20 years ago, I remember not being very good at Mario kart haha, so it probably wasn't that.
Like I said I might've instigated the fight. But we were still friends after, our families were close, it seemed like it happened and then it was done and over, like just kids fighting. Idk.