What makes him a loser? It sounds like he is wanting to work on his future to improve his situation in life. One question is: is this just talk or is he taking action to get there? Another question is: do your timelines match up or is there a big gap between them?
You are free to move on if youâre not confident that he will be able to give you want. You need to listen to yourself here and be honest with yourself.
In all honesty, what happened in their lives happened in their lives. Do you really want to open up that can of worms? do you NEED to know? Likely it would kill the family if it came out something happened , and your father would be absolutely gutted.
Family is the ones who raised you and treated you right, not the ones that donated DNA
So… As a 40 yo woman you engaged in predatory behavior -because let's be realistic, it is- with a 18 year old, who was also your son's only friend?
And not only you don't feel guilty about it, you were HAPPY your son went away so you could keep fucking him and betray your son without having to hide it?
You're an horrendous mom and a terrible person. I cannot even fathom how your son has the strength and will to call you to try and talk to you, because you do NOT deserve to talk to your son again. He deserved a good family, even if he only had one parent, and not only you did the exact contrary, but you're also being an ass about it and keep thinking you were in the right and not giving a fuck about your son.
Let's also talk about how weird and amoral it is for a grown ass, fully adult woman WITH A SON THAT IS ALMOST TWENTY to sleep with a teenager ?. “But we love each other” my ass. That is fully the behavior of a predator.
You disgust me. I hope your son tells you that he has no reason to want to contact you again and that you're officially out of his life.
She cheated on her amazing hubby because he got slightly out of shape. No man. NO man in his right mind should marry such a heartless, shallow person. Thing is, there's probably not much you can say to unattract her, because it would seem she's found a kindred spirit in you. Gods irresistable gift to disloyal women.
What does âbuild yourself betterâ mean? What would come in marriage that means your current financial situation is not okay? Do you not already live and split costs together?
If you need up to 10 years to decide whether or not you want your partner to be a permanent part of your life, it seems like somethingâs not right.
I understand weddings are expensive, but if thatâs the sole issue that should be one that your partner understands. Sheâll likely be happy with a long engagement as long as she knows the intent to marry is there.
Look within yourself – if everythingâs so wonderful and itâs been 5 years, whatâs holding you back?
I wasnât responding to your post, I was responding to the comment above.
Lol
I mean I would have just stopped her because Iâm an adult human being who can say no.
âWell to doâ towns also have rub and tugs.
You cheated. Good luck.
What makes him a loser? It sounds like he is wanting to work on his future to improve his situation in life. One question is: is this just talk or is he taking action to get there? Another question is: do your timelines match up or is there a big gap between them?
You are free to move on if youâre not confident that he will be able to give you want. You need to listen to yourself here and be honest with yourself.
Gross, ewww, and no.
In all honesty, what happened in their lives happened in their lives. Do you really want to open up that can of worms? do you NEED to know? Likely it would kill the family if it came out something happened , and your father would be absolutely gutted.
Family is the ones who raised you and treated you right, not the ones that donated DNA
She stood up and got out of the coffee shop, then came back in, sat down and introduced herself.
She sounds fun (now of course), that was pretty adorable.
So… As a 40 yo woman you engaged in predatory behavior -because let's be realistic, it is- with a 18 year old, who was also your son's only friend?
And not only you don't feel guilty about it, you were HAPPY your son went away so you could keep fucking him and betray your son without having to hide it?
You're an horrendous mom and a terrible person. I cannot even fathom how your son has the strength and will to call you to try and talk to you, because you do NOT deserve to talk to your son again. He deserved a good family, even if he only had one parent, and not only you did the exact contrary, but you're also being an ass about it and keep thinking you were in the right and not giving a fuck about your son.
Let's also talk about how weird and amoral it is for a grown ass, fully adult woman WITH A SON THAT IS ALMOST TWENTY to sleep with a teenager ?. “But we love each other” my ass. That is fully the behavior of a predator.
You disgust me. I hope your son tells you that he has no reason to want to contact you again and that you're officially out of his life.
You're a disgusting human being.
I said sleeping, not jerking off in bed. Shower after that.
She cheated on her amazing hubby because he got slightly out of shape. No man. NO man in his right mind should marry such a heartless, shallow person. Thing is, there's probably not much you can say to unattract her, because it would seem she's found a kindred spirit in you. Gods irresistable gift to disloyal women.
What does âbuild yourself betterâ mean? What would come in marriage that means your current financial situation is not okay? Do you not already live and split costs together?
If you need up to 10 years to decide whether or not you want your partner to be a permanent part of your life, it seems like somethingâs not right.
I understand weddings are expensive, but if thatâs the sole issue that should be one that your partner understands. Sheâll likely be happy with a long engagement as long as she knows the intent to marry is there.
Look within yourself – if everythingâs so wonderful and itâs been 5 years, whatâs holding you back?