Well apart from when OP comes back crying that dear hubby has cheated/throttled her/has turned into a total slob because it's her job to clean up/whatever other problem that there's no coming back form, but she never finished nursing school has no diploma no work experience no way of earning money except in a deadend job with hours that are incompatible with raising the three four or five kids he saddled her with.
I took a few years out of my career to look after my children when they were little, but I still did a little bit of freelance work here and there, and I was on unemployment benefit for the first and had parental benefits for the second, and I was back at work the day after the second started at nursery school. At no point have I had to be totally dependent on my partner, and I would never have agreed to that, just in case things went tits up.
I can not climb into your head and know the truth. I said what I think is the most likely or common. I hope what you say is true and your gf believes you. Regardless, you screwed her over, and who doesn't lock his phone? I still do not see your story as believable, but you don't have to convince me.
He wants to go somewhere in a company he has to play the game, receiving an award I'd a good way to leverage into a higher paid rolls, sounds like he has a shitty attitude and is willing to work a dead-end job where he is “respected”, truthfully I don't know if he would survive retail if he wants respect. I would be very cautious of having kids with this man, he obviously living as if work was a movie and is gonna self sabotage his life due to his ego.
So you don’t give a fuck about your bfs or his friends feelings, only your own feelings of insecurity. Got it. He had feelings for her YEARS ago. Long before you ever came into the picture. Yet here you are, in the picture. Grow up and mature your emotional intelligence or maybe you shouldn’t be in a relationship.
Aspiring to be a housewife is awesome too.
Well apart from when OP comes back crying that dear hubby has cheated/throttled her/has turned into a total slob because it's her job to clean up/whatever other problem that there's no coming back form, but she never finished nursing school has no diploma no work experience no way of earning money except in a deadend job with hours that are incompatible with raising the three four or five kids he saddled her with.
I took a few years out of my career to look after my children when they were little, but I still did a little bit of freelance work here and there, and I was on unemployment benefit for the first and had parental benefits for the second, and I was back at work the day after the second started at nursery school. At no point have I had to be totally dependent on my partner, and I would never have agreed to that, just in case things went tits up.
I can not climb into your head and know the truth. I said what I think is the most likely or common. I hope what you say is true and your gf believes you. Regardless, you screwed her over, and who doesn't lock his phone? I still do not see your story as believable, but you don't have to convince me.
He wants to go somewhere in a company he has to play the game, receiving an award I'd a good way to leverage into a higher paid rolls, sounds like he has a shitty attitude and is willing to work a dead-end job where he is “respected”, truthfully I don't know if he would survive retail if he wants respect. I would be very cautious of having kids with this man, he obviously living as if work was a movie and is gonna self sabotage his life due to his ego.
So you don’t give a fuck about your bfs or his friends feelings, only your own feelings of insecurity. Got it. He had feelings for her YEARS ago. Long before you ever came into the picture. Yet here you are, in the picture. Grow up and mature your emotional intelligence or maybe you shouldn’t be in a relationship.