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Yeah, I think you should tell her that the quality is not top notch.
But please, if you know your sister is not the type to appreciate brutal honesty try to have some tact. For example you can say something like “hey, yesterday I tried the kit because I needed to open a beer and I realized that the plastic is flimsy. Oh and also that blablabal (insert here your critics). I was thinking that maybe you should change some of your supplier, you know you don’t want people to start reviewing poorly your stuffs”
You will have to decide what's more important to you. This in general happy relationship and your partner. Or the potential of eventually having kids someday.
It might not be possible to have both, since your partner is sure they don't want kids.
The custody agreement was part of the conversation today. I hear you though. I find it unfair that the guy gets to immediately jump into her life after I've been dad this whole time. The girl is a wild one for sure. She is only semi-verbal, does not follow directions well, and is a challenge for both of us. I can't imagine he would stick around for that, but who knows. I feel like i already have my answer. Just wanted to see if I'm overreacting. But it doesn't feel like i am.
So get some proof and then get a BUNCH of people to flood her company. Tell them they’re welcome to sue for libel but it’s hot to win those cases with evidence.
Have you asked her if $700 is too much for her? She may not feasibly be able to do that, and might be embarrassed to actually say that, but that’s a good reason for her to be trying to cut down the total cost.
Oh, I see. That’s not it. I have somewhere to go, I’m not exactly lonely, I genuinely get in my head about her hurting herself and sitting in the big ass house alone. It makes me feel like ass.
No, my roommate didn't but he put that girl in that position. But, I was at the club with my roommate and his friend, and the promoter grabbed her butt the second we walked in and got her super drunk, and started making out with her. But it was just after that even if I'm there or not there, I don't ever want to go through that and have her be through what I've been through, I simply never want to see anyone else end up as my situation did. Because I know what he says to promoters about his girlfriends and I know they love it. To go more into it, I tried to stop it but the bouncer threw me out. I apologize cause I was just writing from my brain and it's all over the place.
First, I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope that you can find healing.
For you fiancé, could you possibly reach out to a trusted friend of his or family member and ask to help reach him in his grief and get him some help. He sounds like he is blinded by his grief for your loss and he does not know how to process or deal with it and is taking out on you. Someone outside of you could possibly be able to reach him. Or the alternative is that you need to leave and get help for yourself. This may allow him to see what he is doing to you. My heart breaks for you. You are dealing with so much right now. Sending you a big hug and hope that you find the healing for the both of you.
Till today we have not tried extensively to have baby and we were just about to begin trying but things went south, there were times in this duration where our parents kept asking about having baby, my mom took one step ahead and went to doctor along with my wife to find out if anything is wrong clinically although we have been telling her everything was alright, understandably by wife didn't take this well and since I don't like confrontation I let the incidence pass and then later spoke to my mom it was not a right thing to do, at that moment she didn't take me seriously, she went about talking to other family member about this, again my wife didn't take this well, one day we sat and had a conversation where my wife told my mom that there was nothing wrong clinically and we did have a pregnancy and we terminated dude to restriction to travel and we could not be with each other to enjoy the pregnancy, my dream is to always stay with my wife and look after her in this period. Again my mom didn't take this well, she might have gone around telling close family that my wife terminated the pregnancy she might have made it sound like it was her decision and not ours. Fast forward to now, Few weeks ago my wife found out that I had girlfriends before I meet her, I had not told this my self initially because I was worried how she may take this, I agree this is my fault, I had major doubts she may not take this well, which made it worst when she found out and didn't come out of me, one of the major reason why I had not told her before is because she believe in “one partner life time” and she was serious about it, considering some of the things mentally she was going through I was super scared to tell her this and put off telling about it ever since. Now that she has got to know she didn't take it well that I had not told about this before although I had hinted her before that I had girlfriends before. Between all the I know we were not emotionally well connected, I always wanted to improve out relationship I was putting all the efforts possible and I still was not upto the mark in connecting emotionally and lack of communication, but I never gave up, I was always putting effort in improving it as much as possible from my end. Now she things i'm a bad person, she says I manipulate her, and she says I don't stand up for her, there were many times I have stood up to her just not in front of her because I feel if she sees me fighting with other people she may not take it well, I feel like she will take it in a wrong way. She is a kind of person who responds rudely in her voice and delivery but she don't mean it bad, but this worries me, which I have been communicating to her all this time, I don't find her talking romantic but I can easily find her talking rude and harsh about me or other people. We had a very big fight today and she asked me to leave the country we are living and go back home because she is not able to tolerate me, I have always been sitting next to her trying to convince and calm her down. Im promising her I will be a better person and understand her sensitively, i'm willing to put all my efforts into this, she is not able to accept my mom's act and she keeps scolding me that I sound like my mom and I act like my mom and she is not able to accept that I didn't mention about the past girlfriends. At this point she is sleeping across me on the bed and i'm typing on reddit looking for advice and help for my self, how can I make her understand we have better future than our past, I don't want to give up on this marriage, help me with this reddit, let me know if I need to make anything clear in what I have told, I may have missed mentioning things which may not be on top of my mind right now. I think past is gone and we have to focus on future as long as we are involved and willing make it better, What do you think of this situation?
? 100% I personally think after two years there is a man or even a few that have been planting seeds in her head and going after her attention. Can’t say if anything happened but 2 years and you never went is a bad move. I don’t know how to advise on this because the fact she doesn’t want you to go and actually had her friend call or message you to back this up is horrible. This kind of activity for me would put me one of two modes, I separate and see how things go leaning towards finished or I find out where this place is (you should know) and have a close friend go and hang out and see if there is a man she’s excited to spend her time with. Honestly I hate having to even think of such things but if she doesn’t want you there are you in a strong relationship?? Now you have to give her room at times and I mean she goes out with a few of her girlfriends and stays out late. This work gathering is a different ballgame because of the set up. Being together most the day creates natural bonds and a company gathering is ok but my significant other 100% is going. If you plan to stick it out maybe buy one of those gps tracking devices and stick it in her car just to make sure she isn’t going to an unknown location for a brief time. Yea it sucks and it’s shady but so is asking you to not join her at her work party or gathering. Bottom line huge red flag ? Well good luck
Yeah, I think you should tell her that the quality is not top notch.
But please, if you know your sister is not the type to appreciate brutal honesty try to have some tact. For example you can say something like “hey, yesterday I tried the kit because I needed to open a beer and I realized that the plastic is flimsy. Oh and also that blablabal (insert here your critics). I was thinking that maybe you should change some of your supplier, you know you don’t want people to start reviewing poorly your stuffs”
You will have to decide what's more important to you. This in general happy relationship and your partner. Or the potential of eventually having kids someday.
It might not be possible to have both, since your partner is sure they don't want kids.
The custody agreement was part of the conversation today. I hear you though. I find it unfair that the guy gets to immediately jump into her life after I've been dad this whole time. The girl is a wild one for sure. She is only semi-verbal, does not follow directions well, and is a challenge for both of us. I can't imagine he would stick around for that, but who knows. I feel like i already have my answer. Just wanted to see if I'm overreacting. But it doesn't feel like i am.
So get some proof and then get a BUNCH of people to flood her company. Tell them they’re welcome to sue for libel but it’s hot to win those cases with evidence.
Have you asked her if $700 is too much for her? She may not feasibly be able to do that, and might be embarrassed to actually say that, but that’s a good reason for her to be trying to cut down the total cost.
She needs some serious help because this is completely unsustainable
If he doesnt do any awards/trophies he should never accept a promotion either, cuz that is award/reward aswell
Very weird take all around
Add him excluding you for important things, the manipulative you arent on my side bit and well he doesnt sound like a great partner
At the very very least dont buy a house with him with his current attitude (that i dont expect to change)
Oh, I see. That’s not it. I have somewhere to go, I’m not exactly lonely, I genuinely get in my head about her hurting herself and sitting in the big ass house alone. It makes me feel like ass.
No, my roommate didn't but he put that girl in that position. But, I was at the club with my roommate and his friend, and the promoter grabbed her butt the second we walked in and got her super drunk, and started making out with her. But it was just after that even if I'm there or not there, I don't ever want to go through that and have her be through what I've been through, I simply never want to see anyone else end up as my situation did. Because I know what he says to promoters about his girlfriends and I know they love it. To go more into it, I tried to stop it but the bouncer threw me out. I apologize cause I was just writing from my brain and it's all over the place.
You have no objection to him staying at your home??? WTF??
Girl, you need to grow a spine and create some boundaries.
Your boyfriend is a jackass who has no respect or care for your bodily autonomy or feelings
If you stay with him this will only get worse. Without a doubt
He says that bc of his kink he’ll always need it….
First, I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope that you can find healing.
For you fiancé, could you possibly reach out to a trusted friend of his or family member and ask to help reach him in his grief and get him some help. He sounds like he is blinded by his grief for your loss and he does not know how to process or deal with it and is taking out on you. Someone outside of you could possibly be able to reach him. Or the alternative is that you need to leave and get help for yourself. This may allow him to see what he is doing to you. My heart breaks for you. You are dealing with so much right now. Sending you a big hug and hope that you find the healing for the both of you.
Further context here,
Till today we have not tried extensively to have baby and we were just about to begin trying but things went south, there were times in this duration where our parents kept asking about having baby, my mom took one step ahead and went to doctor along with my wife to find out if anything is wrong clinically although we have been telling her everything was alright, understandably by wife didn't take this well and since I don't like confrontation I let the incidence pass and then later spoke to my mom it was not a right thing to do, at that moment she didn't take me seriously, she went about talking to other family member about this, again my wife didn't take this well, one day we sat and had a conversation where my wife told my mom that there was nothing wrong clinically and we did have a pregnancy and we terminated dude to restriction to travel and we could not be with each other to enjoy the pregnancy, my dream is to always stay with my wife and look after her in this period. Again my mom didn't take this well, she might have gone around telling close family that my wife terminated the pregnancy she might have made it sound like it was her decision and not ours. Fast forward to now, Few weeks ago my wife found out that I had girlfriends before I meet her, I had not told this my self initially because I was worried how she may take this, I agree this is my fault, I had major doubts she may not take this well, which made it worst when she found out and didn't come out of me, one of the major reason why I had not told her before is because she believe in “one partner life time” and she was serious about it, considering some of the things mentally she was going through I was super scared to tell her this and put off telling about it ever since. Now that she has got to know she didn't take it well that I had not told about this before although I had hinted her before that I had girlfriends before. Between all the I know we were not emotionally well connected, I always wanted to improve out relationship I was putting all the efforts possible and I still was not upto the mark in connecting emotionally and lack of communication, but I never gave up, I was always putting effort in improving it as much as possible from my end. Now she things i'm a bad person, she says I manipulate her, and she says I don't stand up for her, there were many times I have stood up to her just not in front of her because I feel if she sees me fighting with other people she may not take it well, I feel like she will take it in a wrong way. She is a kind of person who responds rudely in her voice and delivery but she don't mean it bad, but this worries me, which I have been communicating to her all this time, I don't find her talking romantic but I can easily find her talking rude and harsh about me or other people. We had a very big fight today and she asked me to leave the country we are living and go back home because she is not able to tolerate me, I have always been sitting next to her trying to convince and calm her down. Im promising her I will be a better person and understand her sensitively, i'm willing to put all my efforts into this, she is not able to accept my mom's act and she keeps scolding me that I sound like my mom and I act like my mom and she is not able to accept that I didn't mention about the past girlfriends. At this point she is sleeping across me on the bed and i'm typing on reddit looking for advice and help for my self, how can I make her understand we have better future than our past, I don't want to give up on this marriage, help me with this reddit, let me know if I need to make anything clear in what I have told, I may have missed mentioning things which may not be on top of my mind right now. I think past is gone and we have to focus on future as long as we are involved and willing make it better, What do you think of this situation?
? 100% I personally think after two years there is a man or even a few that have been planting seeds in her head and going after her attention. Can’t say if anything happened but 2 years and you never went is a bad move. I don’t know how to advise on this because the fact she doesn’t want you to go and actually had her friend call or message you to back this up is horrible. This kind of activity for me would put me one of two modes, I separate and see how things go leaning towards finished or I find out where this place is (you should know) and have a close friend go and hang out and see if there is a man she’s excited to spend her time with. Honestly I hate having to even think of such things but if she doesn’t want you there are you in a strong relationship?? Now you have to give her room at times and I mean she goes out with a few of her girlfriends and stays out late. This work gathering is a different ballgame because of the set up. Being together most the day creates natural bonds and a company gathering is ok but my significant other 100% is going. If you plan to stick it out maybe buy one of those gps tracking devices and stick it in her car just to make sure she isn’t going to an unknown location for a brief time. Yea it sucks and it’s shady but so is asking you to not join her at her work party or gathering. Bottom line huge red flag ? Well good luck
Yes she does, especially because she thinks she a psychic according to OP's edit. She needs a lot of help.