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Date: October 22, 2022
I've been with my partner for almost 3 years now. She's been on the receiving end of traumatic experiences multiple times in her life, from before our relationship, and during, has gone through therapy and all that good stuff, and I've stood by her the whole way.
I'm doing my best to encourage her to pick up a hobby, learn a qualification, have a goal of some sort and stick to it, so that I can trust her words, and believe what she says, however, I can't keep hoping forever, and believing the words that come out of her mouth if they don't amount to anything.
One of the many things your husband has done right is to not give you an ultimatum. He knows that any change you make has to be authentic. It can't be for anyone else other than yourself. If the only reason why you're choosing to better yourself is for someone else, then you won't stick to it, and he knows that.
I'm sorry you've been through trauma. As you previously acknowledged, he's been there for you when you were at your lowest, and celebrated achievements with you. He shouldn't have to tell you that you're not considering his own burdens and feelings.
He tried, and he gave you a relatively simple task in hopes of potentially giving you a dopamine boost after completion, and to give him proof that you are committed to the relationship.
hell, why not all of the above?
Dude is scum, there is no telling how deep the scum runs.
Was gonna type this lol.
yes, it is okay for him to say it and not okay for her to repeat it to use as a weapon for revenge. just like it’d be wrong if the roles were reversed. are you really this dense?
Girl you already did. Nobody would ever think less of you if you literally never talked to him again.
What do you need him to do, sign a document??
After almost 10 years I believe I am good thank you though
How is the communication when you guys are apart?
Remember he chose those things for himself.
Protect yourself, protect your kid.
I took care of someone with cancer , alone, and I 100 percent agree it is a fulltime job.
Did you ask him about it?
So no spanking? ?
After years of being in with the 2 yes rule, it's pretty strange of him to break it over such a small disagreement.
Is there more to it? If give him some space to think over what he said. Hopefully, he apologizes. If not, in a few days, initiate the conversation.
I'm in your corner. We're away, so no fist sleepover.
Trying my hardest to make it my main focus. I’m 100% stressed about this exam. Thank you for the advice.
If I liked someone enough to date them I would have long cut off communication and encounters with other women. I would not be able to shrug this off either. BUT… this is the way dating works now and she did not do anything ethically wrong, whether or not you think it was morally wrong will probably be the deciding factor of this moving forward or not.
Dump the weirdo
No, your not wrong. I was never asking to get married right this second (bc I even told him, i wanted to wait till after I graduate). Do I make jokes about it? Yeah. I graduate this fall (Fall 23”) and I will have roughly $20,000 in debt which I’m starting to pay off this summer when I start working full time again.. I haven’t asked him to buy me anything (or even pay my bills).. So, the conversation was fairly left field bc if he had those feelings, he should’ve brought them up sooner than what he did (and NO, I told him the only time I’d “quit” working was to take care of a kid if there was one, even then I would rather do part time rather than be a “SAHM” bc I wouldn’t be able to handle staying home everyday)
You’ve never been harassed before and you’re not a female. You don’t know if it was easy or not for her to just come back right away and tell you. You sound insufferable. You even said this person is a bad guy, maybe she knew that and didn’t feel safe. If you’re looking for any excuse to break up with her then just do it and do her a favor. Making her change her number to justify this situation is controlling and completely toxic.
You have grown as a person and he has stayed stagnant. I am going out on a limb here and saying you really do not have anything in common with him anymore. he seems extremely jealous of your accomplishments but not willing to change for the relationship. You know he is holding you back. It's time for you to move on.
This sounds like one of two things, possibly both:
(1) It sounds like family of origin stuff to me, where “doing stuff” is a passive aggressive way of trying to get other people to do stuff. If you have a passive-aggressive mother, you know that “rage cleaning” is actually a demand, “Why haven’t you cleaned this?” She might be taking it that way, as a criticism.
(2) She’s bound to have systems. Take time to understand and respect them.
Your best move is a talk in which you ask HOW you can be most helpful, and also emphasize what a good job you think she does and how when you do stuff, it’s for love, not out of disappointment or unhappiness.
He’s married. He doesn’t respect you. Never has. If you still like him, you don’t even respect yourself. Think about that. Maybe it will help
He’s married. He doesn’t respect you. Never has. If you still like him, you don’t even respect yourself. Think about that. Maybe it will help