Well, She freaking lied, that's why you feel weird. It's not ok for her to withhold this information. What if you wanted to have kids someday? This is something they should be up front about with ANYONE, so their partners can decide if they'd rather have their own biological children with someone else, or if they'd rather stay with their Trans SO and adopt. It is lying by omission, and I for sure would drop her like it's hot.
I am so sorry this happened to you! I'm glad to hear that you have one wonderful friend who has your back. I don't know if you should drop your lame friends, but definitely limit your time with them. I'm in my 30s and I can tell you I've made a few friends since I turned 21. 2 of whom are very close, best friends. One was through a mutual friend, the other was through work. It's hot to make friends when you aren't in school. This is such a fear for me for my friends. I have anxiety and often agree to go to parties then want to cancel the day of, but I don't because I am also anxious about my friends not having anyone show up. I hope you find yourself some anxiously loyal friends!
You appear to have very, very bad insecurities and come across as pretty controlling.
So is she not allowed to have male coworkers as friends? What if she meets a lesbian, can she not have them as a friend because they might be into her? (And if you say it's not the same, you're 100% missing the point)
The implication here is you don't trust your girlfriend and that if any guy shows interest, she'll cheat. If you believe this, you need to break up. It's unhealthy, and you can't maintain a relationship like this.
You're unhinged.
Well, She freaking lied, that's why you feel weird. It's not ok for her to withhold this information. What if you wanted to have kids someday? This is something they should be up front about with ANYONE, so their partners can decide if they'd rather have their own biological children with someone else, or if they'd rather stay with their Trans SO and adopt. It is lying by omission, and I for sure would drop her like it's hot.
I am so sorry this happened to you! I'm glad to hear that you have one wonderful friend who has your back. I don't know if you should drop your lame friends, but definitely limit your time with them. I'm in my 30s and I can tell you I've made a few friends since I turned 21. 2 of whom are very close, best friends. One was through a mutual friend, the other was through work. It's hot to make friends when you aren't in school. This is such a fear for me for my friends. I have anxiety and often agree to go to parties then want to cancel the day of, but I don't because I am also anxious about my friends not having anyone show up. I hope you find yourself some anxiously loyal friends!
You appear to have very, very bad insecurities and come across as pretty controlling.
So is she not allowed to have male coworkers as friends? What if she meets a lesbian, can she not have them as a friend because they might be into her? (And if you say it's not the same, you're 100% missing the point)
The implication here is you don't trust your girlfriend and that if any guy shows interest, she'll cheat. If you believe this, you need to break up. It's unhealthy, and you can't maintain a relationship like this.
Poly isn’t an orientation you’re born with it’s a choice. You can’t “be poly” if your partner doesn’t agree to it. She’s just cheating on him.