I'd say it differently. Politics can be debated. Civil rights and basic decency cannot. Set a clear rule for everyone to follow: no hate speech, no bigotry, no racism.
Silence means the oppressors win. Your (hypothetical) sister shouldn't be banned from talking about how unfair it is to be a woman in her workplace. Your (hypothetical) uncle shouldn't be banned from talking about how he can't get service at certain places because he's gay. Both those conversations are political, but need to be discussed. A ban on politics just re-enforces any existing system of oppression.
If you support civil rights, you need to support conversation about civil rights.
These comments make me laugh. If it was the other way around, there would be no ifs, buts and maybes. But because its a woman that's doing this shit, we always have to find a way to spin it back on the man ??♂️
If you don’t want to break up because how long it would take to replace her, man, that’s just being a jerk. Never mind she’s at an age that’s quite sensible to have a short time frame for kids.
You are not her best friend. You’re her coworker. This is creepy and I would hate to work in an environment like this. Because you guy,s got coffee together at work now you should own her attention.
The fact he won't reciprocate oral makes me think he's selfish instead of being insecure like I originally thought.
This is a deal breaker for me, don't feel ashamed if u think the same way.
I'd say it differently. Politics can be debated. Civil rights and basic decency cannot. Set a clear rule for everyone to follow: no hate speech, no bigotry, no racism.
Silence means the oppressors win. Your (hypothetical) sister shouldn't be banned from talking about how unfair it is to be a woman in her workplace. Your (hypothetical) uncle shouldn't be banned from talking about how he can't get service at certain places because he's gay. Both those conversations are political, but need to be discussed. A ban on politics just re-enforces any existing system of oppression.
If you support civil rights, you need to support conversation about civil rights.
These comments make me laugh. If it was the other way around, there would be no ifs, buts and maybes. But because its a woman that's doing this shit, we always have to find a way to spin it back on the man ??♂️
So apparently you are no good because you just want sex but a scammer is much better
I think her justification is weak so is her character and now she has involved your daughter
Chalk this up to ” no good deed goes unpunished “, once you let mom in, the wall was down.
If you want a private wedding cancel this one, reschedule in 4 months and don't tell anyone.
Joe Cole said it best, “don't save her, she don't want to be saved”
Just give her lots of love and affection. In time, this will be a memory you guys laugh about.
If you don’t want to break up because how long it would take to replace her, man, that’s just being a jerk. Never mind she’s at an age that’s quite sensible to have a short time frame for kids.
You are not her best friend. You’re her coworker. This is creepy and I would hate to work in an environment like this. Because you guy,s got coffee together at work now you should own her attention.
Maybe not yet but 100% headed that way.
I'm unsure how to proceed
There's nothing left to do. It's a good ending. Leave it like it is, and don't back down to him!