F that sh*t. This isn't about differing boundaries: he called her filthy, which heavily implies that he thinks they were being sexual and that's seriously messed up. Husband obviously wants to – or already has – bone his own sister and is projecting, or is severely damaged by porn.
I'd absolutely refuse to apologize if I were OP, and I'd definitely be prepared to die on that hill
In the end, it’s better to understand and respect each other’s wants and goals in life now than wait 10 years to hear she never really wanted children. If you both think the other will eventually change their minds then it’s not going to work. It’s scary but the truth is always the best way to go.
You may feel like you’re willing to give up kids now but you may also change your mind about wanting kids (which is on too) after your married a few years. People get divorced because of this.
Sounds like he never forgave you and messed with your contraception
He's too young for you anyway. Best off just letting him go and live his life
F that sh*t. This isn't about differing boundaries: he called her filthy, which heavily implies that he thinks they were being sexual and that's seriously messed up. Husband obviously wants to – or already has – bone his own sister and is projecting, or is severely damaged by porn.
I'd absolutely refuse to apologize if I were OP, and I'd definitely be prepared to die on that hill
In the end, it’s better to understand and respect each other’s wants and goals in life now than wait 10 years to hear she never really wanted children. If you both think the other will eventually change their minds then it’s not going to work. It’s scary but the truth is always the best way to go.
You may feel like you’re willing to give up kids now but you may also change your mind about wanting kids (which is on too) after your married a few years. People get divorced because of this.