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Birth Date: 2003-01-07
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorGreen
Subculture: subcultureStudent
Date: November 23, 2022
You understand that … making it work doesn't involve throwing away your self-respect. You can't make it work, with someone who will not respect you. There is nothing you can do.
Well if it's true it kind of depends on the truth and whether it's something you feel you can forgive. If it's not or it's something completely outrageous, then the only thing to do is break up and forget about him. You bring it up by doing your research first and then flat out stating that you happened upon a profile that looks exactly like the pictures he sends and has a similar name and other striking similarities, but is still far enough off from what he has told you to warrent some genuine worry and that you (may or may not have found some other things as well to back this up) and that you are willing to send him what you have and demand an explanation that isn't such astronomical bs pathological liars all over the world are looking up to the skies collectively in disbelief and it better happen now.
Seriously I ve seen many adult siblings sleep together in vacations or when space is an issue.Doesn’t mean anything.
Would he bang his mom or his sister if they slept in the same bed?
They've been together a year.
Agreed
Thank you for your detailed reply. I'll try to answer all of the questions you brought up.
This is not a new conversation she and I have had. We have talked MANY times over the years about what stresses are in the relationship and how we each see them. So to your first question on how did she respond: she was emotionless. At least to my face. She brought up in a fit of anger within the last month that I (or her) should probably move out. That had been a theme in arguments shortly after we first got married. Around the time our oldest was born, she laid out the argument that she felt she shouldn't have ever married me. It's been a number of years since then so I do not recall the exact wording, but the meaning remains. That was when she started bringing up the term divorce in arguments.
Because of the circumstances of our oldest's birth, I sought advice for myself and tried to chalk it up to PPD. As the years went on, she would use that terminology during arguments.
As far as a roadmap: no. We had not lined out what we wanted for a future. We went from discussing if we wanted to get married, when that might be, to within 48 hours, half of the wedding already planned out with her dress bought, ring given to me by her mom, date locked in, and many other plans already in the works. For as long as I've known her, she has had an impetuous streak. But this made me feel completely steamrolled. When I would try to bring up that fact with her, she would laugh it off as her being cute.
As far as asking her to get a job: that discussion took place well before kids were in the picture. And yes, it was revisited many times. Each time I phrased it “when the kids are old enough and don't need you at home full time” or specifically referencing when they were in elementary/primary school, I asked her to consider getting a PT job to help with bills. She does have a medical diagnosis for lupus. And as such, every time anything that would be taxing to her would come up, I would try my best to be sensitive to that fact.
Over the years, her condition has gotten seemingly better to the point she is not on many of the medications she used initially. I have supported her emotionally in her physical journey to fight through that, watching her go from stating she cannot perform certain tasks like general house cleaning or things of that nature, to her essentially wanting to be a physical fitness instructor. I have fought to make clear how proud of her I am in her own fight/journey.
And before comments regarding her having medical conditions hits: I did not place an expectation on her to keep the house clean or be the sole childcare provider. I realize now that agreeing to her being a SAHM implied that expectation. I did what I thought I could to support her with the house work, often seeing her reclean what I had just done or being told I did not clean to her expectations.
My kids have ALWAYS been a top priority for me. And I feel that is why it has taken so long for me to get to this point of actually leaving. I could never dream of a situation where I leave my kids thinking I would not be there for them, love them, or leave them without any resources.
I did end up changing careers a few times. One change was discussed deeply before I made the move because it did put us back financially. Every other career move was to better our collective situation. We did not go on trips often. Once every…maybe 5 or 6 years? We both wanted to travel. We also did not have any kind of regular date night. Despite planning and asking for that to be a regular thing. We often discussed it. And despite best efforts to make things happen…they did not.
As far as the animals: this came up quite often. Every time she would mention wanting a new animal, I expressed my reluctance to bring more pets, regardless of if we already had one of the same species. In addition to having discovered the allergies to so many animals. She would get them regardless. We have not added a new animal in the last 2 years. In fact many of them are old enough that they are approaching the end of their lives. Often that would be a factor of if/when she wanted a new pet.
Within the last year, she did agree to look for a PT job…that has turned into a full time job with the potential for a long term career. I did ask that she consider looking for a PT job when the animals felt more manageable. I was expecting, and worded it as much, her to take 2 to 3 years to think about what she wanted. She took it on herself and found employment that she feels highly satisfied with. And I told her how proud of her I am. Because of how long we and a family lived on just my income, I did not access funds she has brought in.
To your last question: it is a colleague. I made a rule for myself to not date coworkers. For all the obvious reasons. We work together incredibly well. And any additional attraction is mutual.it certainly falls into the category of an emotional affair. The last thing I want is to complicate things. I have told my coworker this. And that any real relationship that could develop would have to wait until after this is processed completely.
Again…thank you for your very detailed reply. It gave me a lot to think on. I hope my answers provide more clarity