B is certainly orangey leaning, but definitely yellow. A is 'beige'. If it has to be debated this closely, then I say it doesn't count. My partner and I also play this game and we have endless discussions on this exact theme! (“No, that's a piss green, not a yellow…” “nah, that's definitely a pale washed-out primrose yellow…” “nooo, it's cream!”)
She defined the relationship or lack of one very clearly. If she and her friends don’t like it that you took her definition of your relationship to heart, that’s their problem
Yeah, I did think about that. OP is a little vague on that, just says she is “woken up.” I think if the noise was excessive she might have pointed that out? Maybe OP can clarify.
I guess I went with the assumption that if it was loud moaning/screaming/etc, that would have been in the post. She mostly says they have a small place with thin walls, and even quiet sex can wake someone up then, a simple “thump thump thump” of the bed shaking even without anything else could wake someone else up like that, and that's not easy to cover up.
But then what should I do, because it seems her demand is I stop doing this thing that I really enjoy doing, because of her insecurity. Even though I repeatedly tell her how much I love, how she’s the one for me, she’s the background on my phone etc. I’ll gladly be understanding and help her with insecurities. But I won’t quit doing this because she demands it. Because then what else is she going to want me to quit in the future?
B is certainly orangey leaning, but definitely yellow. A is 'beige'. If it has to be debated this closely, then I say it doesn't count. My partner and I also play this game and we have endless discussions on this exact theme! (“No, that's a piss green, not a yellow…” “nah, that's definitely a pale washed-out primrose yellow…” “nooo, it's cream!”)
Are you seeing a different post history then me?
I see 2 posts, both of with ages consistent with this post.
If I'm wrong I'd love to know why what I'm seeing is different than yours lol
She defined the relationship or lack of one very clearly. If she and her friends don’t like it that you took her definition of your relationship to heart, that’s their problem
1-2 months is a good time frame imo!
Yeah, I did think about that. OP is a little vague on that, just says she is “woken up.” I think if the noise was excessive she might have pointed that out? Maybe OP can clarify.
I guess I went with the assumption that if it was loud moaning/screaming/etc, that would have been in the post. She mostly says they have a small place with thin walls, and even quiet sex can wake someone up then, a simple “thump thump thump” of the bed shaking even without anything else could wake someone else up like that, and that's not easy to cover up.
If she's looking for other people,she's on different page bud
That's weird af. Why doesn't she want you around her friends?
But then what should I do, because it seems her demand is I stop doing this thing that I really enjoy doing, because of her insecurity. Even though I repeatedly tell her how much I love, how she’s the one for me, she’s the background on my phone etc. I’ll gladly be understanding and help her with insecurities. But I won’t quit doing this because she demands it. Because then what else is she going to want me to quit in the future?
Do you not read her comments? She has the same mental capacity for decision-making as a tween.