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Date: October 23, 2022
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Why are you going through his search history on multiple apps? I'd break up with for that, it's as creepy as hell.
You can control yourself. There's no excuse. He needs to leave you before you act on it.
If you want I can find work for her in your area…I'm very good at things like that. You can message me if you like. There are plenty of people that are looking for someone to clean their house or pet walk etc…just gotta know where to look.
I think you will be happier without this human barnacle but keep your daughter she needs you too (it sounds as if you think of them as a unit? I do not understand.) You may be right about needing therapy.
I'm not saying that this is definitely what happened, but it's possible to be mistaken about how drunk someone is. If she was walking around and speaking coherently and her brain just wasn't recording, I can believe that nobody involved is lying.
Yes, biology. What a stupid comment.
You need solo counseling & joint pre-marital counseling immediately. Find someone who will do it over zoom. Delay the wedding if needed.
I think OP said that to make himself feel better, but his other posts keep talking about the guy she is now dating. Ironically, OP being an obsessive ass about this guy may have opened his ex to the guy's better qualities.
Sounds like she jumped at a chance to end this relationship, albeit preemptively. You should definitely take the interview, and the job should they offer it.
I get that she doesn't want one but I'm willing to bet she'd feel incredibly relieved if this pregnancy went away. Part of the reason women believe abortion is wrong is because they're force fed lies like “you'll regret your abortion”.
He can break up with you for his own preferences and there is nothing wrong with him to choose a partner who hasn't been experimental in the past. No one can call him wrong for his choice of partner of that suits him.
But under no circumstances can he call you disgusting. That was overboard. Until and unless you have hurt people in the past or hidden something that can jeopardize your relationship, this was not cool on his side.
She’s too old to be acting like a jealous teenager
I am not sure your husband was thinking of you with other men, more he’s either been talking to swingers or has a girl in mind.
I too have IBS and completely get where you’re at. My go to response for all partners who’ve repeatedly suggested anal was, “you go first.” If you can do it and enjoy it then I know I have someone with experience guiding me. Otherwise it is a no go. It’s a sex act that needs to be a two yes one no and you’ve said no. The fact that he continues to push and apply pressure, for me, is a flag that he is not the person you should do this with. If you’re mid act and it’s too much and tell him to stop, but he’s enjoying it, do you trust he’d stop right then and there?
Some people just can’t do it. If you genuinely are curious and want to try it, there are plenty of guides on how to get started. You always start small, and use more lube than you think, and be relaxed and make sure anything touching your area is clean! But only if YOU want this.
I’m so glad you responded to me, because it feels really good to know I’m not alone. I also didn’t even consider it until a friend of mine who is diagnosed on the spectrum kind of joked about it with me. And I started to think about it and researched it, and a lot fit. But like you, I think it’s slight. I’m so very social. I just….can’t connect that last dot. I fixate on some odd things (I collect dinosaur teeth and dead bugs), I get extremely anxious in hyper crowded social situations…but yet, I love talking to people. I’m just not great at reading it I think? Not sure. But it feels good to hear your response and feel seen.
They don't let you get it after age 26
It's IT
I've talked to her about how she's talks to him a lot and how I feel that I might lose her to him, she's reassured me that they're just friends who have things in common to talk about. She kind of doesn't really have that many friends outside like me and like 2 other people (besides family), whereas I have a good amount of friends that I talk to on a regular basis (definitely not as much as her and her co worker, since I've been friends with my friends much longer than she has with him).
But I mean I guess I let it stew up for a bit before it came bursting out, to give to time to collect my thoughts on the situation. But I have not brought up this gift situation thing (Assuming that it is a situation).
Are these searches on mainstream porn sites? If so, it might not be that much of a concern mostly because that’s a common category with actual adult performers and tends to fall in line with western/American perspectives of youth = beauty (but still adults).
If he is searching places all over the place across various sites, I would have more trouble gauging this.
You need to do something for yourself that you enjoy, some time for yourself, you can’t spend your whole life working for others. It’s not selfish, it’s good for your mental health.
Tsk
You've been together for over 3 years, this is “part of who you are”, yet you've never ever talked about it before?
The issue is that he does not care enough about you to take your feelings into account.
He knows how you feel and he is still willing to put himself into a possible situation with someone who has blatantly disrespected you and your relationship.
She has no respect for either one of you. And has tried countless times to get him to have sex with her, flirt with him, etc
He obviously likes it as he keeps putting himself into situations with her.
He might not cheat by why is he willing to put himself in a situation where she can say something happened even if it didn't. You won't know the truth because you won't be there.
It will be his word against hers. And he will have no one to blame but himself
Would it be better to break up with him before something has a chance to happen or wait until it does?
You can get over it easier if you break up before If he isn't willing to accept your boundaries and not go then he cares nothing for you.
Have some self respect and don't allow yourself to be treated this way. Because a man wouldn't put himself in this situation and risk losing the person he loves to go on a trip. He would say he isn't going and stay home with you. He also would have no contact at all with this girl.
I kind of think this trip was planned so you couldn't go, and he could hook up with her, because you wouldn't be there to stop him. Seems fishy they plan it when they know you can't go.
…an angle grinder would literally be safer.
Either he’s got major mental health issues (as he claims) or he lied and was off with someone else and is coming back now because it didn’t work out
Either case you’d be a fool to welcome him back into your life in ANY capacity