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alinacruz Public Chat Channel
Date: October 10, 2022
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Won't do it. Free easy sex is tempting , but not when she belongs to someone else. Won't ever betray another man….ever.
Morgan Freeman voice: “it was not, in fact, the first time it had happened.”
You are still hurting from the accident take some time to see where you are in this gut punch. Are you ready for some more drama? I'd tell my spouse what she said but ahead of time analyse how much heartache you can take. Sometimes silence sends the best message and avoidance limits pain. If you need to talk to your MIL and tell her what you heard but only if you are feeling up to it. Please take care of yourself!
Oh yeah, it doesn't seem like you're compatible. If you have these many issues after one year, i don't think it's gonna be too good after two.
Hmm okay, since I’ve requested it I’ll take some time to think then let her know or if she ends up messaging me again
Yeah the way she discovered was terrible. That is what soured the whole thing.
She is ok with me using our lingerie. The make up not so much. We both decided I should buy my own if I want to explore that. Which was cool but then conversation spiraled later that if I chose to do it further that it would affect us.
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Yikes dude.
You’ve been clinging to a person who doesn’t love you and has told you so, someone who wants a divorce, and has cheated on you. There’s nothing left. You need to let her go permanently. This is so unhealthy for you AND your kids. You’re doing so much damage to them and their perception of adult relationships by staying. If you can’t leave for your own sake, you need to leave this relationship with your wife for them. Do it now while they’re young…they’ll understand later on.
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Sounds like this might even be the bigger factor than how appearance – more that the appearance is representative of him not being a healthy role model for your kids
You can’t change a person that leaves meat in the floor. You need clean stuff with an effort at keeping things working. He doesn’t care about his property or others or he is lazy. Sounds like both. I am sorry you can’t change him. If you stay in the relationship you will start to resent him and leave. Might as well leave now. It’s really that simple. Do not mother him!
girl, he followed you after you told him to stop. that is not okay. you have shown genuine remorse and concern after hitting him, and you “hate yourself” for it. you are not abusive or a bad girlfriend. abusive people and bad partners feel no remorse or guilt. your bf is in the wrong here, and i truly hope this is not a regular occurence. the thought of doing something to upset my significant other makes me upset, and i would never do that.
Maybe look at a different therapist because after a year you should be able to articulate your feelings and have a way forward. You are just stagnant and it isn’t good for you, your husband or your kids. I know you said you aren’t ready for couples counselling but if you really want to save your marriage then you are going to have to push yourself and make that first step no matter how hard it is. I wish you luck.
Wait until she intentionally signs on for a trip with an ex of hers, just out of spite. Then you'll know why she is as upset as she is.
Her family is controlling and machist, and they got upset with me once over literally nothing, so I’m not allowed back, and I decided to not go anywhere near them.
It’s an in-person relationship, but she got sick and I assume she hasn’t contacted me because she wants a break from the stress and because she is sick.
I think there’s a reason he only has two work «friends»…
She will not commit suicide x She'll threaten it absolutely. Make a big old to do of it. But she won't. I' not diminishing her issues. Not at all. I hope she finds some path to functioning on genuine happiness and good mental health.
But you are not responsible for her wellbeing. Her life is not in your hands no matter what she says.
It's ok to love yourself enough to say “I don't want my future to be you but I wish you well”.
It's ok. She will be ok x
Damn it really do be your own. Your mother is shit, I’m sorry. It might be less painful to tell her to start planning her retirement and old age around her new-found “daughter” since she’s made it clear where you stand for her. Like damn, if it was his mother I’d understand, but your own? Damn. Lay it on her and cut her out
She could just consciously or subconciously not enjoy destroying her child's confidence and enjoyment of a game.
I mean, my dad taught me to box as a kid, I probably would have quit too if he beat the shit out of me every day.
Doing anything sexual or emotionally intimate with another person outside the confines of a relationship. And yes.
She doesn't need to confess anything to him, she's your friend she confided in you.
Novel idea here… spend time with her without your bf? I know you're young but you don't have to spend every free minute with him.
“he's not my type” “too immature” focus on what you find unattractive in them instead. But he's just feeding his insecurity by pushing for it. Again this is super toxic and you'll never have a comfortable and stable relationship with this guy unless he seriously changes and most people don't change
Break up and take a look at the relationship, you don't want this experience to mould who you are as a partner
You can’t change her, I knew a girl just like her. I just slowly started distancing myself from her. She was an energy vampire.
Is there any reason you can't have a bachelorette party too? You're still quite early in your pregnancy, you can still have a fun time without drinking or endangering the baby. This situation feels like both people trying to have their cake and eat it too.
If I were in your position I would reconsider postponing the wedding, but I'm sure that's not a decision you've made lightly.
She’s abusive.
I hope you’re not actually going to help your BF pay this guy off. In this instance, what happened to him is a consequence of him cheating and I hope he learned something from it. He’s all worried about being embarrassed from his nudes being leaked, but I don’t see anything about how sorry he is for cheating and hurting you.
Ok gotcha ? thank you!
I know it sounds dumb but I would like to do it as nice as I can? Is it smarter to list all of these as my boundaries/concerns or just go with a few? I’m slightly annoyed as I have told her about a few of these before and she has obviously ignored, so I feel like if I send a big list of things its harsh, or just rip the Band-Aid off and do everything?
Maybe it's time to go low contact with your family.
Bro. You should just be like “wanna make it a double date?” Or “its only fair we sniff each others butts too”
Learn to communicate.
That's a him problem. When you accuse your wife and her brother of incest over jealousy you move past the realm of what's embarrassing. The only hope for your relationship is therapy, and even that's not a guarantee.
my brother was talking out of convenient. that he didn't want to be a nuisance since he wasn't planning on staying the night. the things you say not to disrupt someones usual routines. Get it?
You're 31, you have so many options. Right now you sound like a parent not a partner. “I don't trust her instincts in finding a good partner”, No that's not your problem. She's a grown adult she has the agency and responsibility to find a partner and right now you're in a controlling mindset because you don't want to be alone, its one more excuse to stay and I need you to respect her decisions.
If you keep trying and failing then you have opportunity to find what you want if you fail and never try again you'd be a failure. You get to pick the life you want its entirely in your hands and right now you're using excuses to hide from your decisions consequences. I think you might need to go to therapy because this line of thinking indicates to me that you have some unresolved issues if you think you'll be alone forever after a relationship didn't work out when you're literally just over 30