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Date: November 3, 2022
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Good for you! Glad you to your power back.
In my professional opinion, you should tell her to fuck off
She will end up regretting it because first of all that is disrespectful to you for her to ask to open up the relationship. You guys didn’t agree to opening the relationship. I’ll say take your break figure out how to get your visa and work. Start a small business on the side because the moment she see that you’ve started making money we might want to divorce you and she’ll take all your money. Then she’ll realize the guy only wanted to stick it in for couple months and he’ll find someone younger and better looking. You are not being close minded because you have a say of what you want and don’t want in your relationship. You decided to be with her and she can’t just open the relationship if you don’t want to and she is also refusing to take a break. This always end up bad for the woman but they still choose to do it. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
Don’t listen to this. You are already putting in the effort through therapy and there is no quick fix. Another commenter has provided some good pointers on how to navigate joined family events. And I agree that your bf should help run interference and provide you with a bit more reassurance during these events.
I’d also suggest to try to remind yourself how amazing you’ve done despite having a harder upbringing and that it’s something to be proud of. I think most of us wish for the approval of our parents and family, but it’s even more important that we’re happy with ourselves. I’m sure your therapist will help you achieve that goal in time.
Middle of amicable divorce, no kids. Began dating each other at 25, moved in at 27, married at 33. Even though we had mutual respect and genuinely cared and loved each other, there was always “something” that made me question should I be in this relationship? Nothing overt or obvious but just something in the gut. Took us a house, joined financials, sleeping in separate bedrooms for a year, and therapy for me to realize what my gut was trying to tell me from all the way back then…. Sometimes it’s best to cut your loses early on. Listen to your gut, not what you’ve been trying to convince yourself of ?
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You sound really lovely and she sounds absolutely awful. You did NOTHING wrong. She’s treating you horribly. I hate that you’re even wondering if you did something wrong.
Keep yourself and your kids away from her. You deserve to be treated so much better (we all do). Heal, keep standards high for yourself, and soon enough you’ll have someone wonderful to spend Christmas with.
I don’t need one we had them when we were happy.
Not really sure what advice you are looking for. You guys are FWB, he most likely lost interest or has a GF or seeing other people.
Sorry was joking, didn’t read the post
Nothing is wrong with you (unless her drive is affected by medication or depression which based on this probably isn't the case since it's been happening for years). Your drives are just inherently incompatible, and the only fix for this is if you're fine with such low frequency which doesn't seem to be the case since. Honestly you just have to be honest with yourself about if you can healthily continue in this situation ESPECIALLY before you move in together since things will only get more complicated
He's not upset that he was with YOU. He's upset that he hasn't lived up to certain expectations and upset at who he is as a person.
I know SO many people that didn't start any of those things until they are 30. Life isn't a race anyways. He's just struggling with his ego and looking for a place to put some blame for his “missed opportunities” which aren't missed at all. He simply hasn't done them yet and HE is the only thing stopping him. You supported him and he welcomed the relationship. You can't change how somebody else feels, he would feel this way regardless of who he was in a relationship with during these past few years.
I don’t know if it will happen again as in being in a relationship….how do I prevent this from happening again? I would like both parties to be happy in the relationship but voicing it out doesn’t seem to resolve anything currently
My friends were weirded out at first due to the age gap but after meeting him and after being together for a while they came to the consensus there wasn’t anything to worry about. I wouldn’t say I had an absent father, but an abusive one yes.
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How old are your kids?
No, just tell her to cut the shit. She knows what she is doing. She is “treating” these people to help her own image but sticking you with the bill. Fuck that.
He’s your pimp, not your boyfriend. You’re being sexy trafficked. Leave.
She is trying to manipulate to get her way. It doesn’t matter what gender she wants to have sex with if you are monogamous and do not approve of your partner having sex with anyone else besides yourself then if she did it would be cheating. Now if you were okay with it and agreed to a hall pass or open relationship then that would not be cheating because it was agreed upon. But if you are not okay with it then your answer should be “no”.
Break up. Done.
Y'all out here with only 8-9 days? Lucky bastards.
endometriosis has entered the chat
Well ain’t that special. Just because you say that’s how you handled being told that does not make it right. My ex told me that because I had gained weight he wasn’t sure if he wanted to be with me…..did you notice I said EX.
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Youre not making a big deal of it by “dwelling on it” and him trying to dismiss your valid feelings is gross. I'm sorry he isn't taking responsibility for hurting you but what he said was absolutely uncalled for. If the comment wasn't a necessary comment and he made it as a joke but it wasn't funny to you, that is absolutely making fun of you or making a joke at your expense.
He needs to take accountability of what he said and if he doesn't, I would seriously reconsider what kind of person he is. Him telling you that you're making it worse when he is literally the one who hurt you is the literal definition of gaslighting.
Then stick to your guns and mean it. She obviously doesn’t care about it respect you past offering stability.
Creepy af! I’m a woman in her 30’s. This is scary