Military men because people who have seen the tough side of life appreciate the real things in life a little better than most, and know that at times it just takes two things: a decent human being and a decent connection with that human.
Cops only see the negative side of life so they are in many ways worse off, statistically.
People will merge lives if that's what they want – to spend the rest of their lives with each other. Which is a positive reason to get together.
But if they want to be together to solve the bite of loneliness, in general it's a slow ride to separation. Because loneliness is a negative reason to merge.
The only other way I see is to say “fuck it – my happiness BEGINS when I have a partner. Sure I can live without one, but I'd much rather live! WITH one”.
And then start discarding every expectation if it doesn't hurt you to discard it. Ex: Great romantic chemistry but bad housemates? Live! next to each other instead of under ONE roof – IF that is fine with you.
Figure out the stuff you CANNOT compromise on; everything else is just noise.
You can take whatever route you want. Just ensure that if things go south, your finances are intact because then
Wow it really didn't mean it that literal, I was the one who had to ask for sex there was no pressure or pushing of her to do anything. She never initiates anything sexual so I felt like I was nagging her when I would ask for anything.
even less reason to be upset. It’s not real. Unless he’s fantasizing about things or people that are genuinely concerning… stop thinking about it.
Military men because people who have seen the tough side of life appreciate the real things in life a little better than most, and know that at times it just takes two things: a decent human being and a decent connection with that human.
Cops only see the negative side of life so they are in many ways worse off, statistically.
People will merge lives if that's what they want – to spend the rest of their lives with each other. Which is a positive reason to get together.
But if they want to be together to solve the bite of loneliness, in general it's a slow ride to separation. Because loneliness is a negative reason to merge.
The only other way I see is to say “fuck it – my happiness BEGINS when I have a partner. Sure I can live without one, but I'd much rather live! WITH one”.
And then start discarding every expectation if it doesn't hurt you to discard it. Ex: Great romantic chemistry but bad housemates? Live! next to each other instead of under ONE roof – IF that is fine with you.
Figure out the stuff you CANNOT compromise on; everything else is just noise.
You can take whatever route you want. Just ensure that if things go south, your finances are intact because then
That's interesting because I see an unexpected pregnancy and a guy that really doesn't want to be married. They should call it quits.
Wow it really didn't mean it that literal, I was the one who had to ask for sex there was no pressure or pushing of her to do anything. She never initiates anything sexual so I felt like I was nagging her when I would ask for anything.
It’s still my birthday so everyone cross there fingers I get some
Just dont hang around them.