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You want to see how my big ass bounces while I ride your cock/LUSH ON/new actions in my roulette [Multi Goal]
Date: October 30, 2022
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This is 100% abuse. Just because he doesn't punch you in the face, it doesn't mean it's not abusive.
He has control over everything and is emotionally and financially abusive. He controls you and how you life your life and you feel trapped and worthless.
Either she forgot, or she thought being casual about it would erase suspicion.
Thank you for the point of view. I guess I have a prideful ego and I am ashamed to ask him because I feel embarrassed to ask for help
Do things like say, “Hey baby, are you free on Friday at 8? Great I’m taking you somewhere nice” or when she’s chilling with no makeup on just look over at her sometimes and say “damn babe you’re so beautiful, I’m a lucky guy”. Something like that.
Bro definitely leave. She said you were her second choice. Have some self respect. At this point, no one in the relationship is respecting you. Time to break things off, hit the gym and invest in your career.
It seems forgiveness is not Reddits favorite flavor…
i fully share your perspective and went through something similar (possibly worse) and was very hurt by it. my husband asked a coworker for help with his vows because he didn’t know what to write, and what she gave him was plagiarized from a few different places. i felt fully betrayed and outraged, and he fully accepted responsibility for his mistake.
he was so focused on presenting a final product that would sound nice that he didn’t understand that writing original vows specific to a person is the key part of the tradition. (i am also a professional writer so there was some insecurity about the discrepancy in our abilities to express ourselves via writing) he wasn’t being lazy, he just didn’t understand what the important part of the gesture was.
but re solutions — he saw how upset i was and was apologetic when i explained why i was disappointed. i told him i didn’t care if they weren’t poetically written, i wanted him to express in writing his feelings for me and why he wanted to marry me, because that was an important gesture of love to express as part of our marriage. which he did!
if your husband is able to understand that original vows from him are what you need, i’d hope he’d be receptive to writing some himself.
You don’t need to have a partner to have solid human connection. I’m guessing you are just feeling a mixture or depressing and horny emotions. Don’t get the two intertwined and mixed up. Find someone in your family or friend group to talk to. For me it helped to seek professional help to understand my thoughts. My friend had a girlfriend and still killed himself. I’d rather he would’ve cried on my shoulder Friday night than attend his funeral saturday morning. Don’t beat yourself up over things you can’t control. keep that handsome head held high.
So in short you were fine sleeping with her behind his back until things went south between you and her, now all of a sudden it's important that he knows ? he does deserve to know, by all means tell him, but be prepared for some drama
Great on paper, not so much in actual execution. Just go rent a billboard or something. Make it big, flashy, colorful, and she'll might get it.
Yes true
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It doesn’t mean nothing. The fact that he keeps re-following her whenever his wife un-follows her means that he is very invested in knowing what’s going on with his ex. Add that to all the gushing about her to his wife in real life, and I think she’s got a pretty good reason to feel uncomfortable with the situation.
Ah ok. Thanks for the heads up!
Well then just msg him or call and tell him. That way you're not wasting anyone's time.
As an FYI fathers asking for paternity tests is the new normal. You are insulted for no reason, you have 100% confidence the child is yours, why not give him the same reassurance.
And don't have another child with anyone because you WILL be asked for a paternity test on that child as well.
The only person that fears a paternity test is a cheater plain and simple and if I was OPs husband I would be leaning heavily in this direction. The man asks for a small bit of reassurance and op is ready to torch the relationship over it. Guilt written all over this.
He wasn’t surprised to find out you were under 25. That was his goal…..
Your wife is as bad as SMF. I think you are simplifying it by “makes decision from the heart.” Bro, that ain’t it. Your wife is sick and her whole family is too. They are PROTECTING A CHILD PREDATOR. It’s NOT ABOUT THE HEART. They are sick in the head and without professional help/intervention, I don’t see how y’all will make progress and protect the children in your family. Your wife can’t even have a convo without shutting down. I think you have been too soft— she needs to talk to you and a professional, cut contact with the entire rest of the family, or you leave. That’s it.
Sad because I didn’t do any of this to teach him a lesson. Just protecting myself. But feels like he was doing it to teach me a lesson
Don't sell. Rent and move in with her.
If you guys don't work out, you have your place.
You need to seek mental health help. This is unhealthy.
This sub is crazy. There was the guy pissing in bottles which I thought was gross but potentially extremely fixable and pretty harmless in and of itself and people saying that the woman should run no questions asked.
Then there's this, this is like throwing up huge, real red flags about the guy's character and how he treats other people in his life. He doesn't sound grown up and you should tell him that he needs to be so if we wants to be married.
Ya know, I do a lot of housework for my girlfriend and I, I do most of the cooking and daily cleaning and getting groceries. I'm happy to do it because she works a much harder, stressful job than me and I don't mind doing those things. I listen to podcasts, it's fine. But she does contribute. She does borderline insane deep cleans and likes to organize and remodel in helpful ways and likes doing it by herself.
There should be trade-offs in a healthy relationship, and it sounds like this guy doesn't get this. You need to educate him. If he doesn't understand than you need to tell him the wedding is off, IMO, until he can show he can actually be a decent spouse.
If she can divorce you because she gets more attention from another guy, what is stopping her doing it again in the future?
Surely she wants to be back to you. She did not leave you because you are bad. It is she thought she found someone better. And it might just do it again one day.
That's why she's getting an abortion. She doesn't want a child and nobody should be able to force a woman to carry to term and then force her to have to raise it or do this or do that. Even if he says he'll take 100% care of it, let her sign away her parental rights, whatever, it's her body that has to go through all the changes and the damage that getting pregnant carries. The only advice I offer here is that she should be on birth control if possible and use condoms from here on out, especially if she doesn't want children or isn't ready for them.
I'm thinking something happened while you were out, maybe someone gave her a roofie. She isn't sure she was raped, but thinks she might have been.
My fellow redditor, I’ve lived with romantic partners and flatmates long enough to be tired of it.
But bag of dead animal fur is something I would draw the line too. There is nothing wrong with that. It’s just not my kind of crazy.
That’s what max 6 hours a week what does he do with the rest of his time off?
It’s odd because her dad took her on vacation, spoiled her rotten and she had a great childhood. She grew up a wealthy girl in L.A spoiled by her mom and dad. Every year for her birthday she got a limo and a shopping spree in downtown L.A. She had everything any kid could ever want and was the golden child.
She now claims “I can’t remember my childhood, it was so tragic” it makes no sense. She lives with her mom, all the trips and gifts were given with friends around and her mom, she was never abused but she will just say “my childhood is a blur, I don’t remember it at all” to cover her for using it as an excuse and to get sympathy that she sees her sisters get. She also has 3 brothers who weren’t abused and were treated very well, they aren’t claiming abuse or piggy backing off the sisters abuse.
Her dad is a celebrity massage therapist In Los Angeles with clients like the former miles Davis, he owns his own massage business and he clients of all ages and both sexes. I asked my fiancé why she doesn’t report him to the massage board to protect young girls from him. Her response is “are you fucking kidding me, I’m not doing that to my dad, no way”. My mind is blown, he’s a pedophile working as a massage therapist, can’t get any worse for a career than that as far as putting young girls and women at risk. If she was so traumatized by proxy why not at the very least report him. To the massage board to help others. None of it makes sense. She calls herself an empath, and she recently started a career as a post partum doula taking care of moms and newborns at their homes after the mom gives birth. She acts like this angelic person who loves babies and dogs and is all love and light. I’m confused how she can be both people at once.
She probably lovebombed you too. It's easy to get sucked in quickly and ignore the red flags. Before too long she'd probably accuse you of cheating as well because you're not spending every minute with her. Sounds like she's the one with the issues and not you. When things move quickly and are too good to be true they usually are. Be thankful you're out.
I have a friend who got lovebombed big time but she was so desperate for love that she fell for it. And she was in deep within a week. Then found out he's an ex con who did prison time after 2 weeks. Still stayed. Moved in with her within 4 weeks, he was jealous ans controlling. Then he moved his kid in with them after like 7 months even though kid had been raised by grandma from a baby. Good tactic to make her stay because she wanted her little family. Them shortly thereafter he pushes her and his own kid down the stairs in a drunken stupor. Then ran form the cops when he got pulled over. He's been in prison since this summer and just got denied parole for another year (thank God because she wants to have another kid….). She's still staying with him. He call her from prison every 10 minutes, they argue all the time. Doesn't like her hanging out with me or her other friends (he wanted his kid to stay up until I left one evening..). She's broke because of him and working her ass off to make ends meet. And raising his kid on her own dime (she also has her own). This is extreme but more common than you think. Lovebombing is a ginormous red flag. You dodges a bullet. Not that yiuvhae a huge age gap but so many guys like older women because they're more mature and know what they want. She clealry doesn't fit that bill. Well she knows what she wants but in a controlling manipulative unhealthy way
Yeah, not sure what the hold up is, then. If he knows you want to be married, and he hasn’t raised an objection, then it seems like no time like the present to get that ring on it.
She is putting Jim over your relationship with you,
I think you should just find other friends an let them do their thing an stay out of it . Especially if you won't give us any back story or anything
The ring itself is designed to look like the moon and onions belt – 3 sparkling stones set below a circular moonstone. We were away with the kids and his parents at a cabin, and he took me outside told me to close my eyes and got down beside me. When I opened them he had a polly pocket in his hand. I grew up kind of poor, and had two polly pocket toys that I loved – one was a theme park, and the prher was a chapel with a bride and groom. I opened it and it was the chapel one. I got all excited about my toy, and didn't even see the ring. He had to stop me and tell me what was happening. His parents had gotten me a silver bracelet that matches the ring and gave me big hugs when I came inside. My daughters were in on it too, and were stoked. It was very very sweet.
You’ve been/known your bf for 2 years when you were 23 and he 35. The big age gap is already something to be concerned about. He pursued you for a reason. Now you bust him with underage accounts on his insta? That’s gross and nothing can excuse that.
If you have her name search Instagram. Scroll through photos till you find his tag. Or Facebook.
No, what is your take on his text?