Yeah, her parents meant well but hovered over everything she did with our baby for the first 2 years of his life. They didn’t parent him for her but it’s like she didn’t really get to have a normal new mom experience either. She always had somebody telling her what to do and how to do it and I think she felt so bad for disappointing them by getting pregnant in high school that she just sort of did whatever they said. They truly only had good intentions but I don’t think she realized how much it upset her until much later on.
These are all things I think about when I consider just caving in. There’s parts of me that understands some of it or can at least sympathize.
Good thing she isn’t bisexual or you’d have to isolate her completely. You can’t trust her 100% and be hung up about her talking with other men. If your previous bad experience still stings, then please discuss that with a therapist rather than try to make your wife continue being lonely. I’m very glad she put her foot down.
It's been two days and he's nervous. Don't fret and make it worse for him. You could make it worse and less likely he reaches out, even though he wants to. Let this happen organically. I know you're anxious, but things will work out so much better that way. Congratulations!
I am an idiot ha?
Please where’s your dad? No young girl should have to deal with this. I hope your mom sees truth before something terrible happens
Yeah, her parents meant well but hovered over everything she did with our baby for the first 2 years of his life. They didn’t parent him for her but it’s like she didn’t really get to have a normal new mom experience either. She always had somebody telling her what to do and how to do it and I think she felt so bad for disappointing them by getting pregnant in high school that she just sort of did whatever they said. They truly only had good intentions but I don’t think she realized how much it upset her until much later on.
These are all things I think about when I consider just caving in. There’s parts of me that understands some of it or can at least sympathize.
I'm gonna raise it when we meet on Monday of next week and if he says “that's who I am though”, then yeah you're right this is the only avenue.
Good thing she isn’t bisexual or you’d have to isolate her completely. You can’t trust her 100% and be hung up about her talking with other men. If your previous bad experience still stings, then please discuss that with a therapist rather than try to make your wife continue being lonely. I’m very glad she put her foot down.
Wait is this guy at your place with your wife while you’re at work?
It's been two days and he's nervous. Don't fret and make it worse for him. You could make it worse and less likely he reaches out, even though he wants to. Let this happen organically. I know you're anxious, but things will work out so much better that way. Congratulations!
when it comes to kids if it’s not a hell yes it’s a no. the fact that you ask means it’s a no. sorry…
Not necessarily. You have a decent amount of control over how you look as you age. And sometimes your personality changes because of external events.