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Date: November 11, 2022
I would let it go.
You were broken up for 5 months, at your behest. The minute you broke up with her she had every right to hook up with as many guys as she wanted. Did this happen while you were going on dates again, or before?
There is absolutely nothing you are going to do with more information that is going to help you or make you happier with it.
You already acknowledge that she didn't cheat on you. Leave it. Assuming you weren't her first, she had sex with guys before you- just treat this like them.
In your case, if your illness is terminal, I wouldn’t bother with or waste energy getting a divorce. You should just up and leave WITH YOUR DAUGHTER.
Seek out Domestic Abuse services, as this whole planned scenario with his family is frankly, Machiavellian in its abuse (waiting just so long until you die, disgusting). If you are in the US, dial 211. It is a Social Services helpline (designated by area code) that will know legitimate services in your area.
Also, it’s not kidnapping if there isn’t a no custody agreement. You can simply leave…while you contact an attorney who can preserve your rights and help you to a better life.
It’s a kiss that happened a year ago and you’re in a relationship with someone else. It’s not a big deal, leave it alone.
Early20s, your GF's abusive behaviors cannot be excused — but perhaps can be explained, especially if you would speak to a psychologist in your city. They may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no chance to learn in childhood). My exW has that problem. If it is an issue for your GF, you likely would be seeing 4 other red flags.
The first is a strong abandonment fear. I therefore ask whether, a few months into your relationship, she started showing strong jealousy over harmless events involving other women — or tried to isolate you away from your close friends and family members? She would view your spending time with friends/family as your choosing them over her. Moreover, she usually would hate being alone by herself.
Second, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes/mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to “validate” her victim status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Third, you generally would not see her directing her anger at casual friends, coworkers, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her outbursts and temper tantrums almost exclusively would be directed against a close loved one (e.g., against you, a sibling, or her parents).
Fourth, you are convinced that she truly loves you. But you frequently see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you) — often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells around her. Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do. A few hours or days later, she can flip back just as quickly.
Early20s, have you been seeing strong occurrences of all 4 of these red flags?
So your not interested in having a hookup with him and your not interested in a relationship with him so why even bother wasting yours and his time going on a pointless date ?