It's kind of a red flag if you can't talk this through with him- to be that jealous and insecure about your significant other interacting with someone in a professional capacity isn't a good thing.
Can you offer to have him tag along while you're being trained? Like he could go work out in another area, not just sit and stare at you. I know at my gym it's all a huge open space and you can usually see other members working with their trainers. Maybe he'd get the picture that there's nothing to be concerned about after a session or two.
No he doesn't but there is a tasteful way about going about it without dismissing her thoughts and being a supportive partner. If she is REALLY self conscious about it you say “I love your boobs the way they are but if you want to change them and it would help your esteem I support you. I'm not getting any younger either”
That hits 2 birds one stone. She is affirmed your still attracted to her but you leave the door open for being open to the idea if that is it's really bothering her she can change it with no judgment.
I dont think you cant enjoy other social events without eachother. Maybe just not dancing with other people cause it sounds like you both feel its too intimate. or maybe you both need to squash those fears and trust eachother to dance with other people?♂️theres not gonna be many social activities apart from dancing that will cause you too feel the way you are feeling i think anyways?
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It's kind of a red flag if you can't talk this through with him- to be that jealous and insecure about your significant other interacting with someone in a professional capacity isn't a good thing.
Can you offer to have him tag along while you're being trained? Like he could go work out in another area, not just sit and stare at you. I know at my gym it's all a huge open space and you can usually see other members working with their trainers. Maybe he'd get the picture that there's nothing to be concerned about after a session or two.
No he doesn't but there is a tasteful way about going about it without dismissing her thoughts and being a supportive partner. If she is REALLY self conscious about it you say “I love your boobs the way they are but if you want to change them and it would help your esteem I support you. I'm not getting any younger either”
That hits 2 birds one stone. She is affirmed your still attracted to her but you leave the door open for being open to the idea if that is it's really bothering her she can change it with no judgment.
Thanks you I'll talk to my bf.
I dont think you cant enjoy other social events without eachother. Maybe just not dancing with other people cause it sounds like you both feel its too intimate. or maybe you both need to squash those fears and trust eachother to dance with other people?♂️theres not gonna be many social activities apart from dancing that will cause you too feel the way you are feeling i think anyways?