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Alice-Dean Public Chat Channel
Date: October 9, 2022
AmateurPub
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Alice-Dean Public Chat Channel
Honestly it sounds like she makes her husband because she knows he's not like her fault. Which could be good, but instead she's taken on her family's bullying role.
Her expectations that he drop his plans for some potential thing seems unreasonable. His claim that she should just say they aren't available is reasonable. But she comes from a family of unreasonable people, apparently, and had unknowingly become unreasonable herself
Why would you throw away other peoples stuff without asking them if they want it back first?
I agree with a lot of the comments saying that this is about drive and etc.
But. You’ve been dating your boyfriend for a little over a year. For the past three semesters, you AND your parents have been pressuring him about college. That means you had your parents harping on him, or allowed them to, within six months of the beginning of your relationship.
If I were him, I would run. This is crazy. If you’d been dating five years, okay. But less than a year in and you’re pushing him to be marriage material?
Good gracious.
So asking a question is gaslighting? Do you even know what the term gaslighting means?
Sounds fake to me.
This isn't a healthy mindset.
Like what fluffy_assassins and anxiousjellybean say, being bi is OR not AND. If you want the AND are you prepared to accept him being Poly as well?
What if he says no? He’s then going to always have in the back of his mind that you are going to do it, whatever you say. You’ll have planted a trust issue for the sake of your desires. What if he wants to watch? Or be involved? What if he then sees it as green light for a three way? Would you accept that in order to get your ‘bi-confirmation’? What if he prefers the sex with her? If she reciprocates his desires and not yours?
Dump him. He will move on to the next one and you will be in the same position as his previous gf. He’ll cheat on you with the next one.
And stop having unprotected sex with new partners that you aren’t official/committed to. 8 months and neither of you saying you are committed and exclusive means you run the risk of STD’s.
Sounds like he’s already messing around with someone else if he asked you to test, because he’s worried he’s passed something on to you.
Gaslighting you by making out it’s you that’s not “clean” is a disgusting thing to do.
What maturity?
Serious doubt about this one. So the day he tells you about your anniversary, is the day he starts hugging and kissing you and calling you baby and the day his mom says out loud if he's with his girlfriend and the same day his coach says he'll only listen to you? I call major BS or massive prank or maybe you have a serious serious serious serious serious memory issue.
Definitely not normal he has some serious issues he needs to work out and you need to discover your own boundaries and possibly move on from the toxicity