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Date: November 8, 2022
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She wasn’t doing this before though, that’s the issue. If she had a group of friends she would go out with before kids, stopped while the kids were young, and is now going out again when they get a little older, I would completely agree with you. I wouldn’t find it weird at all
But she’s 39 going out drinking until 2am with new girl friends in their 20s (and it’s not once, OP makes it clear it’s now happening regularly, probably once a week like he used to). That’s weird in my book and I would be very suspicious.
Combine all of this with the fact that she can’t admit that she was wrong for how she treated OP all those years and she tells him to just get over it? Come on now. Something’s up
You know if the genders were reversed, the top comment would say he’s cheating.
But we agree on the hypocrisy aspect.
I don't know. I want to marry him, he says the same, and that we want to move in together. He says all these sweet things but I don't know now.
If that's the case then the writing is on the wall. That's not a safe environment.
I would suggest counseling but if there is a stonewall reaction then it's an abort mission. This is heartbreaking as OP seems committed.
Oh hell naw
You need a non-crazy friend in your life to help you understand what pieces of shit these people are.
This idea of saying like “oh I want to do this and I asked so its okay”.
You are in a committed relationship.
Its like asking if he can go party in tiijuana and spend all your families money for 6 months. No. And fuck you for asking!
You get out. He sucks and you deserve better.
Your mindset is normal, please stop beating yourself up. Once you give yourself a little grace in this area you'll be able to stop holding on so tightly. Once you can take a deep breath and understand its ok, turn your attention to how you can begin to invest in yourself as a person. From there, you'll begin to see you can start to distance yourself in a healthy manner.
Poor partner.
Yeah. ?
“All the men I was previously in contact with” comes across as all her exes though I could be wrong here
Leave. My ex started doing this crap after the wedding. Suddenly nothing I did was enough. He found fault with what I did do. It's a nasty tactic to keep you off balance. It messed me up so badly that I didn't realize what it was until 15 months after we parted, because it's spent so much time just trying to survive and “do better.” This will not get better.