0 views
Press right there to start video or
Room for on-line sex video chat AlexisPhoenix
Model from: de
Languages: de,en
Birth Date: 1990-03-11
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorHazel
Subculture: subcultureGlamour
Date: October 11, 2022
If you haven't seen a doctor it is not possible for you to know you are sterile.
I don't want to be rude but you pointed out Betterhelp's bad press (because they don't even have actual professionals) and then said you had a bad experience. Of course you had a bad experience, it's betterhelp and unfortunately it was an option you felt you could use. You can look up rates online for therapy and also just call and ask. Please get some sort of therapy or counseling. Trauma carries into your sex life. Especially trauma from past relationships and sa which is why you feel the way that you do surrounding sex.
I think rather than reacting to the situation and immediately taking her back, you should take a break and see how you truly feel being apart. Seeing how each of you behave during that time apart will do you a world of good.
I personally wouldn’t be able to get over something like this. I feel like the boundary she crossed is a pretty obvious one to not cross when you’re in a committed relationship for over two years. I’m not quite sure what guarantee she can give to you that would make things right or that she wouldn’t do it again. I also wouldn’t want to feel unsafe whenever my girlfriend had a male friend around. It’s a recipe for a lifetime of insecurity.
I get that she’s sorry but, sometimes apologies aren’t enough to repair broken trust.
CONVINCING ! Thank you
i’m ready to leave him if he doesn’t know after SIX YEARS.
Do exactly that. He is finding excuses not to marry you
If it's important to you, get help. Find a therapist and talk to him. It's the only way you'll know what he's thinking, and it's also that only way he'll know where your head is.
I had a teacher embarrass TS out of me in high-school because my clothes smelt like cigarettes (my parents smoked with us in the car on the way to school) I've never touched a cigarette. I was an athlete, and in front of the whole class said “I can't believe you SMOKE at your age, and while you play sports”! I just turned bright red, and told him my parents smoke… All he said was “Oh”. No apology or anything.
You don’t think it’s normal to lose control during a stressful situation? What do you think fight or flight mode is?
get out. it's not your job to care for him, and nobody deserves this.
NTA, she had full control, it’s her fault, she knew what she was doing. You don’t have to stay in a relationship for any reason
You should not be with someone who casually calls you stupid and suggests that you can't be trusted eith your own finances. That combo leads down a very dark path.
First off, she’s being pretty over dramatic about talking to people over the fuckin radio. Second off, you sound like a massive cunt
Walk away from fights. If she wants it just turn and walk. IF she wants to make amends then she will come to you later to discuss it. If she doesn't it's probably a sign your marriage is coming to an end.
It could be something medically related. He should see a doctor. Other than that, could he be gay?
Dude, you’ve got a whole decade+ on this chick….what the fuck do you really have in common with her? Leave that shit alone and move on.
Regardless of what you do moving forward, your wife already cheated on you and now want your permission to continue.
ENM is supposed to be ETHICAL, not sneaking around your spouses back, sexting, making arrangements, changing up the agreements all the time, leaving you redused to tears and all that. The fact that she knows this is hurting you and still wants to do it doesnt been too well.
He’s raping you. It’s against the law. But you don’t want to leave him. So. You need to talk about this. I would suggest couples therapy and probably a sex therapist. It appears that if you want this to stop, you need to get your sex drive back. I’ll be honest. I’m sick to my stomach typing this. One time. Kids in the next room and he was drunk which was rare. I wasn’t in the mood. He locks door. I tried but it hurt. So I said no. You are hurting me. He didn’t stop. He raped me. We definitely had a talk the next day. He was ashamed and felt awful. But. There’s no coming back from that for me. There were other reasons too, but I filed for divorce shortly after that. He’s raping you on a regular basis. Again, it’s against the law. It doesn’t matter if you are married. No means no.
She asked me first and i told the truth, she then proceeded to lie about it
Either untreated BPD or a really bad play at setting you up to have no visitation. Those are the only two things that come to mind
Get yourself some proper legal advice, get a parenting communication app that you communicate visitation through.
Don't say or type one word until you have checked 10 times, it cannot be spun or twisted to make it look like you are admitting any fault or guilt.
The only way you get out of this is to get ahead of her legally, so go get some advice.
google “Restrictive gatekeepers”
It was a horror story until that line, and a comedy after that XD
Does she have an issue if you’re doing other stuff like watching TV or hanging out with your friends without her? Or does she just not like video games?
If she’s specifically annoyed with your FIFA gaming, that strikes me as weird. It’s no different than if she were watching Netflix for 3 hours a week.
This is assuming your estimate of 3 hours of fifa a week is accurate.
Take the legal route, there is no point in trying to be nice. Get as much documentation as you can about their behaviour and lies. If it's legal record conversations with them.