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alexislondon chat
Date: October 12, 2022
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I thought about posting but I knew where the red flags were. Part of the rest of the sub is correct. If you’re already snooping, then there were signs before that. I just didn’t pay attention…
Thank you.. hope you’re doing good.
To me it’s all about the brains, so not really. People with college degrees however tend to have better critical thinking skills just simply because of what you’re exposed to in college classrooms. So it might be more of a preference than anything else
If so ply tell her what was up, and that her mistrustful behaviour is making you really think your decision. Also, it’s a sign of her cheating too.
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Friend is def trying to get her to do a bump off of his lil coke bone.
Not girlfriend, wife. Clearly she shouldn't go but this isn't exactly divorce worthy.
Not necessarily my hobbies, just me in general. But I feel that they interfere with what she wants to do and her plans
Man this is why you gotta practice safe sex …
He lied to you.
Do liars deserve a second chance to lie to you allover again at the next opportunity?
You think he cheated.
Do cheaters deserve a second chance to cheat on you allover again at the next opportunity?
If both is a “no go” for you: stick to your decision.
You're making excuses for him like with his depression. At this point it's not about what's right or who's wrong, it's already reached toxic and time to go
Leave him, I have a dad bod and got rejected a lot of times. My current gf loves my body type and for who I am.
The fact that you reacted so strongly to hearing your partner say that she thinks she doesn't want kids tells you all you need to know. In that moment you felt manipulated, very hurt, bluffed, tricked or even lied to and realised that the relationship is probably approaching the end of its shelf life.
The two of you probably have incompatible ambitions, relationship expectations and stances on having children. That is why your partner didn't look at you or laugh before saying that she doesn't think that she wants kids.
Whether she changed her mind at some point in the relationship or always knew and was silently hoping that you would start feeling the same way & decide that you didn't want any children, this is likely to be the issue that will change your relationship forever. Regardless of whether one of you backs down trying to please the other by giving up their preferred stance on children or you both stick to your guns and agree to part company to find future partners who are compatible with the children dealbreaker.
Good luck!
I’m sort of less interested in her role in this and more interested in your alleged best friend nailing this girl (let’s be real) and never telling you about it.
Speak to them without her.
Remove all emotion from your tone as you speak – the level of emotion is used to tone police you so they can ignore your words.
Then set it out matter of fact.
You do not like this girl. She psychologically tormented you in high school. Your only interaction since then has been her immediately mocking you in front of your family.
Don't make a scene. Don't get upset. Dont demand anything. Just state the facts. You don't like her. You think she's a sociopath. They are all free to engage with her as it is easier and they dont want to deal with it, but you won't be.
Put the ball in their court. If your family wants to hang out with you instead of them, fuck it.
The other alternative is just to grey rock it and force her to explain all jokes at your expense.
Parents I’m not convinced of, but absolutely answers are needed here. Her shutting down and not talking about what she’s feeling or why is just completely unacceptable.
If you were 10 years old that would be a good thing, all living in the same house, etc. But you're not. You're an adult with your own life. It's all a bit immature all the way around.