Not gonna lie. Didn’t even bother reading this. I never do when it comes to large age gaps, especially early 20s to 30s.
You are being used. He is a loser. Not trying to be harsh, but here; I know I cannot convince you but do yourself a favour and search this subreddit for all these large age gaps. Notice just how many young women throw away their 20s on awful relationships. You don’t get to repeat life, you’ll never be 20 ever again, I know you feel like you have all the time in the world…but you don’t.
I converted to Islam (albeit not with my heart in it)
I know quite a few Muslim…and for most, this would be a no-go. If you're not with your heart in it, you should have never converted. If this means you and your fiancée aren't compatible, so it be.
I can not do that to her. Also
Your SO is an adult. SHE needs to figure out what she's willing to sacrifice for her future. If she wants her dad's approval….having a secret relationship behind his back, living together, having someone who's not into it convert is definitely NOT the way to go.
. I pay for everything, I also paid for her tuition and visa.
OP…. a relationship should be a two-way street, and if she also earns money, you shouldn't pay for everything. What if the relationship ended tomorrow? Look out for yourself.
awkwafina is total crap though because she lies about being raised in Black culture but that's not true at all.
Since we're in a sort of gray area, I don't know if being late is being rude to a friend or a tool to show him I'm not interested.
Well she is adult, a shitty one but an adult nonetheless.
Not gonna lie. Didn’t even bother reading this. I never do when it comes to large age gaps, especially early 20s to 30s.
You are being used. He is a loser. Not trying to be harsh, but here; I know I cannot convince you but do yourself a favour and search this subreddit for all these large age gaps. Notice just how many young women throw away their 20s on awful relationships. You don’t get to repeat life, you’ll never be 20 ever again, I know you feel like you have all the time in the world…but you don’t.
Do not waste your life on crap.
I converted to Islam (albeit not with my heart in it)
I know quite a few Muslim…and for most, this would be a no-go. If you're not with your heart in it, you should have never converted. If this means you and your fiancée aren't compatible, so it be.
I can not do that to her. Also
Your SO is an adult. SHE needs to figure out what she's willing to sacrifice for her future. If she wants her dad's approval….having a secret relationship behind his back, living together, having someone who's not into it convert is definitely NOT the way to go.
. I pay for everything, I also paid for her tuition and visa.
OP…. a relationship should be a two-way street, and if she also earns money, you shouldn't pay for everything. What if the relationship ended tomorrow? Look out for yourself.
Divorce him.