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I feel like it's more a problem of attrition and the way you reply to people by the sound of it.
For instance, there's a difference between saying “It's not as simple as you're making it out to be, there are X and Y to take into account” and “You right that would be nice, but wouldn't X and Y been an issue though?” In one case you are antagonizing the person you're talking to and low key insulting their intelligence for not taking into account all the variables. In the other case, you are siding with them, just highlight what is getting in the way in your now shared ideal. That's what other folks here mean by emotional intelligence: one can express a desire while also be perfectly aware why it is also not an actual good idea, and you need to learn to acknowledge both the feelings separated from practicality. Note how turning your counter points into a question immediately soften the tone by the way.
I also brought up attrition because one of the most annoying part about people who always need to be right is that they don't know when to drop and move on. You need to learn to chose your battles and when it's worth arguing and when to simply (and sincerely!) say “I trust your judgment.” and just let people go their merry way and let them do whatever they want. Discussing which transport to take to go to an even is typically not such a case because it impacts you directly -but your girlfriend is such on a short fuse she'll snap at anything- but I'm sure there are countless times where the discussion devolved into bickering over pointless details. Keep in mind at all time that you might be wrong, and that the rest of the world doesn't need to explain itself and prove themselves to you to continue living.
He is 100% taking you for granted. He expects you to be around and doesn’t value it anymore, so he sees you as less.
Go do whatever you need and want to make you feel better. If that includes leaving him, then fine. If that includes doing your own thing and being around him less, then fine. If you want to make new friends and do activities, then fine.
I feel like it's more a problem of attrition and the way you reply to people by the sound of it.
For instance, there's a difference between saying “It's not as simple as you're making it out to be, there are X and Y to take into account” and “You right that would be nice, but wouldn't X and Y been an issue though?” In one case you are antagonizing the person you're talking to and low key insulting their intelligence for not taking into account all the variables. In the other case, you are siding with them, just highlight what is getting in the way in your now shared ideal. That's what other folks here mean by emotional intelligence: one can express a desire while also be perfectly aware why it is also not an actual good idea, and you need to learn to acknowledge both the feelings separated from practicality. Note how turning your counter points into a question immediately soften the tone by the way.
I also brought up attrition because one of the most annoying part about people who always need to be right is that they don't know when to drop and move on. You need to learn to chose your battles and when it's worth arguing and when to simply (and sincerely!) say “I trust your judgment.” and just let people go their merry way and let them do whatever they want. Discussing which transport to take to go to an even is typically not such a case because it impacts you directly -but your girlfriend is such on a short fuse she'll snap at anything- but I'm sure there are countless times where the discussion devolved into bickering over pointless details. Keep in mind at all time that you might be wrong, and that the rest of the world doesn't need to explain itself and prove themselves to you to continue living.
Did you thank your sister? You should. I wished I had someone who would go these lengths to protect me.
He is 100% taking you for granted. He expects you to be around and doesn’t value it anymore, so he sees you as less.
Go do whatever you need and want to make you feel better. If that includes leaving him, then fine. If that includes doing your own thing and being around him less, then fine. If you want to make new friends and do activities, then fine.
Fuck him.