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Alex & Dani, 22 y.o.
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Date: October 24, 2022
You need to know that this is not a healthy normal marriage. At 19 you’re not aware that his actions are the issue, not what you can do differently. Please see that your children are also being abused. If you do not leave now, he will continue to be his punching bag and your children will develop issues from the trauma.
She's not wrong that parents never get a day off. That's just what you sign up for when have a child. But if your wife needs naps during the day because she's up at night with your toddler it could be a sign that your one year-old hasn't been properly sleep trained. A 12 month old should be able to sleep through the night. So maybe work on that. If your wife could sleep at night she wouldn't need naps and likely wouldn't be so grumpy as she adjusts to the reality that parenting is a 24/7 job.
Recently, she's been more open than usual, getting closer to me when we're working on a problem together and being more chatty/flirty.
Well, clearly she wasn't.
You interpreted her as flirting and made a play. On top of that the play you made was a polarising one, leaping straight to FWB off the cuff like that.
And note that not only did she not share feelings for you… she didn't even seem to know about the concept you were discussing outright. Like it comes across that you just did not understand her in the slightest.
And look, it happens. You misread people, or count chickens before they hatch. And sometimes you do have to make a move even if risky. You just do so aware there is no going back, especially when you offer something that many consider pretty icky.
So leave her be. Turns out she likely didn't understand you at all either and the realisation that you weren't the friend she hoped you were, someone she could relax around, made her feel sad.
OMG, it's only 8 weeks. I would be pissed too.
I don't kniw what to tell. She either does a lot to win your trust again, a lot things that might be inconvenient to her. This, or she will keep doing these things. Make your choice, are you fine staying with serial liar and cheater?
I got a UTI because I didn’t know I was supposed to go to the bathroom afterwards and got super sick.
Wow! So sorry, I'm glad you didn't let her manipulate you!
You’re not a martyr. Stop playing that role.
Per your other comments, you do everything “because if I don’t, who will?” He knows if he does nothing, you’ll do it. And if you, like some women, jumped right in doing things for him early on to “prove you’re wife material” or nit picked him or redid the task he completed because “he didn’t do it right” You’ve allowed this behavior. I can assure you that there are plenty of men out there who don’t expect their partner to play bangmaid to them and who actually pull their weight.
It’s too late now to just dump his ass—that would have been wise early on. But you sure can insist on couples counseling. And I’d do individual therapy too so you have some backup and can work on creating and maintain boundaries.