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Alex and Lesya, 99 y.o.
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Date: October 8, 2022
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Divorce is always an option
He has all of her information and zero qualms about crossing boundaries. Imagine a very disturbed man with a gun who has all of your information, just waiting for the right moment to SA you, stalk you and murder you in your home. That's essentially what this is. She has nowhere to hide, not even her parents house. He knows her date of birth, her social, all of her addresses, her car, probably your car too. He will have every address of hers for the past decade.
Something needs to be done, yes, but pissing this guy off will push him over the edge.
If you ignore this guy, give him no attention he will eventually find a new victim.
No means no. Read enough of these stories, and you learn that whenever others are brought into a relationship, it is almost always the beginning of the end. If she is reluctant and would only do it for you, you can be assured it will end badly. Perhaps you are not ready for monogamy. If she is reading this as you say, perhaps she should reconsider if she wants to be with a guy that puts his wants above her needs.
I convert (I would but fakely)
Yeah, conversion to Judaism doesn't work like that. It's a formal process, not just a “well, I guess I'll go to Shabbat services now” thing. You also have to ask the rabbi three times to be allowed to convert. Generally, you're told no the first 2 times and accepted on the third. But if the rabbi feels you're not serious, you won't be allowed to convert. Not to be flip, but we don't just take anyone.
You're either serious about this or you're not. There's no half measures here.
You literally caused this drama by telling a guy that apparently loves eve that a guy was harassing her. Also, “vic” does seem to think he’s in a movie with that statement of no one makes eve cry. So much drama, you all need to grow up
He really wasn't that bad, I was expecting maybe a $100 charge or something, usually when he goes to bars even with friends it's usually 100 maybe 150. Which is fine. He chuckles when he thinks I'm being ridiculous. There's nothing I think he would hide.
I’ve felt this before and it’s lonely. However, you need to tell them straight up this is a decision you’re making. If they start berating you, then you should honestly just ignore them or say this isn’t how friends should treat each other when they’re happy about something in their life.
Yea ur right but like all I ask is we hang like once a week it don't even have to be irl a call is fine
A 34 year old guy is dating someone who only just became legal to drink? And is being a controlling asshole? There's a massive power imbalance here that says not-great things about your partner. Older folks who go after younger folks are looking for someone like yourself, who is not coming from a place of equal power and life experience. He's a creep. Even if he makes you feel good sometimes, when he's not in crisis. You said in a comment he's always a fraction of a second away from crisis – that's a manipulation technique, whether or not it's conscious on his part. You are made to feel like you have to “be careful” or you'll trigger his bad behavior. But he's responsible for his bad behavior.
Please get out. Find someone closer in age and maturity, and do a little growing up together. This guy is bad news.
Is money tight?
Was he ever into doing these things you want?
I don't think she is abusing me. She's never hit me or hurt me with her words or anything like that. She's just overly attached. It's…weird but it's not something I want to divorce over.
What do you mean?
I believe that if your s/o has been with your best friend that they should let you know, especially before getting into a relationship. Idk maybe that makes me crazy, but i guess my standards of not being lied to about my boyfriend sleeping with my best friend are too high
What the hell am I missing here? Why is everybody dogging on OP? Is he not allowed to be stressed out? I’ve definitely been extremely anxious over something to where yeah, it feels like life or death in the moment. If the genders were reversed here you guys wouldn’t be calling OP a “little baby drama queen”. Everybody is allowed to get stressed out and frustrated, but it’s not okay to lash out at your loved ones like OP’s gf did. You guys are delusional
Real, not offensive intent, are you on the spectrum man? You are reading this in the absolute most literal light possible, and I wonder if you are having issues differentiating intent versus effect.
I have a kiddo on the spectrum and we have all had to change our speech patterns because some subtleties of speech, metaphor and intent just don’t carry.
She doesn’t want you to die, but it sounds like she’s calling out your catastrophic attitude.
He expected you to fall into the same line as his ex and please him and his need. He didn't respect or think about you at all.
It is sexual coercion and in fact mental/emotional abuse. The threat was to dump you, make sure you were in need of him, in order to get what he wants.
Don't stay in this relationship, even if he “feels guilty”. What's done is done and he is not a good person. On my eyes, this is abuse, and you gonna need help moving forward from this. And make sure there is no contact at all with this excuse of a man
> i’m just not sure when the ages start being okay.
I wouldn't view it as “age”, but if where you're at in life is the same as him. Can he handle dating a college student who'll spend most of her time studying? Do you or him party/ drink? Do you two have compatible goals?
>but I'm scared he's going for me just to get “barely legal” he doesn't seem like the type but I'm just paranoid.
That you'll have to get over. If he likes you, you like him, then you should know if he's using you or not.
Your girlfriend is just cruel.
Go to your medical school graduation, and just chill with your families friends (at my med school graduation there were a few people who’s families lived abroad and didn’t make it, their friends families clapped and cheered for them!)
I'm loving seeing so many people offering to do this!
Go to your graduation. You deserve this.
Tell them that you know they will be disappointed, but hope that they understand this is a once in a lifetime opportunity for you, and you can not turn it down, that you would never ask them to make choices like this and would understand that while they can not be there for YOUR special day, you understand.
If they try to bully you, tell that to enjoy your brothers wedding, as they sure as shit won't be invited to yours unless they change their attitude.
sigh… why do you keep taking his crap? put your foot down! don’t let him use your phone anymore!!
Although it's a rare occasion, me and my wife correct each other publicly. If one of us starts talking crap, the other could easily say “like literally no one cares”. Or “They don't want to hear about that.”.
It sounds bad but it's way better than animosity building over time and needing to have multiple difficult talks.