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Date: October 28, 2022
I know it hurts buddy but you will be ok. I’ve been through very similar circumstances. You guys have been married for 10 years and I personally would totally understand not wanting to throw everything away especially when children are involved. The majority of people will be telling you to get a lawyer but what I’m going to tell you is different. Before calling it quits you should confront her and ask her if they have been actually physical and if not if you guys can save the marriage. Through counseling or therapy or anything you guys can think of together that can heal this. I don’t find anything wrong with trying to save a 10 year marriage if that’s what you want. Nobody deserves this but sometimes these terrible things happen in life and it’s only up to you what you want to make of it.
He told you exactly how he wanted the relationship to go. He didn’t lie to you. The question is why did you accept it? What changed for you to be complaining about it now? He’s toxic, a pos and you chose to be with him for 4.5 months. That’s on you.
I have some questions that I think are fair to ask about the situation. The story is far too vague to truly say who is right or wrong here.
When you say things were rocky with Sam and the Ex, what sort of rocky are you talking about? Because, let's say there was abuse of any kind involved, then the abuser is the person you need to cut out of your life. (This is an example, but there's plenty of other situations where the type of relationship would raise eyebrows, about either of them).
When you say “I think Jake had some influence on this (breakup)” to what are you referring? Are you implying cheating? Or something as meanial as that she realised she wasn't happy with Sam after meeting someone nice to her? Or emotional affair? Or something in between? Because the lack of confirmation here bugs me.
Why do you think the already rocky relationship before she even met Jake, wasn't the cause of their breakup?
How long after the breakup did Jake and the ex get together?
Does she not deserve to make her own mind up about who she dates? If it was truly all above board, then what's the problem, other than that it hurt Sam? Or is that the whole issue? (Which, to clarify, it's totally fine if it is. But see my next question about why I don't think it is the whole story).
Why does Jake (“understandably”) hate Sam? What did Sam do to make Jake hate him? In situations where someone wants to date a close family members ex, typically, if it's met with anger, that person keeps trying to make it right. That Jake instead hates Sam, makes me think you're not getting and/or giving the whole story here.
*If you think Jake “backstabbed and stole Sam's gf” and it's “just wrong”, why do you still have such a good relationship with him? Surely this should have come to a head before now if you morally judge him for this?
Have you spoken with all three parties about what happened? Or is your view all based on rumour, or one person's version, and you watching Jake and the ex date?
I dunno. I think if you stand for them as a groomsman, it's going to ruin your relationship with Sam. Just, full stop, if it's a huge issue between them all, or a situation only of hurt, it's still going to lead to Sam feeling like you've betrayed him. Jake will likely respect that.But depending on the circumstances, it's possible no one is really in the wrong here, and it's just a big emotional situation. If that's the case, then I think you can comfortably speak to Sam and tell him you are going to attend the wedding as a guest.
Don’t do it!
Not just gaslit, 99% chance she cheated on you.
You are much better off without her man. Block her everywhere & move on. She is not worth your time.
Right? She liked him enough to bounce on that…. well you get the point.
Not to mention so much has happened in the world in the past 5 years, I imagine quite a few people who wanted kids have chosen to hold off for now.