I started dating my gf about 3 months ago. Usually she does say that she has a boyfriend snd honestly it doesn't works if I'm not there with her. We sre both at uni in the same sports club there is a guy who is flat mates with my teammate and he knows we are dating. He harassed her and asked her to cheat on me with him and then groped her. Some guys don't take tbe hint
Ignore her, don't message her any more . If you see her at a party , treat her as a distant acquaintance, nod politely and keep it moving. You're not required to interact with her. If she tries to pick a fight with you , just look at her , then walk away.
I always tell my husband if he wants me in the kitchen like my great grandma had, he has to build me a house like my great grandpa had. He’s not getting old fashioned ways while not giving them back. I’ll take the kitchen if he takes the hammer. ??♀️
First one… Any guy who talked to my girl like that, would be catching my hands.
Second one… I don't mind if my girl has male friends, but conversations of that nature are off the table… and she should understand how inappropriate that conversation texture is. To me, that is flirting with her (in a degrading way).
Third one… Relationship or not, I am not sure if I would be up for a girl who keeps these kind of guys around in her life.
If these guys are telling her she's got the body to host an only friends… what other kind of stuff are they saying to her.
You two just might not be compatible, but it sounds like she’s using you as a counselor and dumping place. She should be able to talk about whatever to you, but to ease that burden, she should be getting it out with a counselor. That would lighten your relationship. Couples counseling could help her see this. She’s going to have to learn it at some point, because few people are OK being full-time counselors to their significant others.
I mean I have a landlord should I expect him to give me my share of equity when I move out?
As I'm sure you can get much further in your life by not being needlessly pedantic and persistently unhelpful on this sub. Just sayin…..
I started dating my gf about 3 months ago. Usually she does say that she has a boyfriend snd honestly it doesn't works if I'm not there with her. We sre both at uni in the same sports club there is a guy who is flat mates with my teammate and he knows we are dating. He harassed her and asked her to cheat on me with him and then groped her. Some guys don't take tbe hint
So many red flags.
Ignore her, don't message her any more . If you see her at a party , treat her as a distant acquaintance, nod politely and keep it moving. You're not required to interact with her. If she tries to pick a fight with you , just look at her , then walk away.
I always tell my husband if he wants me in the kitchen like my great grandma had, he has to build me a house like my great grandpa had. He’s not getting old fashioned ways while not giving them back. I’ll take the kitchen if he takes the hammer. ??♀️
Nah bro just don't bother
Couple things.
First one… Any guy who talked to my girl like that, would be catching my hands.
Second one… I don't mind if my girl has male friends, but conversations of that nature are off the table… and she should understand how inappropriate that conversation texture is. To me, that is flirting with her (in a degrading way).
Third one… Relationship or not, I am not sure if I would be up for a girl who keeps these kind of guys around in her life.
If these guys are telling her she's got the body to host an only friends… what other kind of stuff are they saying to her.
You two just might not be compatible, but it sounds like she’s using you as a counselor and dumping place. She should be able to talk about whatever to you, but to ease that burden, she should be getting it out with a counselor. That would lighten your relationship. Couples counseling could help her see this. She’s going to have to learn it at some point, because few people are OK being full-time counselors to their significant others.
Buy her a vibrator, if she still insists on banging other guys as an alternative break up. I’d break up the second she’d even suggest that tbh