Sorry, but he's not really your friend. All the stuff about how he's such a great friend to you — it's all been about trying to be your boyfriend. What he's doing now is still about trying to be your boyfriend. He wants to wear you down. As long as he can keep you on the hook by giving you stuff, being nice to you, playing games with you, etc., there's still a chance (in his mind) that one day you'll decide you want to date him.
The only way this stops is by you removing yourself from the hook, telling him that this makes you uncomfortable and you don't feel like you can continue the friendship, and blocking him. Anything else will translate in his mind to “there's still a chance.”
Either get over it and be a good boyfriend/don’t judge.
Or don’t get over it, and break up with her.
Nothing wrong with either of these.
The only red flag I see on her part, is the fact she still has their nudes. I’m not sure why you care more about her past, than her current in this case.
I have a pixel 6 and just uninstalled eBay. I no longer get notifications from the ebay app.
Just stay with him.for fun. If it is no longer fun being with him, break up.
Why do you want to grow with him? What does he bring to the table? You haven't given any good qualities here.
Listen, I have depression and I'm the first to say that if he wants help, he'll get help.
The only thing you can say is that it's a deal breaker for you if he doesn't get help. Give him a timeline and stick to it.
I’m sorry for you man. I feel bad for you
Sorry, but he's not really your friend. All the stuff about how he's such a great friend to you — it's all been about trying to be your boyfriend. What he's doing now is still about trying to be your boyfriend. He wants to wear you down. As long as he can keep you on the hook by giving you stuff, being nice to you, playing games with you, etc., there's still a chance (in his mind) that one day you'll decide you want to date him.
The only way this stops is by you removing yourself from the hook, telling him that this makes you uncomfortable and you don't feel like you can continue the friendship, and blocking him. Anything else will translate in his mind to “there's still a chance.”
Either get over it and be a good boyfriend/don’t judge.
Or don’t get over it, and break up with her.
Nothing wrong with either of these.
The only red flag I see on her part, is the fact she still has their nudes. I’m not sure why you care more about her past, than her current in this case.