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AgnesLove Public Chat Channel
Date: November 14, 2022
AmateurPub
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AgnesLove Public Chat Channel
any advice?!? LEAVE !!!!
he was ghosted so I think he felt trauma.
Not your problem. Any functioning adult would understand that you are not at their beck and call. Do NOT allow this person to bully you (through guilt, manipulation and crying) into living this way.
So you don't condone all cheating, just the times when they regret it?
Make sure you tell your wife that part too. That way she knows that it you ever cheat on her she should wait to hear how sorry you are before she decides what to do.
It’s your relationship ultimately but for me
1) this was half a decade ago. I wouldn’t judge her for making unethical choices as a 21 year old. Ultimately it was on the man to not cheat on his spouse. She was just in it for the sex and while I wouldn’t do that personally, I think it’s just a sign of immaturity at an age where immaturity is common. Her actions now matter much more. 2) she wasn’t trying to go down memory lane /at/ you, she was revealing a kink. She likes to be submissive. That’s a very common kink and doesn’t mean she doesn’t respect herself. She is probably hoping that you will agree to engage in some similar role play.
All this said, I don’t think I’d judge her harshly for any of this. But if you feel like you are too sexually incompatible given her kink and any of your kinks, that’s different. If you wouldn’t ever feel comfortable taking on a sexual role play of being more of a “dom” and she wants that out of you, that might be a dealbreaker for you both.
I’d just talk to her and ask her what her expectations are and share your perspective.
So she doesn't want to… wtf, this isn't your right.