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Deep Throat. [348 tokens remaining]
Date: October 9, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
Deep Throat. [348 tokens remaining]
We need to give each other space. At least 3 months of no communication. We need to take a step back and look at who we are and what we want moving forward.
Did you discuss out loud if you both will be dating others during this break or instead are you assuming her concept of the break is the same as yours?
Its not you. Your boyfriend is either inexperienced or an idiot, like most guys his age. No offense.
Read up on love languages and ask that he do the same. They have live tests for that, but its better if you decide where on the spectrum you fall yourself. Then have a relationship check-in and conversation on that topic. This gives you the pretext to reinforce the importance of words of affirmation, and you will learn more about your bf too.
Thanks for the response, while I’m not convinced yet that she’s necessarily projecting, at this point it doesn’t matter to me because I am so tired of feeling worthless
Do you understand the concept of “changing your mind”? How about the wild idea that “having this conversation before marriage is a far better time than once you're legally tied together”?
You’re the kind of nice guy that makes women not like nice guys.
Frankly to me, a person who doesn't tip at full service restaurants is sending off signals of being one or a combination of : a freeloader who thinks he “wins” when he weasels out of her fair share of the work, a penny pincher who begrudges spending money on anything that does not directly benefit him, a judgemental rigid soul who believes that people should not have to tip so refuses to do it no matter what, or a person who lacks empathy and believes if servers were “better” they would have better jobs and not tipping is “helping” them.
And I would have to wonder if he is like this with tipping what would he be like with other parts of his life and relationships? Would he expect you to do all the housework and childcare? If you went on mat or sick leave or lose your job, would he insist you still pay your “fair share” of the finances? Is he a financial abuser? Is he the sort of person you can trust to have your back in all circumstances or is he one of the one in 5 men who divorce a sick partner?