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Date: November 9, 2022
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Guys that do that are a fraction of all men the norm don’t do that so that’s irrelevant that’s why i said it wasn’t all. Please stop going to the extreme as if that’s every interaction with men. If that’s what you truly believe all men are like your father, uncles, brothers and cousins are like that… would you say all men are like that?
It’s okay to not be okay with it. You get to decide why you’re okay with. I am someone who wouldn’t be okay with that, but I have accepted that it narrows my dating pool because no man is obligated to stop doing those things.
So – it isn’t irrational or unreasonable for you to want to be with a man who doesn’t, or for those things to bother you. However, just like a lot of vices, he has to want to stop for his own sake, and it doesn’t sound like he does. At this point you just need to realize that THIS particular guy will probably never stop doing that, and decide how you want your life to be.
You’re a fucking idiot
So you have to ask… “At what point am I a priority?”. He made plans with you, YOU… If he made plans with you, he should honor them.
I guess he sees sex like it’s a transactional thing. You see like sex is an expression of love person. You should realize you aren’t compatible and he’s more likely to do it again because there’s no feeling involved with sex.
I'm not too sure if this is worth worrying about. You are an adult and although it would be nice in some ways – she doesnt owe you anything. And if your past is chaotic and she has decided not to she has already thought about this and decided she doesnt want to spend money on you.
I'm not what else to tell you. Maybe your sibling would have insight.
when they had the draft? And treatment for HIV? I mean ok, but I’m pretty sure you’ll just find the same shit, different hair!
Im tempted to say, PP psychosis.
Why are you telling us?
She’s 14. Where is she going to get the money from.
Don’t gaslight her or make it seem like it was insignificant. She decides that. I know it sucks but just apologize and allow her to go through the emotions and accept her feelings. Just reassure her that it was a one time mistake, that you’ve regretted every day since.
What they said may have been out of line, but you took it to another level by combing through their post history and brought up their SO who has nothing to do with this, then later making fun of their shaken baby. You’re such a child OP
As sad as it might be, this is more normal than you think. I can see that you are taking it personally but it might not be about you, guys just like looking at pretty girls. Its not ok, but it is reality. Whether its an instagram model, the girl walking her dog down the street, or a tiktok thot- it is in our biology to check out other girls. It also doesn't mean he doesn't think you're attractive he just likes to see pretty girls. That said, my approach to all relationship problems is one about curiousness while withholding judgment. Ask him what he's getting out of it that you might be able to provide to him instead. Also state why it hurts you and draw a boundary for yourself. My wife catches me checking out girls all the time and she understands that it doesn't mean anything about her. Likewise I catch her checking out dudes and we talk about them.. there are billions of people out there all attractive, its ok for them to draw eyes as long as we don't disrespect our significant other and we have a healthy relationship and communication.
Are you friends with the partner? Do you know them at all?
It's really got nothing to do with you to be honest.
Given the wording of your post it suggests to me there's more to this. Do you have feelings for the third person maybe?
He’s 13, what happens when he’s 16 and the size of a full grown male adult and he hits his mother? He could be charged for that and spend time in jail/prison. Why weren’t his tantrums handled earlier in his life to prevent this? I know it can be difficult to reign in a child who is prone to tantrums, but your girlfriend is absolutely correct. This needs to be stopped now before it progresses into criminal activity.
everyone can do whatever they want with their body imo, they free to experiment whatever they like, but in that case she doesn't want breast implants, she wants her boyfriend to reassure her that she in fact looks good
btw lots of people who wants bigger tits don't want breast implants, they just want natural bigger boobs, but that's not possible for everyone
i should dump her and just not let shit slide bc if i do then theyre gonna think it’s ok
I’m willing to bet you e never had a truly close friend in your life if you can’t even fathom what the issue is here.
Obviously he doesn’t own his ex. That’s just a stupid comment on your part, most likely made so you can shift the issue to better suit your position. His ex can fuck whoever she wants.
The issue is his best friend fucking his ex, not telling him it happened, then telling everyone else in their friend group so that he’s the only one who doesn’t know. That’s a betrayal and grounds for never talking to his friend. He can’t be trusted.
And let’s not kid ourselves. His ex fucked his best friend to get back at OP for dumping him. This is scorned woman 101. The second his friend gave in is the second he gave up a friend for some strange.
When I get in a mood to change my hair, my husband of 15 years will always say, “well you know I like long hair an natural but it’s your choice always.” And I’ve done things that he doesn’t like but he’s never once gotten mad and stopped talking to me lol I listen to what he says, but it’s still my hair. And us girls get bored lol he’s being controlling and this is red flag behavior.
Should’ve known ?
open relationships only work in a healthy relationship. It will never solve or fix a bad one.
Seems like you have the comprehension skills of a sad rat. I called out her bullshit. She wouldn’t have argued with me in the first place if she had respected my opinion like she claimed. So I pointed out her hypocrisy. But I guess this was too hard to understand for you.
Both were part of the problem, so don’t be nice to one and not the other. And since you moved towns, still reach out to them both individually. Who ever reciprocates, stay in touch with them. If she’s as moody with you as you say she won’t reciprocate as much as Greg, so that friendship will fade naturally. So just go with the flow for now, it’ll all sort itself out in time.
Your words and your actions do not match. You’re giving her mixed signals. She’s right. I don’t have sex with my friends and I don’t introduce people I’m not in a relationship with to my friends. You said you’re 28 but your maturity level is more like 16.
is it an addiction? is he going to school or working? Is he capable of functioning as a 21 year old man? Can he maintain an election with you? Is he looking at porn to jerk off and then going about his day?
I appreciate the reply. Yeah looking back at it now, they said things to me in passing that makes me wonder if their intentions were to satisfy this need of physical attention (they had broken up with an ex almost a year ago). But also they've said deeply personal things to me about their admiration for me. I'm not sure what do if they have feelings for me.
See I would agree with that idea, but OP's girlfriend still hasn't even gotten him a Christmas gift yet.
Op, if it was you in the situation, would you argue and potentially cause a scene/ get hurt? Or want to get out of the situation asap.
Get more girlfriend
I think my heart would break if I were to rehome them. That’s really worst case scenario. I just will try my best, but if their quality of life isn’t good then I don’t have a choice.
Yeah I think it depends on their personality and quality time by people. If I had to leave home regularly and if they weren’t a very independent type I’d feel sad.
Setting aside the ldr for a moment, I want to direct your attention to the difference between asking someone to make an effort to connect versus asking a person to “fake it”.
When someone fakes a feeling toward you, it hurts you. It reinforces a deeper belief that love is not given other than grudgingly, that you don't deserve real love, that you don't get what you want and can only pretend to get it. It creates evidence that will convince you, on some deeper level, that those ugly lies are true.
It's totally fair to tell someone who needs less attention that you need more, and ask them to do some specific things that might not be spontaneous on their part, but worth it to meet a partner's need. This can be quiet time, date night, physical intimacy, or whatever.
But even then, the key understanding has to be that the requested attention is not grudging, but intentional, and loving for all that. If it's not, the other person feels unloved, like a charity case. That's not good for anyone.
You might want to let go of her, at least when school is in. When she comes home, if you haven't found someone else, you can have a brief time of connection, and part again when the time comes.
A relationship can be real without being deep, or permanent, or anything else you want it to be. But if the people in the relationship don't want the same things, force will break it.
Full offense, your husband is a moron.
I am sorry. Relationships are work. And I am willing to put in the work. To make positive changes. I just don't know if that's something he will continue to do when no one like a marriage counselor is questioning him or holding him accountable. Because I clearly feel he doesn't care how I feel. But I hope you find some resolution.
How about the masturbating while fantasizing about a women you like?
Use this as a learning tool. Best of luck to you.
Let's review. This told you how you ranked in her priorities:
It was Valentines, but since it turned out 13-15th is the only Time she could visit her female friend, she decided we Will postpone Valentines till 16th.
This is a little hard to evaluate, because you haven't told us why this was supposedly the only time they could visit. Anyway, here's what she says about your relationship on Valentine's Day:
GF: Maybe in theory I would want to fuck someone else one day. … In theory maybe I would want to one day But it's not about your permission I Just don't think I could do it. … It's also about that if we got married you would never experience it with another person It would be good to know you Bang the right person for the rest of your life.
In other words, she thinks she could probably do better. Why does she think that? Because she already has had better. She mentions two different ex-BFs:
GF: I mean, I've had better sex before. I mean you're not Bad … sometimes, but I think my ex was better. … GF: My ex, the one that I haven't had sex with. I mean, I Wonder what would sex with him be like?
So she's obviously not with you for the sex. That's where the talk about open relationships came from. Wouldn't it be perfect if she could have sex with other men, but still keep you around for whatever your something else is? Obviously I don't know, but I'm guessing that something else isn't something unique to you.
Finally, she told you all this because she had no fear of losing you over it. She takes your attachment to her utterly for granted. That's contempt.
As I see it, there's just nothing in this relationship for you to build on.
Well, if i'm wrong this will be absolutely devastating. But in a way i'm obviously unable to express with my words, i know without any doubt that i am right.
Well, if i'm wrong this will be absolutely devastating. But in a way i'm obviously unable to express with my words, i know without any doubt that i am right.
Well, if i'm wrong this will be absolutely devastating. But in a way i'm obviously unable to express with my words, i know without any doubt that i am right.
To add……Why in the world does a 32m, who can't even afford gas, pursuing a relationship? Sounds………odd at best, sketchy at worst.
19 & 30. hm.
I think that being uncomfortable with your significant other watching porn has become a growing trend. I don’t necessarily think you’re wrong for feeling that way.
The other girls are honestly irrelevant in the big picture. His father told you to stay home and that you’re a distraction, and your boyfriend said absolutely nothing.
If your boyfriend before his father said anything said “hey, this weekend I want to spend some time with my dad just us two this time around,” I’d firmly be on his side. That should be a non-issue.
But what happened was his father insulted you and your boyfriend not only said nothing but brushed it off later. You shouldn’t be ok with that. The girls shouldn’t matter.
That's a very serious crime in most places. Make sure she understands that, and that you're taking it seriously. You tell her to do everything she can to get this footage out of circulation or you'll pursue legal action. A friend wouldn't do this to you, and even if they somehow did it accidentally, they would try to make good.
Honestly, your sister’s behavior sounds weird… Does she like your GF? Because, if she knew/liked your GF, I don’t get why she’d spread rumors about her as fast as lightning…
Did your GF confront the persons who were on the trip with her?
Also, ask your sis if you can talk to the person who gave the info to your sis. You’ll have more insight.
I would absolutely slap the shit out of someone who slapped my partner. Nothing before the arm-breaking was out of line. Calmly breaking his arm in two places after he was already incapacitated is disturbing and did not deliver any message that wasn't already delivered by being beaten heavily.
Lmao they were both smashed and he heard life altering news right before their wedding. Give him a break
you fucked up big time. showed your true colors. what else would you say to her the next time you have a disagreement? will you throw her biggest insecurity just like you did? and out of all the things you can say, you pulled out the big one. you have that locked and loaded. you are a pretty horrible person.
Given how you reacted… do you understand and acknowledge that your wife was correct in being reluctant to tell you that she didn't want kids?
if it makes you feel ick, then it’s ick.
you should talk to him about it and how this makes you feel. if he’s sincere, he’ll actually want to talk about the situation like an adult.
And this, r/relationship_advice, is what true, actual, legit gaslighting looks like. Denying something you have tangible proof happened, that they directly did, while accusing you of being crazy for thinking it happened.
OP, you know she is lying. You know the reason she is lying. You know this path is unsustainable. It’s going to suck, but you know what is going on and what you need to do.
When I (M) have partners with a higher sex drive than myself, I hold back from cumming.
It feels good to have that sexual energy flowing through my body.
It also whets my appetite to have sex again soon.
Maybe you and your partner can try this strategy.
Tell her to go find that better someone
Further context. There is other weekends it can be done on. The weekend I have the tickets for is not the only one, and the event is annual.