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Date: October 7, 2022
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I'm rich people are like that. They don't understand that not everyone lives the way they do. They think that people should have to contribute regardless of the fact that they make more money than them.
Your bf is still stuck in secondary school and sounds very emotionally abusive. I bet his next step is threatening suicide if you break up with him. Honestly, he sounds exhausting and isn't getting the professional help he needs. Take that how you will.
I see nothing wrong with that. It's mutually agreed on, and it works for both of you. Some people want open relationships, it's toxic but if it's what they want and it works for them, what does anyone else's opinion matter?
Totally. I hate to accuse OP of anything but as I'm an armchair psychologist I wonder if he gets a kick out of seeing how vulnerable these girls are, knowing he could do anything to them, but then doesn't because he's not like that.
if this doesn't get resolved it will be very difficult to live together
This will absolutely ruin your relationship. Time to sit down and discuss budgets, splitting bills, etc. The way you're going about this will ruin you financially because you're too embarrassed to speak up. If he isn't reasonable about that, this relationship isn't for you.
You need some fucking therapy. And he should be in jail.
If your parents are that traditional, shouldn't they see him refusing to support his family as a failure to be a husband? I'm sure you didn't sign up for this when you got married.
You’re obsessing. I’d do the same.
This behavior is beyond absurd, it’s outright disrespectful. You set a clear boundary that you don’t want her in bed with him (which already should have been a given without you having to say ANYTHING, for the record) and he stomped all over it. He then turned around and told you that it’s just impossible to set boundaries with that girl, so he’s not even going to bother to try.
Here’s the thing though, is it takes two of them to get in the bed together, even if she won’t listen and she crawls into bed with him, he has options — first, just don’t be in a position where she has any access to the bed (I.e. hang out in public places and don’t invite her to the apt., it’s actually super easy), or second, if he’s still going to invite her to the apartment, don’t get into bed (he can take his nap on the couch if he needs one, or he can send her home before he naps. I mean, hell, worst case scenario he just gets out of the bed if she gets in it with him.)
If he’s going to be with you, he needs to respect your boundaries. Period. And while I personally would probably just tell him it’s her or me, ultimatums aren’t really the most healthy in the relationship. At the very least, the next time she’s offered an Uber, she’s still not staying over. She doesn’t have to take the ride, but she’s definitely not staying here, and if I EVER caught them in bed together again, even if they claim they’re just napping, I would be DONE.
All I’m saying, is if you do talk it out with him, draw your line in the sand and stick to it. No amount of love is worth this kind of disrespect, and lack of loyalty/trust. You’re awesome, my dear, and you deserve the world! I hope you don’t let this guy keep treating you so poorly. You’re still so young, and you have so much time to find someone who will treat you exactly like the queen you are.
Bro she's older than him what are you on about.
Sounds like neither of you should be in this relationship anymore.
That’s ridiculous.
You don’t say anything now…just tell her next time that since she doesn’t keep her word, you’re not comfortable giving her money.
I basically have a “fund” and tell people I help that I’d they don’t pay me back, it’s hot for me to help others. But I don’t loan what I can’t afford to lose and a lot of times. I don’t loan but just give as they just can’t pay me back more than likely.
It is absolutely not safe to go back. Your boyfriend is a dumbass for leaving you there alone knowing that his wacky roommate might pull a gun on you. Don't go back there again. If he's calling you dramatic then I'd break up because he clearly doesn't give a shit about your safety.
There are apps you can use, some of them are couple oriented and each partner answers quizzes.
You summed it up perfectly. You deserve the same love and support you have been providing everyone else.
Tacky to look at X rated sites especially dating a woman with teen daughters. It is disturbing no matter what.
It’s their relationship thou!
The moment he prioritizes his wanking altar over his partners comfort …. Ya gonna have a problem.
You pick the battle you wanna fight.
I live near the border. Right now Tijuana is not safe. More over, that white savior tourism “volunteering” is creepy.
You sound meek and a little spineless. That's probably why she thought she could get away with it.
I helped him by calling the airline in my country and connecting him because he couldn’t call from where he is