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Lying isn’t?? To me that’s the cardinal sin…
I’m sorry that’s how your childhood went ? childhood trauma shapes how we form attachment later on in intimate relationships, as well as interpersonal. From what it sounds like, check into Anxious-attachment type on the internet and see if it fits you!
So those experiences shaped how you respond in relationships today – always having been compared to others, and then when relationships fizzled out the natural cause for you was to assume it was for some other girl that was much more XYZ. You can do that all day long and some girl will always have more of something than you or seemingly be able to offer something than you. BUT, concrete bag or not (which I’m sure you’re not) your husband saw values in you that he chose to marry, just like you did. Blind loyalty is nice and it’s definitely a nice quality, but it can also cause resentment if a partner isn’t as strict about it. Obviously I don’t mean in the cheating sense of that. I mean that blindly avoiding ever looking at or having open discussions about other attractive women is stifling, just as not doing the same towards attractive men is to some women.
It’s great that you choose to ignore all other attractiveness from men, but you can’t assume he’s wired to do the same. If you expect the level of loyalty that means your husband never thinks of another woman ever, then perhaps your husband doesn’t possess that quality and you should take a dive into your relationship and what it means to you. HOWEVER, the more realistic thing in my opinion, is to come to terms that you feel threatened because you place your value below other women’s’ values and that you feel your husband can do better. THAT is problematic thinking and I’d venture to say it is certainly shaped by your past relationship and family trauma. I firmly believe individual therapy followed by couple counseling can help. Once you figure out better thought patterns and develop your own sense of personal security, then you can work with your husband to figure out what needs aren’t being met or how to better meet each others needs.
Maybe you need him to stop being obvious about other attractive women (btw looks are 10% of it, who is to say your personality isn’t everything to your husband?). Or maybe you just need the more occasional reassurance. Or maybe, maybe you get that sense of personal security and you realize that he’s just window shopping and you’re the prize he got to take home. Know your worth!
You are not compatible as friends. It’s no different than if a romantic partner demanded you do something you’re not comfortable with.
Friendship is a choice: you are not obligated to be friends with anyone you don’t enjoy being friends with.
He can proclaim whatever “standards” he wants; that doesn’t mean you’re required to follow them.
Why not just turn it around in him: you’ve set your own standard which is that you’ll text when you fucking feel like texting. Because, honestly, what on earth is the point of a friendship that feels like a goddamn job?
Also: a relationship doesn’t have to be romantic/sexual for it to be toxic. This friendship sounds pretty toxic. He needs to be in control, and does not care about your needs or happiness, only that he gets what he wants from you.
He is not entitled to your time, friendship, or text replies. Either he appreciates having you in his life, or he doesn’t.
I am sure the problem is your weight and not your skin color.
Why the fuck did he leave if nothing happened? GirlF this guy would be long gone.
When you try a new activity with someone new who you like do you give up right away or work at it to improve things? Those are your options! Nothing in life is easy.
Can someone write smth pls ?
Anyone who gives me flowers, I'll tell them I'd rather have equal pay. It's a day to campaign for women's rights, not a Valentines day part 2 focussing only on the woman.
Then why has he not deleted all the folders if they are no use to him now… I’m not buying it… and just looks at facial expressions.. not buying that either..