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His laser-focus goal seems to be simply being around me, being with me. I don't think that's the case with me. I don't know if that makes me a bad girlfriend.
I think about breaking up with him a lot, but sometimes I wonder if it's just self-sabotage and anxiety trying to crush a good thing.
Obviously you can tell about your experiences in the pool but you can prove that he’s still doing the social media creeping.
All these people are giving you very black and white answers to a very nuanced question, and can be safely ignored.
I'm in a similar-enough situation (long term significant other who is the only close family member with money who is very dedicated by nature, and who is legally responsible for a severely disabled sibling) so I know that most people can't really understand the demands it puts on a family. This is partly because a lot of them are from cultures where you wash your hands of any natal family members who get too troublesome to their significant others, and partly because they can't appreciate just how vulnerable profoundly disabled people are. How not constantly supervising them yourself inevitably leads to them being neglected and worse no matter how much money you throw at the issue.
Him moving them in without warning can safely be chalked up to the fact that it was a freaking emergency situation. You shouldn't ignore your feelings, but you also shouldn't let the peanut gallery get into your head. If you can work this out to your satisfaction, don't let outside observers convince you that you're actually not okay with your husband caring for his siblings. It is certainly hot to hear that you are not the number one priority in his life, but, objectively, it sounds like you are getting a lot more out of this relationship than many people with a “number 1” medal.
Honestly, it sounds like he genuinely loves and considers you more than enough to qualify as a great husband. Definitely make sure that your home is comfortable for you, but don't ask for impossible things just because some strangers on the internet have no idea what compromise actually looks like in a situation like this.
This is honestly the best advice I’ve gotten on these comments. Thank you. I want to work on myself but the fears hurt so much. I genuinely want him to be happy. I’m going to reflect on your advice. Thank you
Just take a breath.
So as you've said, your boyfriend has continually grown and changed since you've been with him, for the better, and since he hasn't fully broken off from the longest non-family relationship in his life it suddenly undermines all of this work? No.
What will help is you two moving, I'm sure your bf will over time become even more distant with Rob. Habits and relationships that ingrained are difficult to break when youre still in that environment.
One thing he doesn't need is a bunch of I told you sos or more pressure to just end the friendship now, one thing to think about is regardless of Rob being a jerk, your boyfriend is functionally losing his best friend. Good person or not that affects people. The fact that he's sad about it doesn't make you in bf a bad person, it makes him normal.
As for the mistakes Dave made in the past with Rob, allow your bf space to be different. He made a mistake, he regrets it, he's been paying for it. Do you believe people are capable of change or not? If you believe they are capable of change, then don't place your timeline on his growth.
You claim you worry your bf lacks empathy, and yet you've allowed your hatred of Rob prevent you from feeling empathetic towards your bf. He's soon leaving his home, leaving his childhood best friend, and essentially starting his life over for you. Those being difficult things doesn't mean hes not excited to continue growing with you, it just means they're difficult and meaningful changes.
You two are going to have enough stress with this move coming up. Maybe let up a bit and focus on staying connected to your bf through this big life change.
If I were moving to another city I would feel much more comfortable flatting with someone I already knew and trusted. You have this oppourtunity and it appears the only real issue is him being uncomfortable with you living alone with another guy. Understandable but at the same time if you lived with females, I mean technically the thing he's worried about could still happen….
Perhaps talk to him about your safety. Why would he be okay with you moving in with complete randoms who could do anything while you are there? Would it not make more sense to move with someone who you both already know?
Maybe she was stuck