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Date: December 24, 2022
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I know what I get paid vs what I spend so I don’t check statements often, but you are right I do need to pay more attention to it going forwards. Thank you!
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Ask him to go on r/cospenis (NSFW) for ideas.
That way, you'll have something to look forward to.
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Its good that you trust in her but this is turning into a matter of a healthy anmount of awareness. Losing track of time can happen but not for that long. She decided to NOT engage with you and you have to really see it exactly like that, as brutal as it is.
Confront her with your feelings, be calm and collected but literally do not take any bullshit as an excuse. Break up if she starts lying and try to work it out if she at least apologizes directly and explains to you what was really going on.
If my partner said this to me, I would believe them and break up. A non-negotiable quality in a partner is that they are into women!! Because I am one!
Remove the when he drinks and you will be correct.
If drinking is something he does and he does it responsibly, and there is no abuse, you can't really do anything about it. You simply hate him. It is time to leave.
Nah, mine's awesome.
how about his complete lack of plans for his own future regarding anything
That's a big part of why I don't want them too. Genetic issues I got from my mom that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy much less an innocent child. So I 100% understand her fear. I love my mom but on my worst days I wish she hadn't had me.
nice age gap
New accounts unfortunately don't mean a lot on this sub. A lot of people use throwaways.
I’ve never considered plastic surgery, I mean kudos to the people who go down that route because elective surgery isn’t something I would do just to make other people accept me. I have no doubt that he cares for me a great deal, he would eat shit for me and even when I’ve suggested we break up so he can find someone else he won’t entertain the idea, which makes me wonder if I’m his beard? I don’t know
It sounds as if one day he could say “oopsie, I lost it that time, she's dead.”
Fuckkkk I wrote the letter for when I go to his place but I just realized that he owes my friend some money that he’s has been meaning to give me. Should I meet up with him and just pretend like everything is okay to get the money? Or is it not worth it?
It’s ok to have a good heart, but you can’t fix her. Trust me dude. She’s 19. Dated a couple of people like this for 3+ years each and they all ended terribly. I too thought I could help them, but realistically it was breaking me down and making my life miserable. A 19 year old knows nothing in the grand picture of things, so I’d def leave dude. Problem with being in love everybody thinks “oh this’ll be different, you don’t understand”, but trust me this will not go the way you think. Life can be long and miserable with the wrong partner. You’re 22, enjoy life, you have plenty of time to find a serious partner with little to no drama.
Look, if you are looking for a sugar daddy, go find a sugar daddy. But to me, it sounds reasonable that you are contributing half of what you are earning and getting access to all these you could never afford.
Just fucking tell him. He trusts these people. Values their opinion. They're acting like children and long term mental harassment from them will wreck his self-esteem.
Tell him. Like right now. Why even debate about this.
There are too many red flags here. if it was jsut one or two you could brush it off as coincedence but all these things at once is a problem. I think she is cheating. There is very little reason to take off the ring. There is very little reason she is becoming “tired” of talking to you especially after months of not seeing you, while also not being tired of going out. There is no reason her coworker should be in here room so frequently that late.
All signs points to her cheating. I would advise you stop engaging in first contact and see if she forgets about you.
Dude relax. I’m pretty sure OP got the point, with you being in every reply
The right thing is always to be polite when you turn peoples down. There is no need for honesty apart from being clear that you see her as a friend. If she starts talking about if it is her being a trans – then have an answer ready. Basically say something similar to what you told us. That she is attractive and have a great personality (compliments) but that you feel towards her as a friend but not as romantic partner.
If she ask directly about it – you can always say if the feelings were different it does not matter is she was trans or not. (Which is true – if your feelings for her – were so strong – that you wanted her as a romantic partner then it would not matter if she was trans or not).
Prepare you answer and ensure they are true.
You'll lose most of your friends at your age group by the time you hit 30. It's natural to drift apart, and people making bad life choices generally lead the pack for reasons.
I took would not marry a guy that only exists inside my head.
OP, this is all on you. She told you she wasn't interested in dating you, but you kept right on thinking of her and treating her like your girlfriend. Abandon her morals? That's not what you're angry about. You're angry that she's been fucking him and not you.
Why on earth would she want to remain your friend after the shitty way you have treated her? And let's be clear about this: YOU loved HER. She did NOT love you. She was your friend and you are punishing her for not being in love with you.
You can go low contact with your family.
I'm really sorry to way this… but no. Therapy WILL help. Everything else is a bandaid. And I seriously wish I hadn't been stubborn about it until I was 35. Maybe if I had gotten therapy earlier, I'd be a lot further along now.
You know when they say there's nothing to worry about. That's when you know there's something to worry about. If my husband was like I have this great great friend I'd want to meet her or him. You can't have secret friends in a relationship. You can have privacy and you can have friends but nope, you're not going to go talking and hiding shit.