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Date: October 14, 2022
Yeah, unfortunately, OP, the optics on this scenario are bad. I'm not shocked her husband kind of tweaked. You've been monopolizing his wife's time, bare minimum.
It's not generally a great move to be spending inordinate amounts of time with someone else's spouse. That time comes from somewhere, and it's usually the relationship. Real friends are friends who respect your relationships. It's clear that there's some things the two of them need to work out. And your being there constantly is definitely not helping them do that. I understand you're going through it right now. But they have a family and a life together that needs to be their priority. You being in the middle of that isn't going to make it better or easier.
I'm not trying to be harsh, but look. Don't go trying to insert yourself in somebody else's family right before Christmas, ESPECIALLY when it's clear your presence is causing problems. After that episode, it's pretty clear you need to back off this friendship and give your friend and her husband some space to focus on their family right now. I'm sorry you're struggling. Breakups, especially with kids involved, are tough. And the holidays kind of compound that.
It sounds like the real issue here is that you stressed this friendship because you lack a good support system for yourself. Ideally, you'd spread your friendship needs across multiple friendships so that you're not depending on any one too much. And if you're really hurting for emotional support and or guidance, that's what therapists are for, right?
My wife used to do that. I mean, “let's just see how hundreds of pounds of furniture look over there” usually followed with “no, I liked it better before.” This would happen every few months.
And then after a number of times, I just said no. She struggled, and moved a few pieces around herself, complained, I said nothing. Then it just stopped.
Now, when she wants something moved, she considers it first and is reasonably sure what she wants… and she asks me for help to move it reasonably. So I do, no problem.
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Honesty and communication are essential to a good relationship. That being said, honesty without compassion is bullying. My guy and I have both gained weight over the years and I have stretch marks from pregnancy. It happens. What I find attractive are all the little things he does to make my life easier and make me feel seen. Like the coffee he brings me every morning of my life. Is she making you feel cherished in other ways, or is it all about living and performing up to her standards? If she does show love, then maybe it was an unfortunate choice of words. If not, then you’re in a shallow relationship.