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Date: November 14, 2022
I feel like you can do both, divorce her and then live! as roommates. Not being married would put you in an equal footing. You both pay in to on-line together and support your daughter, your wife is forced to support herself and you only have to pay for your daughter. You don't have to tell her family anything. I agree with the others that providing for her green card is a huge responsibility. But yes, do talk to a lawyer, not a legal advice, but lawyer.
This is a you problem. You need self help. Perhaps therapy? Your gf is NOT your ex. Do not compare them. She is a different person. If you ask her that look through messages, she would feel awful that you don’t trust her. Especially when she didn’t do anything wrong. I’m sure she has private messages with her friends that she doesn’t want anyone to see because they are private. Perhaps other friends venting to her etc. It would be a breach of trust for others.
Perhaps you could explain that you are still healing from past hardships and you are trying to keep your anxious thoughts in check. Explain that you KNOW what a good person she is but you have some residue of old habits and thoughts from your past that you are trying to overcome. Nearly like a form of PTSD. Be honest with her but do not ask to see her messages. She will tell a friend and they will say controlling red flag etc. And you will look like the bad guy. Your thought are just thoughts. Maybe read some self help books such as Good Vibes Good Life by Vex King or the secret series. Meditation etc. They helped me when my stress and anxiety was high.
She didn’t break your trust so you can’t break hers.
I dont think you should continue to pursue her. If someone refuses to go to therapy, or work on issues as a team, things are generally doomed. She's saying “i want what i want when i want it and to hell with your feelings or reasonable concerns”. She's also abusive. Dont downplay physical aggression just bc it wasnt a closed-fisted punch to the face. Abuse is abuse.
Looks like it's time put his money where his mouth is. Next time he asks to hang out with you, just tell him that Brian is coming over to watch a movie, and see how he reacts.
After 3 months? Lol no. Not necessary.
Absolutely not. The uric acid and ammonia in your pee can help to snuff out fungal infections
If you feel uncomfortable in the relationship maybe take a small break and focus on yourself and see if it is better for you plus based on the way they treat their ex tells me he will probably say the same things about you eventually it's just a matter of time so I'd say escape now while you can but ultimately it's your choice.
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Splurge for a bidet seat. That might just solve the problem.
Don't listen to these fools, your bf is weird and inappropriate. You should talk to him, but you need to decide what you want to do if he refused (or agrees but fails) to change.
The fact that you want to help her and keep in contact with her is really sweet, but you need to give her space. Tho I don't see the harm in letting her know that you are there to talk, as a friend, if she wants to.
You’ve already stayed way too long in a relationship you’re really getting nothing out of. If you loved her, there are ways to work on strengthening and rejuvenating the relationship, but if you are having feelings for someone else, it’s probably already too late. Don’t jump into anything serious with your coworker immediately because rebound relationships aren’t usually successful.
Okay, let’s put it another way. Instead of him using his fists on you he’s using his words. Stop making excuses for him, he is ABUSING you, I don’t tip toe around its a very fine line and one day he will cross it, if he hasn’t already. A little shove out of the way, a little smack on the head. Walk away while you still can.
Answering your questions Where I work you can get work down quickly and have a few extra minutes before tackling the next load , she does this and comes to my desk as I work . Loads of our other colleagues do the same but tend to bounce around to one another but she tends to solely come to me when she has these extra moments in her work day . I have spoken to a close work friend of mine who knows our situation and she has told me she she sees what is happening and thinks it’s unfair on her to be acting this way towards me. (I agree yet find myself overlooking this whenever we are together) Responding to work relationships don’t work , I 100% agree with this and go by the “don’t shit where you eat” but I’m up for a slight transfer in my company in a few months which means I won’t be working with her closely or really at all in the future . Maybe I should have mentioned that in the post . Apologies
I'm sorry you're in this situation, but honestly, this isn't something we can help you with, you need to make a decision.
However, I do think you should talk to your gf about this. She may offer you help or reassance. If you want a future with her, then you need to be able to have these difficult conversations, otherwise there is no hope of success even if you do chose her. So, if you can't have this conversation with her, it kind of suggests you aren't actually in a place that would make this relationship work in the long term anyway. She is your partner, you aren't giving her the chance to step up and be your partner if you aren't making plans with her.
That’s your first mistake…why were you ever fine with a package deal? Unless you’re bi and the three of you like to screw around, I have no clue why you would have signed up for the bonkers arrangement.
Some of these responses make me wonder if people are routinely ending friendships with anyone who cheats. Seriously, if they find out that someone cheated on a partner, do they cut ties?
In and of itself, being friends with someone does not mean you condone all of their past choices. Cheating isn’t good. Choosing with whom a partner can be friends is a precarious situation. The one thing for sure is that you and your wife need to really talk about this, and likely would benefit from some therapy.
Let me try to be more direct. She is sick, spoiled, and toxic. She's defending a long-term pedophile rapist and impersonating a SA victim. She doesn't care at all about the feelings of others. This sounds like narcissism, and I don't know enough to say if she's a sociopath or a psychopath.
In short, she's fucking crazy. Don't marry a crazy person, no matter how physically attractive she is.
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They’re all fucked up. Focus on yourself. Be honest. Stop distracting yourself with them. None of this post was about YOUR life.
You don't convince him. You do it for him. You cut him off co.pletely and get yourself sorted. If you really lived him ir is what you would do.
I love my boyfriend I think he is super hot and I am so sexually attracted to him but when I look at sexy pictures to jerk off, it is not to him I like to look at different pictures of different people I would never cheat I would never have sex with another man but when I watch porn I like looking at different bodies having sex I like seeing other beautiful women I like seeing other handsome men it’s exciting and new and different and it’s fun I also think it’s harmless because I’m never ever gonna go to sleep with somebody else the only person I’m actually having sex with me by myself or with my boyfriend and that’s it but sometimes you get bored of eating fillet mignon every single night and you want to look at a burger
And unless she was wearing a turtle neck I don’t see how mud would get on her collar I thought it was only for the face. I know some products can be good on the neck area like when I put my face creams on at night but I never put mud masks far enough down my neck to reach my collar
He didn't do anything wrong, unless there's more to the story. Which you should try to figure out. You can look him up live to see if he licensed.
I personally think she was sexually attracted to her therapist and that's why it happened to easily. Like I said before, if she goes back to the same therapist I would consider this ?.
It’s probably going to be a decision he regrets for the rest of his life. Not immediately or every day but randomly he’ll see something or hear something and boom. All those emotions and what ifs and how old it would be come flooding back. And depending on how much he truly wants the baby, some resentment towards you. It’s ‘like’ having a miscarriage with the feelings. Obviously a choice vs nature but still the same what ifs. However, all that being said, I think the best thing to do is to have another conversation with each other about it and do some soul searching. Because you too, don’t want to have all these what ifs about where your life would be if you chose to go through with it instead of keep it. And, you could resent him. It’s a toughy for sure
Op… RUN. If this is within a year… it will be exponentially worse down the road. Insecurity and paranoia don’t add to good relationships. And being given a lot of stuff does not offset being gaslit, accused and shunned/lovebombed continually. Run.
Both my sisters divorced angry and abusive alcoholics
Your first line shows he's at addiction levels now, as the mood is the result of the lack of alcohol he's intaking at that time, guy needs his fix like any other drug, his body is dependent on the high, so the lows are bigger.
Both my sisters will tell you the same things
They will not stop (correct, one now full blown 24/7 tom hanks in Philadelphia looking, the other literally drank himself to death) Once you divorce, you will hate how long you stayed Once you divorce, you will never look back and think you made a mistake leaving.
They got out soon enough that 3 of their 4 kids didn't grow up in that environment, the one that did, now an alcoholic with no work skills, destined to live with his mom for a long time
Please dont have a kid unless you want too.
My best friend did that because she felt she needed too and its been a horror story ever since. She tries to be a good mom, but shes always annoyed and always super stressed and missing oppertunities she would love while being screamed at constantly by a toddler dosent help at all. On top of that her pregnancy was super high risk towards the end, and her daughter ended up with a heart defect and needed heart surgery at 1 year old. I had to step up and help take care of her daughter 20 hours a week, on top of her mom husband and herself, because she could not handle being a mom with the grace needed for a childs development to go right and try and work
Please please dont have a kid unless you really are ready to deal with everything it entails. She lost most of her friends who didnt have kids, she couldnt hold a job for a long time because someone needed to be home with the sick baby. Children deserve the world and unless you are really dedicated to giving it to them dont have one just to please someone else. If you are really ready put the work in. But make sure you know yourself.
What was the latest conversation about having kids? Was it ‘great we agree on having at least 1’ or was it ‘let’s wait and see’?
If it was the first one then you are right to feel deceived (removing what you said from the picture entirely). If it was the second one then it seems like a follow up convo was needed and never had so not sure you can place blame for that.
Omg wow your reply is amazing and actually made me cry I'm not even kidding. Thank you for taking time out of your day to really give me an amazing, well thought out, insightful reply. ? I struggle with paranoid thoughts and me myself began to wonder if he could be seeing other people but he's actually an amazing guy and I feel like I completely accidentally did him a disservice for not mentioning this but he also deals with mental health things and he himself has depression. I'm an understanding person and I try really really nude to understand others points of view (one of the reasonings for my post actually, couldn't figure out why this is happening at all, don't understand his side at all at all) but after weeks of being pretty much feral and emotional and heartbroken when speaking to him (not the whole time obviously but every few days I'd break down and lash out at him) he told me he's not showing me love and stuff because he's struggling with his own mental health things and I feel like the biggest selfish jerk in the world because in my head even though I KNOW that mental health isn't the same for everyone I couldn't help but be upset and feel like it felt like an excuse because even though I myself am going through one of the worst times in my life and not only crying daily but having the worst anxiety of my life I still make sure to show how much I appreciate him and compliment him and show outwardly how much I care and he doesn't at all return the favor currently. I feel so much heartbreak it isn't even funny but I have such profound feelings that I want to fix this so so so bad but can't seem to do anything.
It really does sound like a weird schedule we have going hahaha but my boyfriend is very much a routine person and he has the same 2 days off every single week and he gives me an entire day one of the days usually the same exact day (Wednesday if you're curious hehehe). I've been to his house a handful of times and have even met his mom!! The main reasons we end up at my house is A). he has 8 cats and I'm actually allergic to cats (but I love them so dearly and take allergy medicine when I do go over and would do it every day to hang with kitties) and B). he's an amazing son and lives with his mom to help her financially so we come to my house for some privacy hehehe.
We actually have never EVER have spoken on the phone, it was my main idea to try to combat the lack of dates or more intimate contact (intimate meaning face to face or at the very least hearing each other's voice, not the other kind hahaha). He said he's awkward on the phone which is incredibly silly imo, we've been dating for nearly 10 months and it really really bothers me that I'm not seemingly worthy of effort. He plays games live! with his friends so I do not see how talking to me on the phone would be at all different. The awkwardness/newness goes away in 2 minutes tops and I can talk for 2 people anyways if needed so I just do not understand and it hurts my feelings.
You seriously hit the nail perfectly on the head and I'm so thankful for your reply because it is so beyond validating. ? I'm genuinely going to do your advice both 1 and 2. I keep crying hahaha hearing you say something so nice just hit hot, I hope you have a nice day!!!!
Otherwise she’s just using you for sex.