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Date: November 8, 2022
You want her ??? like how or what that means?
You want her ??? like how or what that means?
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That’s not right. I mean the road to hell is paved with good intentions and this is one of them. For one thing, and I have had several people now (all women btw) inform me that their friends, or past ones have used these forums for petty revenge over break ups. Evidence can be manufactured pretty, and other times it’s a he said she said, but in this case, the other side does not get to tell their side. Who wants their photo plastered in any of these kind of sites, even if positive feedback is given? I don’t, do you? And no one deserves that after a great date without any actual red flags to suggest a potential problem.
It's been 10 years plus he's 36yo. He's too old for this nonsense.
There is no gain for your relationship for him to let her into your lives.
How was she even able to contact him?
Every therapist is opposed to continuing contact with an Ex . It's high risk to re ignite and it's disrespectful to you.
I suggest you put your foot down. He chooses you or her and choosing you means zero contact with her.
At a minimum, inform him that you insist on attending lunch. No secrets.
And bring questions of your own (like what's her interest on him?)
This guy is possessive and controlling, trying to isolate you, it is a classic move that abusers use early in a relationship. His insecurities are HIS to work through, preferably with a therapist. The fact that he's trying using this “self employed” bullshit to get you away from other men so he can control you is really disturbing.
I don't care if he got cheated on in the past. Again, that is HIS issue to work through, and he is punishing YOU for it. If he can't get over his insecurities and get his controlling behavior under control, then he's in no condition to be in a relationship with anyone.
Do NOT marry this guy, at least until he's been in therapy for this for a year or so. Otherwise you're going to be back here posting, “I should have listened to all of you on Reddit when you told me not to marry my controlling boyfriend. My love for him blinded me to the truth and now I don't know how to get away from him.”
God. He’s a big mid-life crisis alcoholic baby. Gee whiz, he’s going to die one day and his life doesn’t look at all like he dreamed it would. The best possible course of action is to blame his SO for everything and blow it all up.
This wasn’t supposed to be his forever home? Too bad. It’s what you can afford.
He wants more sex so his love language must be physical touch and, of course, your feelings don’t matter.
Also? His drinking? Your fault, naturally. You’re leaving him all alone in that house he was supposed to have upgraded from by now, and hello? you’re still not touching him!
Seriously, he’s classic mid-life crisis. His feelings are real, but do not accept responsibility for his crap & don’t allow him to rewrite history. His current problems aren’t your fault, but he’s unwilling to accept responsibility. I hope therapy helps.
Screenshots or not, it sounds like what you said left a mark. It's weird that he insists on keeping the screenshots and honestly if I were him and I couldn't get over what you said, I'd tell you I can't forgive you and then agree to end it.
To be honest neither of you sound are put in a good light in this story lol. He's making himself a martyr, projecting the blame from you onto him even though you're responsible for your words AND he's keeping screenshots in order to psychologically torture himself? Not to mention that via his voluntary martyrdom, he is also forcing you to coddle and feel even more guilt over what you did because now he's telling you that he's using it to perpetuate the cruelty of what you said to him. He is not giving you a chance to learn and mature from this fight.
And in your case, you were quick to anger and resorted to a hurtful, cruel personal attack over a misunderstanding. I'm not sure I would forget a SO for that.
You're both not treating the other fairly, and frankly not respecting yourselves either.
If he can't forgive you TRULY then y'all can't stay together. If he wants to be a martyr in any way, y'all can't stay together.
And work on your anger/impulse control, think twice before saying blunt/hurtful shit out of anger, or else your relationships will all suffer.
You’re casually ignoring what constitutes a healthy boundary in a relationship
I am not. OP presented her boundaries to her new partner that she’s not gonna date someone friends with a formal flame (term loosely used)
and devaluing friendship
A friendship that he was all too happy to set aside for someone he’s been dating for a month. Remind me how much value that friendship holds? Would you ditch someone you’ve known for decades for a new partner? For me it depends- a casual acquaintance, sure! Someone important to me – absolutely not
The fact that OP is a grown man bears no significance on the quality of the choices his partner presented him with
And why exactly is that? Isn’t that what being a grown man/woman mean? That you are expected to weigh the pros and cons of your own choices and make an informed decision? I don’t remember reading that OP held a gun to his head. Also it’s not like OP is the last woman left on earth, he wouldn’t have had a shortage of other partners if he wanted to leave.