0 views
Press right there to start video or
Room for live! sex video chat _Bella-Rose_
Model from: de
Languages: de,en
Birth Date: 1985-05-03
Body Type: bodyTypeAthletic
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBlue
Subculture: subcultureGlamour
Date: September 30, 2022
People mess with their conception/ due dates when the dates don’t match a story. How sure are you that the baby was actually that “early”?
thank you for taking the time to read and answer,, i'll take by your advice and see
Well, if he is visiting, why jot gift him a ticket for some tourist attraction / show in your country?
I’d ick my way right out the door sister
So you want a tenant not a girlfriend
Absolutely my concern. He most likely did more with her than he's leading on. Don't risk the baby- lots of diseases can be passed on.
He's proven he's a liar. Do you want that as an example for your kids? On the flipside, he might try for split custody of his kid. Be prepared.
COERCION IS NOT CONCENT
You cannot change another person's character, including this guy's. Please realize that he is a fabulist, and not a very skilled one either. You will always have the BS meter running with him, and who needs that?
There are plenty of honest and successful men out there for you. Don't waste more time on this one.
If her story has so many holes in them, then most likely she’s not telling the whole story and you still don’t have the whole truth.
Thank you for the advice & kind words friend.
We will be taking a trip to the doctor together next week to see the best way of moving forward!
She’s such an awesome girl, just got dealt a shitty situation from a shitty person. I can’t blame her, it’s not her fault. I told her we’d figure it out together 🙂
She broke up with you to have guilt free sex then when she got it out of her system she went back to you. Hope you dumped and blocked her cause you deserve so much better
Hello /u/ExitCa11,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Just echoing everyone's thoughts, but a burst appendix is a major deal. So major that many states/countries have laws stating that an inflamed appendix must be removed within 24 hours to prevent sepsis or death. Additionally, aftercare is really important because you need to keep the incision clean and take antibiotics.
That said, I started feeling bad on Father's day one year. It is supposed to be a day where you celebrate your child's parent. I told my husband that I needed to go to the hospital because something was wrong and he immediately jumped into action. He didn't think of himself or the ruined holiday at all. I'm eternally grateful to him because he saved my life that day. If I waited even a couple more hours, my appendix would have burst and I could have died.
Please put this experience into the perspective it deserves. If someone loves you, they will make taking care of you a priority. Your BF doesn't make your health a priority. He views it as an obstacle to him doing fun things. He is not a partner.
A lot of people might be uncomfortable and could express that calmly, but taking her phone and impersonating OP to decline the job offer is ridiculously controlling. He’s not her parent and doesn’t get to make unilateral decisions like that.
Hello /u/ifonlywecouldbethere,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Simply put I think you lack confidence, but I wasn’t super confident at 21 and I don’t expect you to be, especially in your first relationship.
You build it though. This is a good opportunity to take steps that do that.
You gotta communicate things you want or need that address an insecurity in a positive way so you can move past it.
You bring up issues to you in a personal way and a positive way.
“I’m feeling like (blank), I think if we did (blank) it would help this not effect me so much. I value you so much because (blank) what do you think?”
As men we usually crave validation
Working that into how you regularly address issues unless we really messed up and don’t deserve it, is how you get the best out of us and keep getting the best out of us to help you build that.
By talking about things you challenge your partner to be able to step up and meet your needs, or do things because you want to at points. Good partners step up and do them and give you that challenge back at times.
Please read the sub rules before posting.
The fuck is he on about?
Throughout your married life, you both will go through several periods of intense stress due to any number of life events. If this is how your husband acts when he is confronted with damning evidence of something creepy he has done, then it doesn't bode well for your future together.
Please think about your child's safety and welfare and your own. He may not be husband material after all.
How did you expect this to go?
You just leave, and try to be at least a bare minimum acceptable human in the future.
Stop talking to any of them.
You'll make new friends and you learned some valuable lessons. That's whats important.
surprised Pikachu face
It's ok to find it ugh. It feels shady because it actually crosses boundaries the even open relationships sometimes don't mess with – having sex with a friends partner.
I would check with her friend that she's in an open relationship and genuinelyhad no issue with her friend sleepingwith her bf.
However, I'm pretty sure you'll always picture your gf with her friends bf though. I think most people like a partner that is honest, loyal and faithful towards them, and her having sex with a friends bf (open relationship or not) doesn't scream loyal (in this case to a friend or relationship). It says her boundaries are not yours, and that her choices are not ones you would make. So even though it was before you, it has caused you to consider that with those very open boundaries that she is clearly ok with having sex with someonewho'sa friends significantother, she might be ok cheating with others too.
If her friend says: oh sure, it was all good… will that reassure you? Is there always going to be a question over whether she wants an open relationship? Do you want that? Ultimately, you need to ask yourself if your morals and boundaries are radically different, is she the right person for you?
I would say that he has violated your trust. He has been secretive about the procedure and the money. He didn't discuss either with you in anyway and instead bought himself an extravagant gift. He has much to apologize for.
The question is: what else has lied and hidden from you? How will you know? What assurance could he possibly give you now so that you know he isn't lying in the future? He has no problem lying to your face. He has the attributes of a conman but not a good spouse.
I don't know how a relationship can survive such lies, about the surgery and the money. He didn't lie once but every day that he hid it from you. I suggest marriage counseling if your relationship is to have any chance in the long haul.
End the relationship. I'm not even sure I'd consider this emotional cheating as it sounds like he never stopped loving her. Do you know why they got divorced? Even if they married so she could have a green card they could have stayed married if they wanted.
Whatever the case, he's never going to let that relationship go, and if the Ex ever wants to reconcile he will leave you in a heartbeat. Do not build a life on an already cracked foundation. Do not accept being the second choice.
Possibly naevity just cause it glorified in some film and some say its great and ya toes may curl . Doesn't mean it won't change the dynamic just for wanting to get off. People are free to do what they want but is it worth it. Cause no matter what some say sexual acts stimulate certain hormonal triggers and connection bonding. It's why cheating destroys relationships 98 %of the time. It breaks the bond connection some say you can love two people and yeah you can 50% of the time either the person wants to continue there so called sexual experience last horah. Or they catch feelings and gradually don't feel the same connection to the long term connection they was totally enjoying stable norms connection they already had. Sometimes kiss that relationship good by or be ready for the partner to want to experience something that you may not want the it only fair effect. Open a can worms pop a balloon and win a prize. It's opens up to that Happy Cake day effect. Don't risk it if your not prepared for bad out come could be good one but there that not knowing chances it could go sideways is worth losing fun and good faithful partner from what you know anyways.
Not to be that guy but adults just don’t kiss
My mom couldn't stand my wife. She called her a b*tch and constantly degraded her. That was the way she was and she always had issues. Her main problem is that she didn't like any woman that was with me and wanted me to herself. My wife and I have been married for a quite a long time. My mom passed away, and I miss her, but I never put her above my wife.
I know it sucks, but keep in mind that it may not be personal. You could be a goddess and you might still get the same reaction. Minimize contact if you can. For me it was easy, I lived a thousand miles away from my mom and I felt bad for her that she was unhappy, yet supported my wife. We still occasionally visited, but only a handful of times.
And my wife…she was 100% in support of me having a good relationship with my mom…because her mom died when she was young.
Divorce your husband. Keep the baby. Be happy. Your relationship with your husband is over.
Girl why the hell are you with him? He sounds awful and you're clearly affected by choices he refuses to change. Leave him immediately you will find someone who is crazy in love with you. This “man” is an embarrassment to society
Had you agreed to be exclusive, or were you still just dating? If you’d only been on a couple of dates, I don’t think you could claim exclusivity, unless you had specifically discussed this.
My advice is to stay no contact. If you choose to respond, only say, “Do not ever contact me again.” Save copies in case you need a restraining order. Abusers do not change. He has been an abuser for 40 years. He has even more practice now. Everything about his email screams he is still a toxic person. That isn’t someone you want in your life. You don’t have to forgive him. Not for him. Not for you. Not for anyone. The best thing you can do is act as if he doesn’t exist and move on with your life. Keep building your own happiness!
But what in the post seems to agree with her cheating? Other than the one that confused you, I can't see a single thing that would make anyone think that. It seems like all the things she says backs up that she didn't cheat. I just don't understand how you can seriously think that the context of the rest of the post doesn't clear up any possible confusion.
I had a TAH, meaning no cervix or uterus. Should I still get the HPV Vaccine and papsmears?
My first love I was with for 5 years. There's a reason they are first loves. You'll move on eventually and maybe she will too. You might be going in different directions.
Look, if you injured your partner and he was unable to fully recover from it, if you felt guilty and wanted him to forgive you, would you become annoyed if he healed more slowly than you expected?
Or would you support him in healing and feel lucky to have a chance to make amends?
The answer to that is crucial in understanding if you love him. The same is true for him. If he loves you in a real, meaningful way, he will help you to heal. If he doesn’t want to do that, he doesn’t love you with enough depth and he will definitely injure you again.
And that therapist is so completely out of line. Kick him to the curb immediately, your self esteem does not need his bs.
Being uncomfortable doesn't make not coming the right thing to do though. I don't know if I want to come or not.
It’s really telling that he views outgoingness as a “masculine” trait. It sounds like he wants a meek, subservient woman who doesn’t have thoughts or opinions of her own. Not really a cute look for him.
This is a sticky situation because you WORK with your fiancé. In a normal situation, yes you should be able to tell your significant other everything. But when you work for the same company, that restricts things. You shouldn’t have told him, because now if it gets back around to whoever told you, they will immediately know you’re at fault for spreading that information.
OP is obviously being used and you’re comparing yourself to her partner? Weird flex, but okay.
There is a lot going on and I'm not sure how helpful a reddit comment will be, but herd I go.
Your boyfriend has a lot of demons. A long term goal is to get him to agree to therapy, but that may be difficult. The best thing you can do for him is to be there for him and increase his engagement with life and grow his support network.
Getting him involved in activities with you and friends outside the pub will be most helpful. Allow him to be vulnerable with you and be a safe person, but never act like you pity him or infantilize him. I'm not saying you do, but that can be what primes his defense mechanisms.
If/When he does agree to therapy, he should have as much control of it as possible and choose his own therapist and therapy routine. People engage in therapy best if they feel like it's their choice.
Hope that helps.