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Date: October 20, 2022
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You know.. outside of Reddit and sex positive places. Alot of people wouldn't be OK to learn that the person they are with slept with someone they considered a friend or hell, even knew the person.
It's kinda normal to not want the person you're with to not have history with people you know. It's just uncomfortable for alot of people. Not everyone thinks the way you or I do. It's just reality and calling someone insecure isn't gonna change that and more so worldwide.
Oh hell no, I'd be putting my foot down hot. If you can't break up/dump him right away – next weekend rolls around you contact the BM and tell her she needs to come pick up her daughter because you told your BF you were not available to care for her. Tell her how long he's been dumping his parenting time onto you. Undoubtedly, they will both freak out and there will be a massive shitstorm. Dude's had it coming. Use the wave to both boot him out and dump him.
You are a giant pushover oh my god
To clarify:
You entered the relationship NOT wanting to marry, he DID want to.
Then you changed your mind and DID want to and he changed his mind and DIDNT want to?
I’d say you are wrongly judging him for changing his mind when you did so just as much.
“Marriage material” is a ridiculous term. It means anyone who isn’t married isn’t marriage material- and that is far from the truth. Don’t ruin a good relationship over a societal expectation and governmental paper.
If you’re common law, you’re already married in the eyes of the law. If you want to officiate it further, get a write up done by a lawyer to ensure you have access to each other in hospital in case of emergency, and there you go. Your rights are now 100% the same as married people in the eyes of the law.
If it’s a show of commitment that you want, then have an unofficial ceremony.
Divorce is not cheap- there are more legalities involved and it’s more expensive to separate if you have a marriage license. That’s the only difference.
HOWEVER, your issue has nothing to do with marriage. Your issue is that your partner isn’t showing affection- and a marriage isn’t going to fix that. You need to go to therapy as a couple to fix that. If your partner is not responsive to you communicating your needs then that is a massive problem.
I’ve been with my SO for 11 years (never marrying), and he is all over me every day. It just seems to me that you have incompatible love languages.
Same. I don't wear mine when I travel for the reasons you stated.
It is impossible to have a healthy, normal conversation between two grown adults when one is delusional and acts like a child.
Put up cameras in the house I’m sure she’s cheating
I have no idea because I don't see him at work, and he said that I “don't know how he is at work” because it's none of my business. Apparently, it was when he showed me the written review of his training assignment that came back really good, but then he told me about how he returned the award weeks after it happened because he wanted to ask if it was the reason he didn't get it
He’s trying to make you leave him, so he doesn’t look like an asshole for dumping a pregnant woman.
Ummm … I'd be real blunt and very private with my conversation , but future BIL would not go through with that little prank .
There's been a non-zero amount of times when I was a young kid where you'd have sex somewhere you totally shouldn't and just dump the evidence somewhere. I don't think anything nefarious is happening here.
I don't believe he is assuming you're wrong. I think he's assuming he can mess with your head by pretending like he believes that you're wrong. Both if the worst gaslighters/emotional abusers I ever knew used “I'm not perfect” as a defense and had many other people convinced that they were wonderful people.
If you're not ready to consider that, I would turn it back on him a bit. Act like you really believe that he's incapable of remembering the very simple fact that accents exist. Repeat it all slow and overly sympathetic. Pat his hand or his cheek kindly. If he dares to correct you in front of people, “yes, and” that sucker. “He's such a wonderful person, but he gets so confused by my accent! Why, the other day he was completely flummoxed when I said aluminum, isn't that adorable?” I bet he'll stop “forgetting” right quick.
Ring the board of education and if you can find his wife – ring her
How did he explain/ justify the ring debacle? “I wanted to put a stamp of ownership on you”? And how did he react to being broken up with?
There's a difference between watching porn and what he's doing
Yes 100% tell her because if she finds out years down the line, she will question your while relationship and drive herself made think ya'll was laughing at her behind her back about fucking eachother,
Just tell her, I want to be honey say you and blah blah use to hook up, nothing serious but it fizzled and you decided your better as friends, and that's all you see eachother as now.
it’s the attachment i’m having trouble with
Unfortunately, only by pretending he has these feelings to begin with. He's obviously got a lot going on and you're clearly not at the top of his priorities list. So to try to talk yourself into being “confident” about a situation that isn't worthy of that confidence is kind of a form of self delusion on your part. Don't set yourself up for sadness. This is a casual thing for him and if you can't be okay with that then you should probably protect your own feelings by not seeing him anymore. It's never good in the long run to try to see things that aren't there.
Being logic driven doesn't make you emotionless… That's a non-sequitur.
I'm sorry but if you hadn't had this test you wouldn't have known about it, so what would she have done then
Wait? Why didn't you just reread his texts? He probably thinks you have a drinking problem.
I’m with everyone else here. You have a job with a schedule you have to work around. She stays home and is not regulated by any schedule other than yours. She can adjust. Yes keeping a house can be a lot of work but again, there’s no schedule to it. She should definitely adjust to you in this.
you have a hidden camera in your home. It’s possible that he’s hidden cameras in other peoples homes too
Jesus Christ, you watch too much TV. They're all selfies.
You should not pursue her
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